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Online English Course For Family

2010-04-11T17:26:00.000-07:00

Online English Course For Family To Get Started
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In case you have no knowledge about English or if the exposure to English language has been minimal then you can instantly get stared by taking up online English courses for family. If you are a beginner then you can take up courses from the basics. They are thought in a simple way that even a small child can take up and start speaking fluent English by the end. You can even learn to write in English through these online English courses for self and for family. This can be of great advantage to you if you are planning to move abroad to an English speaking country specially to build your career or for further studies.

The beginning of this online English course for family is with grammar lessons and with its basics. Through this course you will learn how verbs and adjectives are used in the language. Sooner you will learn the advanced speaking tricks. The online course will also give you exercises to be done such as reading out dialogues and short stories so that you improve in your pronunciations. These courses provide you with all the tools you will need with assistance round the clock if you might have some difficulty. Although the basic course is mainly based on verbs and conjugation you will still be exposed to other aspects of the language, like placement of verbs in the sentence including pronouns and how they are used. You can easily find an online English course learning opportunity and can be availed through simple registration.

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A Family Legacy

2010-03-20T21:17:00.001-07:00

A Family Legacy by Stanley Hein
in Family (submitted 2010-03-18)

Leaving a family inheritance is a gift that would be shared throughout ages. They come in some kinds. They are left by one individual in a family or many members of the family. They vary in price. They have one feature in common; they would all be treasured by future ages.

One means to share a family inheritance is to pass along a family heirloom. For example, family members would pass along a treasured Bible that includes important documentation of marriages and births throughout the years. They would leave a picture album which is comprised of some pictures of families from the past and present. Families must also leave jewelry, a quilt, or personal love letter written by great grandparents.

People will also give a establishment as a family heritage. This organization can be a provision of revenue for generations to come. The income can be split for a college education. It would be applied to fund entrepreneur efforts of other family relatives. Additionally, it would be used by family relatives who require the funds to pay bills when they are experiencing a financial hardship. Family members who can like to set up a organization for these purposes could visit a qualified attorney to structure the legal terms in which the funds are to be allocated. Things such as houses, classic automobiles, and boats must be given to future generations. For example, families can have a vacation home that they use to have big family reunions. The house will contain furniture, dishes and other items left behind from past generations. Portraits must be hung on the walls. Every generation must leave personalized messages throughout the building to encourage the next group of family relatives. Imagine reading an encouraging message from a loved member who lived over one hundred years ago.

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Leaving a family inheritance is a gift that would be shared throughout ages. They come in some kinds.

Present from parents in law

2010-03-04T01:55:00.000-08:00

How to Take Good Care of Your In-laws? by Deepa Mehta
in Family (submitted 2010-02-27)

Marriage is a method of creating new family. You got to be more responsible and need to take care of your family. But besides taking care of your family, we will also get a responsibility to your in laws. It is not an easy task to fulfill all of your matrimonial duty right after the marriage. But with patience you will learn how to do it.

First of all the parents of your partner needed to be considered. If you are the bride, the family of your husband expects you to help in the household works. In the Indian culture, the newlywed bride usually goes for cooking in a very time after the marriage. The mother of the groom expects her daughter in law to help her in the kitchen as well as other household activities. The father wishes her daughter in law to serve him food and tea timely. On the other hand the parents of the bride wish to get a good response from the son in law in every social event. They want a dutiful son in law who will look after them and always take care of any of their problem. If the parents of the bride are not financially stable they want their son in law to take care of it.

Both of the parents of the bride and the groom expect their in laws respect. They want their daughter in law and son in law follow every social occasion and so they can have a good impression in front of their relatives. They also expect gentle and obedient behavior from their in laws. This kind of gesture is more important in the Indian subcontinent region where there is a strong bond in the family and the bride usually lives with the parents of the groom after the marriage. If the newly married couple does not live with the parents, it is still a traditional ritual that the son in law and the daughter in law show proper respect the parents of each other.

Then comes the other in laws like the brothers and the sisters of the bride and the grooms. The in laws from the husband side usually with their sister in law will take care of them. The bride needs to look after the younger in laws like if they eat or done other daily activities. The older in laws expect her to show proper gesture and look for if they have any problem solvable by her.

In case of groom, the most important activity is financial besides asking how his in laws are doing. In any social occasion, his in laws expect gift from him. He can also give experienced opinion if any of his in laws asked him so. But usually in the Indian culture, the brother in law has nothing much to do except financial help.

We know that someone's inner characteristics can't be determined before marriage. But you can learn many thing if you go through the personal details before the marriage. The matrimony site http://www.matrimonyhouse.com can help in this. We try to gain as much information as possible of our clients and try to provide the best quality service. You can find much necessary information in http://www.matrimonyhouse.com about the person you select to marry which will help you to take right decision.

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Deepa Mehta writes on behalf of http://www.matrimonyhouse.com, India's fastest growing matrimonial website. http://www.matrimonyhouse.com enables users to create and search Indian matrimony profile on the website. Registering, Searching, and Contacting prospective groom and bride are absolutely free.

Big Decisions, Baby Registy

2010-01-26T02:42:00.000-08:00

Preparing for a new family member

2010-01-26T02:39:00.000-08:00

Preparing the New Arrival of a Family Member with a Baby Registry by Fortunato
in Gifts (submitted 2010-01-26)

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Although not all of these concerns will be addressed, one area of concern that can be addressed is through a baby registry. So what exactly is a baby registry?

A baby registry is simply a gift registry for the arrival of a baby into a family. Couples who are expecting their baby to arrive within a few months can get a baby registry for nursery furniture. With the baby registry, they could receive cash gift certificates from visitors, friends, cousins, relatives, and other family members.

Aside from getting a baby registry for nursery furniture, a couple can also get a baby registry for raising an education fund. With the registry, the couple can start saving early for the college education fee for their baby.

So to get started, all the things that the couple needs to know is where to register their baby registry and how to register for it.

Usually couples prefer a national retail chain or an online cash registry when registering for a baby registry. Choosing a national retail chain makes it easier for friends and family member in ordering long-distance gifts. Aside from national retail chains, an online cash registry provides another good alternative. Online cash registries are currently being offered by many online websites such as AGreatAffair. With the cash registry, guests, friends and family members can have more freedom in sending cash for gift items.

Creating a baby registry for nursery furniture or an education fund can be quick and simple. The couple only needs to list the gifts, break down the prices for each gift, and invite guests to visit the webpage of their registry.

Usually it is recommended that a couple registers for only one baby registry. Having more than one registry can be confusing for those who will be sending gifts for the registry. Having one registry is also easier to manage. For more information about how to create a gift registry, bridal registry, or wedding registry, please visit http://www.agreataffair.com/.

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A computer professional who works on the internet helping AGretAffair increase its viewers through optimization. For world class Wedding registry visit us online at www.agreataffair.com

Family And Freeing Problems

2009-09-15T02:42:00.000-07:00

Family And Child Development

2009-09-15T02:38:00.000-07:00

Family And Child Development by Art Penz

The main engine of development of a child is the accumulation of human values from the family. Human values broadly defined, has several aspects, including love, respect for elders, kindness, co-operation, honesty, politeness, patriotism, sympathy and empathy are considered to be a key determinant of developed personality. The personality of a man is depended upon the family in which he lives which is portrayed in a family tree. Better formation from the family generates the child's mental growth and there by benefits the society.

"Education which does not teach us to discriminate between good or bad, to assimilate the one and eschew the other is a misnomer," said Mahatma Gandhi. The purpose of education is not only to make our children literate and merely develop individual skills but to make them appropriate human beings with positive and integrated elements of their respective societies. Thus such values as punctuality, cleanliness, respect for elders, helping the less fortunate, team work and discipline, give the socially integrated citizens a better place to live on this earth. We know the process of social integration begins in the family. Researchers observe a positive relation between family and society. As family is the cradle of social life, we can say that good social beings come from good families. A person's character, skill and social awareness are determined by the family which he or she lives. The training from the family should be a means drawing out the best of the body, mind and spirit in a child. The experience in the family should be joyous to the child. Then only the child can develop a positive attitude towards society. On the other hand a child who experiences any kind of hardships from the family has a chance to develop negative attitude towards him and society, which may end up his or her life as anti-social or unscrupulous. Here the role of family to bring up the child in the proper channel can in no way be under looked.

Milton in his 'Paradise Regained' has said, "The childhood shows the man as morning shows the day". Wordsworth expresses the same fact though less poetically but more cryptically when he says "child is father of the man". Both the poets positively assert that childhood lend itself to prediction that tomorrows man is there in today's child just as the future tree is there in today's seed, invisible to the naked eye. If the skills and capabilities in the child be properly channelized we witness great personalities - genealogy - who challenge the dynamic world. The lives of much great man illustrate this point of view. Napoleon had built forts of snow as a child, Nelson as a child never knew what fear meant, Macau lay talked printed words even as a child of two years. These people and many such kept up their childhood promises and became great men in later life. We can undoubtedly say that such personalities will derive only from a better home-environment where family values and traditions are practiced. Family tree sites like generationdb.com help to keep track of our own family history and genealogy.

But we also see a number of boys and girls who score brilliant ranks in schools and colleges and show great promise, but soon vanish in the wilderness of shapeless future. Nobody knows what had happened to them except perhaps their own near and dear ones. Like drops of rain that falls on desert sand they disappear. The complexities of life, the problems that face them perhaps overwhelm them. Their facilities disintegrate by degrees and they move to obscurity. They are the people who need guidance. Better home-environment would keep their inner light burning.

The mind of a child is something like a piece of wax which can be easily fashioned into any shape we want, the only thing is, and it needs the skilled hand of a master artist. The virgin mind that is not ravaged by the complexities of life is ready to receive; whatever is planted will grow; thorns or flowers; gardens or grasslands. Give it to a Jijibai or Moropanth. The world will witness 'Sivajis' and 'Lakshmibahais' give it a Dhritarshtra, the world will be plagued with Duryodhanas and Dussasanas.

This brings out the importance of the family-environment that shapes the mind of a growing child. A happy home as seen on a family tree created on generationdb.com with loving parents will definitely contribute the healthy growth, while a suffocating atmosphere in the family might crush the fair promises. The fast disintegrating family life, as a result of pseudo-civilization which has rung a death knell to many time tested values is at the root of the crisis of character and growing unrest all over the world. In short the role of parents in a child's overall development is definitely a crucial one. We have lots of tips for taking it further. Don't criticize or compare the child with others, encourage the child in any of his or her creativity, praise the child in success, provide honest answers to the child, be patient to the child, parents should try to build a genuine relationship with the child, try to understand the feelings of the child, share the happiness and sorrows, satisfy the child's social and psychological needs and we will witness challenging personalities.

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Family

2009-08-31T01:13:00.001-07:00

Family

2009-08-31T01:12:00.000-07:00

Learn Your Family History by Alvin Mitchell

There are over 6.5 billion people living on earth today. As you can see, there are quite a lot of people living on earth today and everyday, thousands more are being born and starting a family. In any kind of society, the family is the most important part of it. You have to consider that the family is what makes up the society and you have to realize the fact that as a person, you have to know that it is important that you should respect your family. Besides, without your family, you wouldn't even be here.
However, you also need to consider that because of time, a lot of families went their separate ways and as more time passes, both family groups don't even know that they have distant relatives living today. More and more realizes that they need to get in touch with their distant relatives and know about their family's past. Some people say that it is a way to find your identity, some do it for fun and some people say that it is a great activity of self discovery for the whole family to enjoy.

This kind of research is called genealogy. By finding out about your genealogy, you will be surprised that you are related to people you don't even know or people who are Hollywood superstars. For example, you wouldn't believe it but President George W. Bush and his political rival democrat John Kerry are actually very distant cousins as well as Playboy founder Hugh Hefner. It's quite a surprise finding out that George W. Bush and John Kerry are relatives owing to the fact that they are political rivals.

There are even people who were surprised to find that they have Hispanic blood running through their veins even when they are actually African Americans. Some Hispanic Americans even discovered that they are even related to American Indians. First of all, the United States is composed of different people and different races. Because of this, you can expect to find some Native American blood or European blood in your family.

Although finding out about your family's genealogy can be difficult, you have to consider that it is also a fun activity for the whole family. You can share information about your family's genealogy and you can also find share documents that are vital to find your family's ancestors, such as birth certificates, marriage certificates, death certificates, and immigration documents.

So, why not start rediscovering your family's past by rummaging through your family's documents or research about it in the public library? Although you may encounter some dead ends, you can be sure that once you find out about your ancestry, everyone will have a pleasant surprise that you are related to someone famous in the past, whether they contributed some good to society or whether they were once outlaws in the Wild West.

You can be sure that finding your family's genealogy will be full of surprises. Who knows, maybe you are even related to a famous political figure or a famous icon in modern society.

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Family Vacation

2009-06-15T07:35:00.001-07:00

Planning Tips for Family Vacation

2009-06-15T07:31:00.000-07:00

7 TIPS FOR PLANNING THE PERFECT FAMILY VACATION by Donna Davis Mixon

Family vacation getaways can be one of the greatest experiences in a family. Some of the best memories (and snapshots) are created during family visits to the beach, theme parks, or historical parks or museums just hanging out having fun.

Family vacations are known for bonding times but they're perhaps as equally well known for being stressful times. So, how do you make sure that those memories are all good? Here are some surprisingly simple tips for keeping your family smiling on your next family vacation.

1. First and foremost, think through your Family vacation getaway carefully.

Sara* and her husband have always taken their children to the Bahamas for a week. Two weeks before they leave, she finds out she has been laid off. They still go to the Bahamas, but with the layoff looming over their heads it just isn't the same good time.

In this economy, the number one tip is to make sure you can comfortably afford your trip - and have enough extra in case an unforeseen emergency arises. Nothing ruins a vacation faster than worrying about how you're going to pay the electric bill when you get home.

2. Don't forget; the best memories aren't about where you are, but who you're with. If you can't reasonably afford a week-long trip to the beach this year, try taking a "staycation," and going somewhere nearby. Maybe two trips a month or so apart. You'll have quality, fun time with your family, and still be able to stick to your budget.

3. Head to the internet or your local chamber of commerce to find some new ideas for planning your next trip. There are thousands of places you can go on vacation in any part of the country. Keep your mind open, and you just may be surprised at some of the places you find to go.

4. Use Vacation Packages.

Mark* always stays at the same hotel when he goes on vacation. It's pricey, but he likes the amenities and the location. One day, he's on the internet, and visits a budget travel site on a whim. He finds out he can not only save money on his trip, but can stay in a hotel that's just as nice for nearly half the price. He books the vacation package and uses the money he saved for activities he might have missed out on otherwise.

MD Resort in Fort Worth, Texas, for example, offers a two night family vacation package for up to four guests for less than $400 that includes a home cooked breakfast, light lunch and hearty dinner, free tea, hot chocolate, popcorn, and lemonade. They also have a five day and six night family package for just under $800 if you're looking for a longer stay. Both packages are all inclusive with meals, indoor and outdoor fun, access to their beautiful 37 acre ranch and all their fun activities. Like many other resorts, they also offer couple getaways and corporate packages, as well.

Also don't assume that just because you're visiting an out of the way area, or staying at a small, quaint bed and breakfast that they don't offer vacation packages. You may be surprised at the convenient, cost saving offers you may find. NOTE: Not all packages are created equal, so before you commit to one, make sure to read all the fine print. Some packages have cumbersome requirements or hidden fees. If you have any question at all about an offer, call or email the offering company and have them clarify. Be sure you get the name of the person you spoke to, and keep any correspondence you get from them.

5. What about the Food Costs and What are you going to do once you get there? Is the food included? If not what will that cost you per day per person? What amenities or activities are offered? Do they cost extra? Be sure you have enough money budgeted to cover all your vacation plans. If you are on a tight budget consider an all-inclusive package so you know everything else you spend really is up to you. Be sure of course to carefully check what all is and is not included in the all-inclusive package as not all travel packages or resorts are created equal.

6. Consider a Staycation. If you've gone through all the steps, and you're just not excited about a long trip anymore, why not consider a much closer destination. Pick a hotel an hour away instead of a half a day away. Or break away from the hotel box and choose a local resort. A local resort in the next town can feel exotic when you're away from home.

Marybeth* and her family always go out of town twice a year for vacation. It's been a tough year for all of them, and cumbersome travel plans are just not looking appealing right now. After seeing a commercial on television, she decides to research her local parks and recreation, and is stunned at the number of things there are to do within an hour of her home.

Go back to your Chamber of Commerce and find information on what's available in your own backyard. Search the internet using your city to narrow down something nearby and perhaps family vacation package in…. (your local town). Visit a state park and swim or fish or camp out. Go see that museum you've always driven past but never stopped to see. Stay in that gorgeous Bed and Breakfast you've always wondered about.

7. No matter where you go or where you stay, family vacations can be some of the best times of your life. So, whether you're driving down the street or flying to an island in another country, taking a few simple steps and planning ahead can help make any trip go smoothly. Go on; get out there and start planning your next family vacation.

About the Author
Donna Davis Mixon Owner of MD Resort Dallas Fort Worth Texas 817-489-5150 www.MDResort.com Follow us on Twitter: @mdresort

For more information on planning family vacations, corporate retreats, weddings and more, call MD Resort at 817-489-5150. To read testimonials visitors to MD Resort, click here!

2009-05-28T22:26:00.001-07:00

2009-05-28T22:24:00.001-07:00

The Art Of Balancing Your Work And Family

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By : Aurelia Williams
Submitted 2009-05-12 21:45:25

As a mom you probably go through times in your life when you think you can’t possibly manage work and taking proper care of your family. In fact, there are probably times when you feel you’re not doing a good job at one or the other or maybe even both. Don’t despair! There is help for you whether you work from home or outside of the home, your family is large or small or you have other commitments like volunteer work.

Time Management Knowing where and how you spend your time is key to balancing your life. Start by keeping a calendar of all your activities. You can do this online, on a paper calendar or in a journal. Track everything from showering, exercise, meal preparation, driving time, and so on. You will probably see areas where you can cut some time out by doing certain activities while you’re waiting in line at the grocery store or riding in the car. There are lots of useful ways to spend idle time and you can figure those out as you fill out your calendar or journal.

Set Priorities As women we often have a hard time saying “no” because it is in our nature to help others and want to be useful. However, you must know when to say “no” to those activities that don’t help you reach your family, personal or business goals. And even if the activity does in some way help you reach your goals, you will need to prioritize the activity according to its value or importance.

Don’t be Afraid to ask for Help Another trap women tend to fall into is the “I can do it all” syndrome. For some reason society has taught women that they have to be “Super Mom” otherwise you’ll be seen as lazy or a bad mother. That is a lie! When you are feeling overwhelmed by work, family and kids, have a friend, relative or neighbor give you a hand by helping you clean your house, or taking the kids away for a couple of hours while you get some work done. Whatever the situation may be, don’t hesitate to ask for help.

These are just a few of the suggestions you’ll find in my report, Real Life Guidance to Balancing Work and Family. The Real Life Guidance to Balancing Work and Family report shows you how you can find a balance between work and family, without letting any of those balls you are juggling fall on the floor. This report gives you real life solutions, and the best part is that you can get started right now.

Not only are there tips for everyday life, but inside The “Real Life Guidance to Balancing Work and Family” contains valuable insight for work at home moms and moms who work outside of the home.

In addition, I also show you how to get started and then keep the momentum! So don’t wait another second. Stop doing the juggling act and get your life in balance now with the Real Life Guidance to Balancing Work and Family report.
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2009-03-19T00:26:00.001-07:00

2009-03-12T17:47:00.001-07:00

Family Weekend Getaway at the Monterey Peninsula by David Urmann

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And that is why some families schedule weekend getaways to just lounge together and have fun. It is a good way to reenergize and be ready for another busy week ahead all of them. Children appreciate weekend getaways because they feel that their parents make the effort to spend time with inspite of their busy schedules.

But as much as parents want to plan the most unforgettable weekend getaway for the family, they are often overwhelmed with the many options before them, and often end up clueless. To help parents, it is suggested to try going to Monterey Peninsula.

Monterey Peninsula is one of the most visited hotels in California. Besides offering the most luxurious accommodations, there are also many attractions to see around. It guarantees a fulfilling weekend vacation with kids.

Monterey is California's first capital. People who visit here enjoy strolling on the streets and visiting the historical and cultural past. This destination is where variety of festivals and events happened.

Cannery row is the hot spot of the Peninsula, where the internationally acclaimed aquarium is located. Carmel by the sea is an artist colony. It has great shopping districts and beautiful beaches. The Carmel Valley has the beauty of a combined sunshine and countryside. It has retained the agricultural character of the valley's history.

The place also offers great dishes all over the Peninsula. They have the world's greatest food arenas. They have great seafood preparations, from squid, sword fish, halibut, salmon and many more. Their vegetables and fruits are also fresh. Coffee houses have also sprung up all over.

Aside from the great food, the place also has great area attractions. You have historical landmarks, recreational trails, historical inns, wineries, ranches, farms and even parks.

The nightlife here is so colorful and filled with many activities. There is not a dull night. Their recreational activities focus more on water sports. You can try diving, scuba, kayaking and many more. The family will definitely have a good time bonding while doing all these activities together.

For outdoor activities, vacationers can try horseback riding in Andrew Molera State Park. The trail for this ride passes on the side of beaches. Along the way, you will also get to enjoy the beauty of nature. There are native plants and indigenous animals.

Monterey Peninsula also houses the perfect picnic place that any family will adore. It is just located off the Del Monte. The area is nearby a very beautiful and serene lake. The children will definitely be awed by the geese and ducks swimming on the lake.

At the Fisherman's Wharf, the whole family can go whale-watching together. The group will be brought to the middle of the ocean through a boat. It will be handled by an expert for a safe ride. Aside from whales, the family will also get to see the other creatures living in the middle of the ocean.

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2009-03-12T17:45:00.001-07:00

Inexpensive Spring Fun The Entire Family Can Enjoy by Christine OKelly

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Flying A Stunt Kite After A Picnic In The Park

A picnic lunch followed by flying a stunt kite in the park is a great way to spend an afternoon. Lunch can be as simple as cold sandwiches, chips and sodas or as elaborate as prepared salads and sparkling juice in plastic wine glasses. Afterwards, get out the stunt kite and fly the afternoon away. Prices for stunt kites start around $10 and go up from there so it's easy to find one in nearly every price range, or even to buy one for each person in your family.

Stunt kites are great for nearly everyone because they're sturdier and can withstand crashes better than regular kites. Families can have stunt kite competitions to see whose kite can stay in the air the longest and who can do the best tricks like loops and dives. All you need for this fun family afternoon is a kite, some good food, good company and a little wind.

Going On A Family Bike Ride

Another great family activity is a bike ride. Grab your bikes and helmets and find a local bike trail. Many areas of the country have extensive bike trails, with smooth surfaces to ensure a safe ride. If you have young children that are too little for a bike, they can ride a big wheel, tricycle or even sit down in a bike trailer attached to an adult's bike. Make sure everyone has plenty of water and double check to see how long the trail is before setting out for the day. You'll definitely want to make sure young children can complete the trail.

Hiking A Local Trail At A National Or State Park

Many state and national parks are full of hiking trails and the park's admission is usually minimal, making a family hike a great low-cost outdoor activity. You don't actually need hiking boots, just grab some comfortable tennis shoes and get hiking! Make sure to stay on the trail, but it's a good idea to have a cell phone or GPS unit with you in case you accidentally lose your way.

These are just a few of the many outdoor activities families can take advantage of when the weather turns nice. No matter what you choose to do, the important thing is that you're reconnecting as a family and enjoying each other's company.

About the Author
Christine O'Kelly is an author for Kitestore.net, an online store selling kites and accessories, including stunt kites. The store also offers a price guarantee and great customer service.

2009-02-28T01:26:00.001-08:00

10 Free Ways to Show Your Family Love by Tisha Kulak Tolar

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Here are 10 free or low-cost ways to say I love you without breaking your debt resolutions:

1. Get Kid Creative in the Kitchen

Kick mom (or dad) out of the room and gather the kids together for a Valentines Day bake off. Make cookies in the shape of hearts and let the kids do the dough stamping. Giving a simple sweet treat concocted by the kids can be an endearing gift for any parent.

2. Write a Poem

The kids can help you rhyme words together to come up with a silly poem. Handwrite it on a piece of construction paper or nice stationary. The kids can decorate the card with their own special talents.

3. Take a Family Photo

Any parent would love a permanent memory of their loved ones. Take the kids on a nature walk and photograph them candidly as they play around. It will cost a little money but have the photos developed and enlarged to serve as attractive decorations for the home in a nice collage form.

4. Perform in a Play

Spend an hour or so prepping the kids for an impromptu play in your own living room. They can think of ways to express love and create a little play for their captive audience.

5. Circle of Memories

Sit in a circle with your family and go around the room until each member gives on reason why they love being a part of the family. Share some memories in the process. There is nothing that says I love you more than a fun walk down memory lane.

6. Get Crafty

Kids love to make crafts so sit together and have them make their own valentines for their family members. Let them get as creative as they want. Mom and Dad can join in the fun by making personalized cards for each of their children too.

7. Have a Lovely Ice Cream Party

This delicious idea is a lot of fun but will cost you a couple of bucks. Visit the grocery store and have the kids identify all the different kinds of sundae toppings that are red, such as sprinkles and cherries. Grab a tub of ice cream (don't forget the coupon) and host a family ice cream social on Valentines Day at home. The small price definitely beats the cost of taking the entire family out for a meal and dessert.

8. Have a Dance Party

Have the kids pick out songs about love from your CD collection (G rated please!). Then get to dancing with them around the house. Daddies and daughters and mommies and sons can each share a few slow dances together just as if it was a real Valentines Day dance.

9. Spread the Love

Make a family video to send to loved ones far away. Be silly, be funny but don't forget to say I love you . Upload it to your computer or copy it to a disc and send it off to grandma and the other relatives you don't see very often.

10. Just Say It

Saying I love you often is the best way to express your love. It will also teach your kids to not be shy about their emotions and will confirm the fact that as a family, each member is truly loved.

About the Author
Tisha Kulak Tolar is a writer for DebtFreeDestiny.com where she regularly writes about debt consolidation, debt settlement and saving money.

2008-11-04T15:03:00.001-08:00

Stress Reduction Tips for the Entire Family by Aurelia Williams

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pluggedBusy family lifestyles lead to stressed out families. Stressed out families can often lead to more problems and issues. Learning to deal with family stress before the stress becomes a huge problem is a good idea. If you already have problems, then learning to deal with the issues that are causing you stress is essential in helping you to overcome these difficulties.
One of the bigger attributers to stress is over commitment. Families are pulled in multiple directions by varying activities. The more children there are the more activities there are, the more refined the balancing act becomes.

Think about the list of activities that you and your children are involved in. Why are they involved in each activity? Is it because they have a passion for it or is it because they needed to have a more rounded activity schedule? Let your child choose a few activities that they feel drawn to. Let them explore their passions, but don't sign them up for every activity there is. Teach them to pick and choose their priorities when choosing activities. Doing one thing and doing it well is different from doing several things that there isn't a passion for.

The same that applies for your children and their activities should apply to yours as well. Learn to say no. If you are already committed to several activities and are stressed for time, do you really need to participate in one more activity? Learning to say no and to weed through the activities you already do will help cut down on your stress.

A less stressed parent makes a less stressed child. Our moods and behaviors are often reflected in our children. Leading by example is a wonderful motto to live by. Our children see how we deal with stress and emulate it. Wading through our activities and learning to say no are only two activities. Another one would be to learn to slow down and enjoy family time.

When is the last time you had a sit down meal with everyone gathered around the table? A meal where there was no rush to get somewhere or to go and pick someone up. Having a meal together is a family bonding time. It is an excellent opportunity for children and parents to be together. They can discuss what is on their minds, what goals they have or even what is bothering them, to cause stress. Just this simple act of sitting down and sharing a meal can lower stress in a family.

Have a family movie or game night. These are activities that everyone can enjoy together. Have the children and parents take turns picking out movies or games to play. There may be old family favorites or you may find new ones that become your family's games.

Whatever you choose, do it together. The more a family shares, at meals, movies or over games, the closer they become. A closer a family is the more they are inclined to talk and discuss things. This is a great combat against family stress.

About the Author
Reduce your family's stress with Real Life Solutions from Aurelia Williams.

2008-07-15T04:36:00.001-07:00

How To Trace Your Family History by Stellar Montealegre

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There are approximately 12 steps if you are planning to organize your family tree. But I summarized the entire guide and ended up with 9. In order to get things started you have to prepare the following materials.

File boxes with lids Colored hanging file folders Standard green hanging files Manila folders Pens Highlighters Labels for folders Dot or star Stickers Lined paper Additional boxes to expand your storage A carrying case to hold all of this in Wall size pedigree chart.

Pedigree charts can be found at most genealogy websites and local libraries.

Steps in tracing down you Family Genealogy:

1. Organize your family pedigree charts - Print a complete set of all your pedigree charts. You have to start with your name and working backwards. Choose a color among the hanging folders and label it "Pedigree Charts". Then put all the printed pedigree charts in it. Fill them out as much as you can. It is much easier if you do it with some close in the family. Maybe the older the better because the more info you can fill out now, the easier it will be later.

2. To start your family genealogy, print a colored copy of the Circled 5 Generation Pedigree Chart. You are the 5th generation and your sixteen great grandparents are the first generation. Refer to the color code provided in the chart to fill in the rest.

3. Place 16 hanging file folders in your box. You will need 16 boxes for all your great grandparent, you may need more later but let just start with 16. Separate 8 folder, then label them with the surnames of each of your 8 great grandfather. The remaining 8 folder will be labeled by the maiden names of your 8 great grandmothers. This part is quite difficult since you have to get all of the surnames and maiden names of your first generation. You need all the help you can get, do as many as you can and try to communicate with relatives who may know their names. You can also conduct a family research to track your family history.

4. Use the highlighter and highlight your 5- generation pedigree chart. Then place the highlighted copy in each of the colored folders. Print 16 more copies of your 5-generation pedigree chart with you as 1 on the chart. On one of the pedigree charts, highlight the names of all persons with the same last name using the color assigned to that last name. File the highlighted pedigree chart in its last name hanging file folder.

Repeat the process of highlighting a last name line and filing the pedigree chart in its hanging folder for each of the 16 last names of your great-great grandparents. This may seem tedious, but you will appreciate how much easier it makes things later.

5. Set up manila folders for each of the families by putting a colored labels on the file tab. Match the label color to the color of each family group record. Be sure to use sticky labels. Sticky labels are great because if you have to change something, you just place a label over the existing one. They help keep things organized.

6. Place the manila family history folders in hanging folders, matching the color of the label on the manila family folder to the color of the hanging file folder. Color coding everything makes things so much easier to find later.

7. In a family folder place the family group record of the family, documents you have already gathered for that family, and any notes you have taken on the family.

8. Set up other files containing letters, photos, emails, birth certificates, etc. Anything that you can think of that may fit into its own category, make a file for it. It makes it much easier to locate later.

9. When one of your files gets too big to fit into your box, simply move it to another box. Take as many boxes as you need to get all the information you need. Having multiple organized boxes is much better than having it all in one box unorganized and a jumbled mess.

Again, there are many websites that offers extensive family research which can give you accurate results if you have troubles in filling the names in your family tree. You can always ask for their services in case you are desperately in need of the missing name.

About the Author

Stellar Montealegre is the internet sale representative of FamilyOrigin.net - an online family genealogy database that contains massive resources where you will be able to research your familyâ€™s history like a professional. Family Origin narrows your search down to more than half of what it would take you clicking

2008-03-09T01:28:00.001-08:00

Health, Wealth And The Pursuit Of Family by Donald Yates

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Where have our families gone?

The Family Unit

What are the basics for man's search for health or wealth without including family? Man was meant to experience a family atmosphere as son, daughter, husband or wife. The spirit of family depends on cooperation and learning, which prepares humans for social assimilating.

Family begins in love through marriage and establishes a social order as old as man himself, consisting of Husband, wife, and children. It is within this structure where children learn responsibility, values, morals, work ethic, love and the meaning of life. Mother and father also learn certain values contained in their teaching decision making, endurance, praise, and correction as they raise their children. It is as important for the parent to learn as the child.

It's an example of life's meaning

The true meaning of life and reason for being stems from the family core. It is within the family structure where connecting to other humans is learned, practiced and most appreciated. Children learn how to deal with making decisions, the true meaning of respect and the consequences of wrong doing.

Although there has been much written on family attributes very little has been discussed on the value of family to the society it is within. Society as a whole mimics the values, beliefs and sensitivities of the families it contains. When the family becomes fractured, society also becomes fractured. But let's save the correlation between family and society for another article.

Through raising offspring

Family has the most influence on the total life experience. A child learns habits he/she will carry throughout life from his/her contact with the family. Granted outside peer pressures does sometimes take the child astray from family structure. A well structured family demonstrates unity, love commitment, devotion, a unite of mind toward one another setting an example for the world to see. Families face headships and submissions as they develop and lay out clear perimeters of characterization as a result. They train their children in their beliefs and in battling outside persuasive pressures.

Family relations embrace meaningful and honorable communication within and without. When members of a family agree to a idea, they are prepared to defend its principles. They also are more willing to engage in lengthy discussions in order to resolve important issues.

Providing a sound foundation Family provides greater security and stability for each of its members. Both parents and children find solace in the fact that they have a will defined and a firm foundation. Uncertainty is keep to a minimum and children do not experience as many unsettling surprises in discipline. The family atmosphere provides continual reminders of the importance of values and the need for rules allowing it to prioritize that which is most important. Rules need to be followed, as clear standards lead the way to unopposed obedience. Authority and the order of, it play an important part of the structure and success of the family as an entity.

It is in the caring atmosphere of Family where members are able to express and demonstrate greater love and comfort toward one another whenever times of sorrow befall them. They come together as one in harmony and support. This experience teaches how to face stress and still maintain strength in the face of adversity. A good family unit also understands the value of spending meaningful time together and cherish the practice.

Through the wisdom of years Fathers and mothers bring wisdom to their children regarding finance, health, giving and commitment to goals. They teach how to seek understanding while setting meaningful goals and prioritize wants against defined objectives. They recognize the individually of each member while still maintaining the integrity of the groups balance. Discovering the differences between each member and accepting those differences provides a lesson in life's simplicity and worldly expression. They also understand and make a resolve to care for one another in a tender and affectionate manner - through sickness and health - death and untold misfortune - as well as moments of joy and triumph. As they are joined one to another through ties of birth, the realization that no two are alike in their relationship is apparent and respected.

There is honor in family relationships which extends first to family, and then to others. Traits of this honor can be found in their obedience, understanding, respect, responsibility, praise and, above all, love for each other. People confirm honor by how they regard others, possessions and God's creation, thinking more highly of others than themselves.

Comes strength of personality Family builds personality strengths as they experience the differences between husbands and wives in their commitment to one another and how they actively seek to keep that commitment alive. A deeper understand of the value in another person's viewpoint and thought process become apparent as the individual family member grows and matures. This is a natural reaction to increasing understanding and appreciation of others perceptions through one's own family influences.

The family atmosphere teaches how to deal with anger as they face unhealthy anger with respect and love toward each other. They learn if they are slow to speak and quick to listen, anger will be slow to materialize. A family is a support unit, ready to fend off any outside attack. The internal dynamics of a family dictate to its set values which in turn address perceptions of external stimulus. How a family thinks is also how the individual member thinks.

Why is the modern family in decline? Modern families seem to be in decline and also the civilization itself is in decline. When the backbone of civilization becomes broken the civilization becomes crippled and non functional. We must protect the family and set this important institution up as an example of our citizens values and commitment to our own culture.

Next, wealth, health and the pursuit of Finance. Happy Trails.

About the Author

Donald Yates, Former Director of Business and Leadership Development for Imperial Research, is now retired but continues to assist young people in engaging life through self discovery, Life course planning, intuitiveness and fulfillment. Run Your Car On WATER
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2008-03-08T15:22:00.001-08:00

Exotic Family Holiday Destinations by Eric J. Slarkowski

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When you bring up the subject of vacation with your kids, there is usually one of two responses; either they want to go to Disneyland for the third time or they want to take an exotic trip that Indiana Jones would consider an adventure. You don't want to take that repeat vacation; you want something different but also a vacation that is not stressful. As parents you have the task of figuring out what is best for the family while at the same time satisfying everyone's dream vacation. Since children don't have the experience or insight that you have, many times they don't know what they will like. Trekking through the jungles of Thailand sounds fun and exciting to your child but you know that the first night of sleeping in a jungle will be the last. It might be prudent to consider what other people think about a vacation spot before you go there. So if you intend to travel to Alicante in Spain then do take out the time to read about comments on Alicante.
Cartoons with cute, talking animals such as Lion King spark interest in your children for an African safari. Some parts of Africa should be avoided but many areas are family friendly and can provide an adventure without needing machetes or trekking through miles of dense jungle. You can even sleep comfortably under the stars if you are willing to spend more money for fully catered meals and tents that are far from basic.
Even though Africa is a big safari draw, you should also consider Central America for a nature adventure. Costa Rica and Belize provide an amazing array of flora and fauna and the airfare is significantly less than a trip to Africa. The added benefit of Costa Rica and Belize can be a rest from the jungle at the many pristine beaches.
Asia is becoming a top choice for families seeking a holiday that is both interesting and affordable. Beijing, Bangkok and Kuala Lumpur are not only interesting and family friendly cities but they are inexpensive compared to western cities. The Great Wall and the temples of Thailand are impressive and so much more interesting in person. Sites in these big cities allow your family to enjoy the culture but also retire to your comfortable hotel room so your exploration is not too stressful.
European cities offer the best combination of family-friendly and culture however there is a higher price tag. Museums and tourist attractions in Europe offer family discounts and sipping an espresso after climbing the Eiffel Tour has a big draw for parents while keeping the children amused.
Since international travel requires passports and generally long flights, you may want to consider destinations that are closer to home. Hawaii, for example, offers sun, beach and hiking so while you're sipping your Mai Tai the kids can swim at the pool. As an added attraction there is no language barrier and flight discounts are often available to make your vacation more affordable.
It's often a compromise to find the vacation that suits your entire family but a holiday with children doesn't have to be the tried-and-true theme park. With some research and planning, exotic destinations that cater to families can be found to delight both you and your children.

About the Author
Concentrating recent findings in Torrevieja, he pens mainly for http://www.alicante-spain.com . You can see his comments on Alicante at http://www.alicante-spain.com and various other sources for Alicante information.

2008-03-08T02:05:00.001-08:00

Family Time - The Glue That Holds Families Together by Aurelia Williams

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With our busy life styles, finding family time can be hard. Most homes these days are two income homes. Kids are booked with activities from school to church to sports. The older the children are, the harder it seems to schedule family time with everyone in one place.

Family time is an important bonding time. It helps parents stay in touch with what is going on in their kid's lives. It helps the children bond with each other and their parents. It is a significant element in families that is often pushed off to another time.

What qualifies as family time is up to your family. Not every family can enjoy a trip to Disney or fancy resort. While these are great getaways for the family, they are not the only way to enjoy time with your family. Look for opportunities for everyday family times.

Something as simple as a family dinner is great family time. Though it is often hard to schedule, do this as often as possible. If only a few times a week, it is a great time to gather your children around the table and talk about their day, what is on their minds or things that are happening in their lives or yours. Even if only one parent can be present, show the children that you care enough to share a meal with them. A bucket of chicken with the fixings, shared together at the picnic table in the backyard, is a great family time.

Find a hobby that parents and children all enjoy. It can be stamp collect or roller hockey, just something that you all enjoy doing. You can find a new activity or enjoy an older love that you haven't found the time to enjoy lately. The point is to share that time with family. It can be a hobby that is done at home or one that gets you all out of the house together.

Start walking or working out together with your kids. Most parents have goals of getting fitter. This may include walking, running or working out at the gym. Make this a family activity. Walking and hiking are great activities for the family to enjoy together. It is a great time to talk to your children while you are hiking along. It has the side benefit of sharing and teaching the kids about living healthy as well.

Institute a family fun night. A night at home watching movies, solving puzzles or playing board games is a great time for all family members. Let the kids take turns picking out the games or movies each week. Kids really enjoy these activities and doing them with Mom and Dad is even more fun.

You can turn any activity into family time, if it involves family members. Make a shopping trip a fun family time adventure. Get the kids involved. These can be bonding experiences for everyone. Show kids that you are interested in them and who they are becoming.

About the Author

Visit Real Life Guidance: Finding More Family Time. Take the 1st step to finding more family time today.

2008-03-05T13:24:00.000-08:00

How To Use 6 Simple Tip To Plan A Budget Family Vacation by Eddy Kong

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The need for a budget family vacation is getting more and more important as the standard of living keep on rising.

Having the joy of a family get-together is often viewed as a time to bonding with the children. It is also a great opportunity to rest and relax after a hard day's work or from school.

Your children will love to go on an adventure trip for the summer and you will enjoy spending some quality time with your family in a beautiful setting.

With the increasing cost of airfares and lodging, many people feel they can no longer afford to go on vacation. The good news is that with a bit of extra effort, you can plan a budget family vacation that everyone will enjoy.

I have some interesting ideas to share with you. In fact, there are 7 simple tips to explore.

#1 Prepare early is one of the keys to saving on your family vacation. You have to start planning in advance. If you start your search in advance, you have a better chance to find a special offer that provides you with a budget family vacation package to a dream location. You will get lots of fun planning together as a whole family.

#2 Choosing during the non-peak period is often the best bet. A holiday vacation during the non-peak period can be cheaper than peak periods. Travel agency have special offers in May and September. It is much easier to plan a budget family vacation during these 2 months. This period happens to be near the summer holidays.

#3 Location flexibility is also one of the factors to a budget family vacation. Some airline companies often have promotion for specific vacation spots. Although they don't fly anywhere, if you happen to enjoy one of their vacation destinations, you will get cheaper airplane tickets for your budget family vacation.

Finding an attractive location within 300 miles from your home can be also another tip for a budget family vacation. Thus reading gas and traveling expense altogether.

#4 Rental vacation is quite popular among people seeking budget family vacation. There are researches that shown the average holidaymaker spends more on food than on accommodation during a family vacation.

If you find a vacation rental with a kitchen, you can cook some of your own meals. This way you will spend less money on dining out.

#5 Do you want you friends to join you?

The 5th tip is to invite your friends to join you for a budget family vacation. It is more of sharing the accommodation costs, traveling in a larger group has plenty of other advantages.

You kids will be able to play with your friend altogether if you are going to invite them to join you for a budget family vacation. They can turns babysitting so you can enjoy a romantic dinner in a fine restaurant.

#6 Another tip is a cheap vacation is to go camping. Your kids will love to go for a camping because it is fun and exciting not forgeting the safety aspect of it. As there are other campers, they will get to interact with them. This will also boost up their social skills.

This activity is one of the most affordable choice for the whole family. For a family of four, it is usually costing less than $1500, with new camping gears.

Campsites are usually located in wonderful settings and include plenty of planned activities and bathroom and shower facilities. Some even provide wireless Internet access and cable TV.

If you love outdoor adventures, going camping is a great option for a budget family vacation.

Are you ready for more fun?

A family vacation with a budget can be more fun and exciting than a expensive one. If you put some effort into the planning process, you can have a perfect vacation with your loved ones and share some unforgettable life experiences.

In conclusion

A well planned, budgeted holidays for the whole family is surely a good way to travel with current rising costs of living. Most of all, it instills family cooperation and planning to make it happen.

That's why, Eddy believe he can help you find the most budgeted family holidays and to enjoy most of your vacations.

About the Author

Eddy Kong is the owner of a website called, all inclusive family vacation deals. This guide will be able to help more dads and moms find alternative solutions to their family vacations so as to start the bonding the process. Drop by at his site now.

2008-03-05T13:10:00.001-08:00

Family Organizing Tips by Marilyn Bohn

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We all know having an organized home allows us to spend more time doing the things we want to do. For me it is more time to quilt, for others it may be gardening, exercising, cooking, working on a hobby, or spending more time with family. So how do we go about getting our family organized? Remember the movie 'Field of Dreams'? Build it and they will come. It is the same scenario with organizing. Begin by organizing drawers, cupboards, rooms, closets; have designated places for everything--where they will live and sure enough those things will find their way back to their homes. Family members actually like it better when they know where things belong. Label drawers or shelves to make it easier to put things back and to find them later.

Share the responsibilities in the home with everyone. Write out a simple contract with each family member and have them sign it. This gets their commitment and chances are greater that they will follow through with tasks assigned. Put the contracts along with the assigned task in a binder that is labeled and placed on a shelf were everyone can reach it. I don't like to call them chores because just the name sounds like drudgery.

Keep tasks appropriate to age and capability. Start young teaching organization. Two year olds and even younger can start putting a book on a shelf or a toy in the toy box. By starting young it makes it much easier as it becomes a way of life for them to be organized. I remember picking raspberries when I was a child. My mother was picking on the other side of the row. It was hot and tiring picking one or two berries at a time and placing them in my bucket tied around my waist. Once in awhile my mom would reach through the row and put a hand full of berries in my bucket. Wow, it was such a great feeling seeing my bucket getting fuller faster that it made me get back to work and work all the faster. Show children exactly how to do the assigned task. Work along with them until they know what is expected. Once in awhile chip in and help them after they are able to do it on their own. This is a great boost to them and they will reciprocate by helping you stay organized or doing one of your tasks.

Charts are wonderful tools to inspire children and show them not only what needs to be done but they show their progress. Rotate assignments on a weekly basis. There are many charts that can be purchased to chart their progress. Or use a dry erase board; make one out of paper using stickers when a job is completed, or use a magnetic board. Point out what a good job they are doing and how good it feels to be organized.

Make organizing fun, It doesn't have to be a chore. Make organizing interesting, get everyone's input and ideas on the best way to do things and use their ideas so they feel a sense of pride and ownership about the way things are done.

Notice where a family member is already organized and build on that strength by praising them. We are all good at doing some thing. By focusing on the positive and encouraging them to become organized, strengths will come out in other areas too without nagging or getting angry.

Motivating family members may be challenging at first, but it is rewarding when you see them putting things away where they belong and it takes much of the frustration out of what could be daily hassles. Not to mention all the time it saves.

Marilyn Bohn's Bio Marilyn is a creative organizer who has been organizing for over 20 years. She is a member of the National Association of Professional Organizers and is working towards becoming a Certified Professional Organizer. Professionally she has been organizing homes and offices for over two years. She holds a bachelors degree in Social Work. She has reared five daughters and currently lives in Utah.

Go to her website http://www.marilynbohn.com where you can find free organizing tips and interesting blogs and helpful articles on organizing.

About the Author

Marilyn is a creative organizer who has been organizing for over 20 years. She is a member of the National Association of Professional Organizers.She holds a bachelors degree in Social Work. She has reared five daughters and currently lives in Utah. Go to her website http://www.marilynbohn.com where you can find free organizing tips and interesting blogs and helpful articles on organizing.

2008-03-05T02:36:00.001-08:00

How To Strengthen Family Life
By: Jimmy Cox

There are three aspects to family life which can be used to strengthen it: family meals, family projects and family rituals.

Young people can find a lot of material on how to get married but very little on how to stay married. In these words a shrewd student once characterized the current literature on the family. There is much truth in this observation. Nowhere do our efforts to promote successful family life fail more conspicuously than in the lack of emphasis upon the family as a project in group living, and the effort to find and encourage techniques in family group living. The scattered attempts that have been made in this direction tend to be specialized, and carry with them little implication of their larger importance.

For those who wish to resist the trend of the weakening of the family how shall we counsel them? These are some of the things which families so minded can do. What techniques can be cultivated to contribute to the ends they seek?

The Family Meal

The family meal is a recurrent and fundamental aspect of the family's life. And what happens in its course is more than a dietary procedure. It is while seated around the dining-room table that the family may be at its greatest ease, both physically and psychologically; that it is held together for definite periods of time; that it becomes engrossed in common objectives; and that it has fewer distractions than at most other times.

Family Projects

If most contemporary families no longer work together in the common task of operating a farm or small business, there are many leisure-time projects in which they may engage as family groups. Modern life is rich with the variety of such projects that are available, and the automobile combines with the shortened working day and week to make feasible participation in them.

The list of such projects is endless: building a vacation shack, a family orchestra, a trailer or camping trip in summer, a family basketball team, a vacant-lot garden, a family art exhibit, barber-shop harmony around the piano, father-son workshops in the basement, a family reading circle, the breeding of dogs or other animals, church activity, a golfing foursome, family games, a flower garden, or a small business as a side issue.

Family Rituals

In our efforts to study family life from within, as it were, our attention came to focus some years ago upon certain forms of family behavior which were so recurrent as to suggest the term habit and yet which had additional aspects or features not usually associated with that term. They were habits, plus.

Upon close examination, the plus included two things. First, the repetition had to be exact. It isn't enough to do the thing about or approximately the same way each time; it has to be done exactly the same way. Second, this exact repetition is accompanied by a definite sense of approval. This is the right, the proper, way.

We came finally to designate these habits plus as family rituals, and we defined them as patterns of family life, noticeable for their precise repetition, even to the point of becoming quite rigid, like a rite or ceremony in religious worship.

Rituals are of many different kinds. They grow out of the family's collective experience, and may develop in connection with almost any aspect of family life. Most of them, however, cluster around holidays, anniversaries, meals, vacations, religious worship, entertainment, and group ways of using leisure time. Often they are a heritage from the preceding generation, modified perhaps to fit into altered circumstances.

Following the above guidelines, family life can be greatly strengthened if a little time and effort are put into family meals, projects and rituals.

Article Source: http://www.1articleworld.com

2008-03-02T03:26:00.001-08:00

Parenting a Family in Conflict: The Night a Difficult Teen Saved Her Family From Self Destructing
By: Wouter van der Hall

Her parents were at it again.

Her kid brothers had snuck into her room, looking scared.

They sat on her bed as the voices below got louder and angrier.

She could hear little pieces of sentences they yelled.

“You always let her get away with it”

“O, if only you could lighten up and let her be”

She looked around in her room, the floor covered with clothes, her desk a mess, as usual.

As the fighting went on her stomach tightened and she held her brothers.

‘This has to stop or we’ll break apart’ she thought as she held her brothers, who clung to their older sister.

“I am going downstairs” she said to them. “I am going to stop them, ok.”

Her brothers looked up in a mixture of fear and hope. “Could she?”

For many families, parenting has become a struggle between parents with different approaches in raising their kids, parents who don’t know how to work as a team in conflict resolution. Often noticeable when kids are in elementary school, the difficulties can explode when your children become teens.

A time of peer pressure, self exploration and challenging the boundaries parents set. Differences in parenting values, in how to deal with conflicts and not knowing how to shift when kids become teens, can drive any reasonably functioning family to destruction.

Joni’s family was no different. She had pushed her parents in every way she could, trying to find the limits of her freedom, her own identity.

The differences between her parents’ parenting styles were at first easy to use for her immediate benefit. They now had become the fault line on which her family could break apart. Break, as they were fighting over her.

”Stop it!” Joni slammed the door into its frame as she yelled it. “Stop it! You are killing us as a family!” Her parents stopped, stunned by her outburst.

“I am sorry, alright, I am sorry. I don’t want us to break up. The boys are scared upstairs and you are starting to hate each other. It’s just too much!”

Her parents were still fuming at each other but their attention had shifted to their daughter.

“I am scared too” she added softly.” Please let’s try to find a different way than going at each other all the time.” Suddenly she couldn’t stop talking.

”I want a family. I don’t want you to break up. I know you love each other and that I am pushing you to all of this fighting.”

She looked up. Her parents looked at her, exhausted from the furious exchange they had a few moments ago.

“Can’t we find a way that we can all be happy? That we can all enjoy our family again? We used to have fun and do things together, now you just work and we run around and we don’t anymore. I know that I have been a pain and that I don’t clean my room, but is that such a big deal? I want us to be happy. Don’t you want to be happy? I want to find out who I am and I need you to be my home, where I can try and test things. I don’t want us to break up.

“Please. Please don’t fight anymore. Please?” Her parents looked at her, feeling her plea, her desperation.

“I am sorry” said her mom, “you are right. These conflicts are costing us all too much. But it is not your fault alone. We need to do this differently as parents. I didn’t intend anyone to be scared.”

Her dad stood there, still boiling with anger, but shaken by his daughters outburst.
Finally he took a deep breath.

“You are right. And yes you have been pushing us and it hasn’t helped.” He sighed and looked at his wife. “And your mother is right, we as parents need to work on our part. I am sorry. I think we both wanted the best, but it turned into wanting to be right.”

Joni burst into tears.

”I am sorry” she said, “I love you both and want you to be together.”

Her mother came over and put her arm around her.

She looked up at her husband.

“You may have just helped us to do that, love.”

Her husband looked at his wife and sunk into a chair.

“We need to do this better, we really do.”

Joni did save her family that night. And, she offered her parents a way out from self destructing their family.

Parenting is team work with others (i.e. teachers, care givers), whether you are a single parent or a couple.

Below are three steps that can help you in dealing with conflicts.

1. Always take responsibility for your thoughts, words and actions.
Stop the blame game and look at what you can do differently to help. Take a deep breath as others push your triggers and you get angry, feel hurt, and get defensive. Think about how you truly want it to be and act from that image.

2. Look at your kids, your partner/spouse, as your partners in solving issues, making decisions and creating opportunities for the whole family.
Stop reacting as if conflicts are best treated as war, with enemies, winners and losers. It is not healthy for a family. It destroys relationships.

3. Always look for win-win solutions.
Be creative, take your time, ask for others’ opinions and look out for their interest as well as your own. By looking out for each other, nobody can lose. And isn’t that what families are about?

I know you want the best for your family, for your kids.

By stepping back and seeing that they want that too, you can find ways in creating a family with ALL your perspectives and ideas.

Together, as your kids want you to.

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2008-02-26T01:50:00.001-08:00

Organizing Your Family History by Cheryle Hoover Davis

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How many times have you set about to write your family history, only to run across the daunting task of putting it all together in a manner which will make sense?

Many people give up writing their family history at this point. Too much information! So much to write about! If you are like me, you've spent years researching your ancestors only to find piles of papers, notes, and website URLs piling up on your desktop.

The key to writing your family history is to GET ORGANIZED, but take it one small step at a time!

We've all seen articles on how to organize your clutter and make our homes neat and pleasing. This knowledge can be applied to genealogy research, and writing your history, also!

One interesting thing I have noticed is that most experts on home organization emphasize 'one step at a time.' If you choose to do it all at once, you've set yourself up for failure before you've even begun. Giving yourself permission to do just a little at a time will make the task so much easier.

I know when I began cleaning out the clutter of closets, kitchen cabinets and 'junk drawers' I began to feel overwhelmed. I was making a bigger mess and never getting it all finished. What a self deafeating experience! Another side effect was not knowing where anything was after I'd made such a mess.

Being a clutter-junkie was something I inherited from my mother, the difference being, she always seemed to have it all organized and easily accessible. In my case, I am disorganizationally organized. I know where that note about Uncle Harry is in that pile of papers on my desktop, thank you very much. I remember where I put that scrap of paper with Auntie Dorothy's phone number from 1982 on it. My mother laughed too, so go ahead - laugh out loud!

If you are a 'neatnik', ignore this article. If you are a 'clutter junkie', read on!

One day, while working on a family history project, I was feeling quite overwhelmed at all the information I had and was able to produce no clearly written story. My mother's voice came back to haunt me: "You need to get organized...you need to get organized...you need to get organized."

Ok, alright, Mother, I hear you! But, HOW?

Remember your mother telling you: "Everything has a place...blah blah blah"? Well, it's true (don't tell my mother I said that - I'll never live it down).

It's not easy for us clutter junkies, however. I decided I would take it...one small step at a time. First, I cleaned off my desktop. I just threw everything in a couple boxes. There. Done. Finished. Finis.

Well, that was so easy, I decided to take the next step. Sorting out one box. I had file folders, so I placed each surname in a separate folder. Easy enough. It was all going well.

The next step was soon to follow, as the last had been so easy. Before I knew it, it was all organized, the information easily found, and I was ready to begin writing!

The next step was actually writing my family history.

I'll take it...one step at a time.

About the Author

After many years as a professional artist, DJ, Production Studio manager, Program Director, Master Control Board Operator at a television station, professional writer, and being what she calls a "Jill of all Trades and Master of Some", Ms. Davis has turned her attention to focus on writing.

A flair for the humorous, and diverse "how to" information, you can check out Cheryle Hoover Davis' articles at eHow: http://www.eho

2008-02-23T23:57:00.000-08:00

The Perfect Family Vacation - Pigeon Forge, TN by Shane Eubanks

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Have you been searching for the perfect place to spend a family vacation where everyone in the family will have a great time? It is often a challenge to find a place that entertains the entire family from ages 3 to 103. Fortunately for you there is one such place that is centrally located to most of the eastern United States. Pigeon Forge, TN is nestled in the heart of the Great Smoky Mountains National Park in East Tennessee and within a day's drive of most of the East Coast and Midwest.

Pigeon Forge, TN is an incredibly unique town filled with Appalachian history and modern entertainment. Children will have a blast at the various attractions that offer go-carts, miniature golf, laser tag, arcades, and more. The adults will love the variety of theaters showcasing country music, bluegrass, gospel, impersonations, comedy, etc as well as the incredible value in dinner shows where the entire family can eat and be entertained for at least two full hours!

Some of the best entertainment for the entire family can be found for free. There are numerous hiking trails, rivers for fishing, nature loops to drive and see all sorts of wildlife, scenic views for amazing pictures, and more. Be sure to stop by the official welcome centers to get maps and information from the locals who know the best places to visit and times to go.

If shopping is your thing, then you will absolutely love what Pigeon Forge, Tennessee has to offer. The area has become known as the outlet capital of the United States and is home to numerous chain stores that you will be familiar with as well as unique shops that cannot be found anywhere else. Whatever your shopping pleasure is, you're bound to find great bargains on your trip to Pigeon Forge, TN.

When it comes to food, Pigeon Forge has a wide variety of options that will appeal to the entire family. You will find familiar restaurant chains if you're not willing to take chances on something new, but if you're looking for something unique and delicious then the choices are great! There are plenty "one-of-a-kind" restaurants in the area that serve some amazing food guaranteed to leave you full and drooling for more once you return home. The best tip is to ask the people that work at the attractions and shops you visit during your first day there. This will give you a great assortment of restaurants to try during your vacation.

Finally, you're going to need a place to sleep! Pigeon Forge, TN has plenty of options from campgrounds all the way up to massive cabins that can accommodate an entire family reunion! Cabins have become an extremely popular lodging choice among visitors as the cabins offer the quiet, rustic feel of staying in the Smoky Mountains along with the conveniences of home, which include: kitchens, laundry rooms, fireplaces, and even game rooms with pool tables, pinball, arcades, and more.

Pigeon Forge, TN is the perfect destination for your next family vacation. There simply are no better places to bring the children as well as the great-grandparents where everyone is guaranteed to have a great time. There are events throughout the entire year so do not worry about which season is the best. Pigeon Forge, TN offers you and your family an amazing experience all year long. You can find lists of the most popular hotels, restaurants, lodging and more along with reviews and other insider information at the Inside Pigeon Forge, TN website.

About the Author

Shane Eubanks operates Inside Pigeon Forge, TN and Inside Gatlinburg, TN - websites devoted to sharing reviews, tips, coupons, and inside information about Pigeon Forge and Gatlinburg, TN to help families have the best experience during their vacation.

2008-02-21T17:56:00.001-08:00

Plan the Perfect, Affordable Florida Family Vacation by Renaissance Plantation

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Plantation Florida is centrally located, and is just a short drive from many popular Florida family vacation attractions such as: * Gorgeous beaches * Sawgrass Mills Outlet Mall * Parks and nature trails * Wannado City theme park * Butterfly World

Not only is Plantation centrally located near numerous popular attractions, but it is also far cheaper than the surrounding major cities, such as Fort Lauderdale.

Whether you want to stroll across the Boardwalk at the Hollywood Beach, surf, swim, snorkel through the reefs, scuba dive, or rest in the sun, your inexpensive Florida family vacation to the beach day is just a short drive and a lounge chair away.

For a relaxing Florida family vacation visit the Plantation Heritage Park, with 90 acres of luscious surroundings for a relaxing and reasonably priced day with your family. Your family can rent paddleboats, canoes, and fishing poles, or spend a day on land and rent bicycles to travel the scenic bike path. Or, take your family to the Big Cypress Reservation for a thrilling ride a swamp buggy, a true south Florida experience.

Nature lovers can indulge themselves at Butterfly World. Immerse your family in the ten acres of beautiful butterfly gardens and landscaping. Tickets are inexpensive, and if you visit butterflyworld.com, you can print off discount coupons for everyone in your family!

While you're planning your trip here, the luxurious Renaissance Plantation hotel is ideal to suit all of your affordable Florida family vacation needs. The Renaissance Plantation is centrally located so you can visit all of the South Florida attractions on your list! * 20 minutes from the Florida Everglades * 20 minutes from Fort Lauderdale beach * 10 minutes from the Museum of Discover and Science

About the Author

Escape the ordinary at the Renaissance Fort Lauderdale Marriott- Plantation Hotel. The stylish new Renaissance Plantation combines the body of a contemporary full-service with the soul of a boutique, providing savvy service in distinctive surroundings.

2008-02-03T02:26:00.001-08:00

Florida Family Beach Vacations by Sunny Dey

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Florida family beach vacations could be named as the number one vacation choice for Americans. Americans and many others drive long distances to enjoy the beaches in Florida. It's easy to see why the beaches of Florida attract so many visitors each year; the climate is more than ideal, the water is warm and the beaches are stunning. Pile on top of this the endless attractions and facilities for travelers in Florida and you have a recipe for a memorable family vacation.

Florida beaches and surrounds offer a plethora of family activities such as swimming, snorkeling, surfing, fishing, boating, canoeing and countless other water activities. The kids will never get bored with the constant change in things to do. Needless to say, if you are visiting Florida with the family you'd expect to spend a fair amount of time in or near the water. The water is warm as expected with the hot sun shining on every piece of sand and water.

Other fun family things to do in Florida include the famous theme parks, Cape Canaveral (where you can see a shuttle take off if you time your vacation accordingly) and a myriad of natural attractions that will keep nature and wildlife lovers happy for weeks. These various activities provide a great educational component to your family vacation. The kids will ask many questions as noteworthy events pique their curiosity.

Miami is one of the most popular Florida family beach vacation destinations. The tropical climate here is appealing and the landscape is awe inspiring. There is also good cultural diversity in Miami and you'll find a host of things to do for the family including museums and of course many outdoor activities. Miami is an interesting place and if you like color in your life, you will surely get it in Miami.

Orlando is of course another very popular location for family vacations. Here you will find such theme parks as Disney World and Universal Studios. You could spend weeks in Orlando alone and never run out of things to do. Take in some shopping or go to many restaurants that cater to the family crowd. You won't be disappointed after you leave Orlando. It is also one of the best places to meet someone you know.

If you want to go to a famous Florida beach then don't miss South Beach (also known as Lummus Park Beach). This is a fantastic beach for the family. There are hundreds of beaches in Florida and they are all as beautiful as each other. If you don't like crowds then you'll be able to find beaches that are quite secluded compared with the likes of South Beach or Miami. But whatever your choice, you are bound to find a beach you like, and also many the kids will just go wild over.

Florida family beach vacations are a whole lot of fun in the sun regardless of which location you choose. You owe it to yourself and your family to go visit Florida on your next vacation.

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2008-01-30T01:32:00.000-08:00

Alarm Systems Can Protect You And Your Family
By: Lisa Mitchell

Keeping your family safe is the top priority of almost everyone. We all want to feel secure in the fact that our family is safe when we leave the house or go to sleep for the night. You also want to keep the valuables that you worked hard to accumulate safe. For peace of mind in with these concerns you should consider installing a home alarm system.

Installing a home alarm system can be very affordable. In addition to the added security the system provides for your family, the initial cost of installation can be more than offset in the long term by reductions in your home owners' insurance premiums. Many insurers offer 20% discounts to homeowners with alarm systems in their homes.

The first decision homeowners must make about their new alarm system is whether to hire a professional security company to do the job or install it themselves. The do-it-yourself approach can keep costs down, and installing a wireless security system is relatively easy as no new wiring needs to be run through the home. Many online stores offer advanced video cameras, and are an excellent place to begin shopping for a wireless security system.

A system you install yourself can have its drawbacks though. Typically, this kind of systems not always warn authorities in case of a problem. In addition, if a self-installed system is not working properly, you will not be warned.

Many people refer to security companies for their home safety needs. Large, established companies, such as ADT, can take care of your home security needs without you having to perform installation or maintenance. Their alarm systems are stress and worry free.

Many companies offer free installation or equipment with their contracts. The alarm systems are wired into your home and through your phone lines. You can also have several extra options installed. Alarm systems can be set up to monitor smoke alarms, carbon monoxide detectors and even have motion activated video cameras as an early warning system. You can even have them set up to send you an e-mail or instant message when you have a problem and are not home.

Professional security systems generally send a call to a call center as soon as a problem develops, allowing for two-way communication so that you can tell them and the police what is happening. This tends to be considered one of the main advantages of a professionally installed security system. The people at the call center can talk you through a dangerous situation. In addition, some systems have panic buttons available that will allow you to contact an operator just by pushing one button.

No matter which kind of system you decide on, you will feel rest assured that it is there keeping you safe. When you leave your family at home, you will know that they are in good hands.

Article Source: http://www.go-see.info

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2008-01-26T00:54:00.001-08:00

Is Your Family Getting Your "Left-Overs?" by Steven Vannoy And Craig Ross

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Two Steps to Creating Balance in '08

How well did you balance your work and home life in 2007? Did you experience abundance in both arenas? Or was your house a pit stop: a stop in the road where you could re-fuel, change the tires (clothes), and get back to work?

As 2008 finds its pace consider the most important leadership upgrade you can make is one that provides an immeasurable return on investment: It's time to get serious about creating balance.

How Much Sense Does It Make?

The average people around you wake up at 5:00 a.m. Driving in a fog, they commit that at the end of the day, their "family will get my best." As they approach work, the day pounces on them: emails have multiplied overnight, insulting bosses have left voice messages with impossible demands, the fire-drills ensue with back-to-back meetings, resources evaporate ... and they slip into the negative fantasy about what it might be like to work for another organization. But most are smart enough to realize everyone is this busy.

In the early evening they merge onto a highway that is now a parking lot. Grumbling, they focus on these elements of the day: the stupid decisions made by others; the to-do list that grew exponentially; and a spouse who isn't as attractive as they once were. Then, in the growing darkness, they turn their car into the driveway. Like a zombie they shuffle into the house.

How much sense does it make that our family gets our left-overs? What's it costing the ones we love when all we can deliver is the little energy we have left at the end of the day? What does it mean to a child and spouse when the focus they receive are found only in the fragments of a shattered day?

What difference would it make if you were at your best - when it was time to provide the most important leadership on the planet?

Balance Requires Leadership

Those amongst us who live exceptional lives are waking up to the fact that if they are to realize greater balance it will require leadership on their part; no one else will do this for us. And, while working in a world that will eat them up if they let it, they all want to achieve. They want to show that they're capable.

So, what do they do to balance it all?

Balance, Step 1: Add Meaning To Your Life

Nearly everyone knows that the moment you make a difference, the moment you serve others, you add meaning to your life. Tragically, most people think the only way they can make a difference is at their church or volunteering or contributing to charities.

Yet, we spend most of our waking hours at work. What would happen if your workplace became your greatest venue for adding meaning to your life? How would it change things if each day you brought the spirit of the student - wondering and seeking new ways to grow? How wise would you be by the end of your career if you saw each 'frustration' as personal growth opportunities on your road to greater enlightenment? And what would be the implications of conducting yourself in a way that lifted the people around you?

Consider the possibility that our work hours are our most vital for acting on the basic human need to make a difference. When this is done, balance is no longer a question - and "it's all one life" becomes the answer.

"I was struggling with the lack of balance in my life," says Susan, who works for a leading eye-care company. "I felt like I was putting a lot into work but was not getting a lot back. Because we have changed how we are showing up for work, the workplace has changed. I'm now getting more from work and consequently I feel more balance. For the most part it's not about the calendar. There's never going to be enough time. So it has to be about meaning. If you're adding meaning to your life then what you do affects you and others."

Balance, Step 2: Master the Transition

When you walk in the door at home, how focused are you? Are you present as the children hug your knees? Or are you still sifting through the memories of what didn't get done at the office?

Transform your commute home into the priceless opportunity it is. Take advantage of the uninterrupted time to end the workday and begin your family time. This won't happen from intention alone. First, take steps to harvest the value in the day past. Then, create a plan to bring home your best.

Use these four time-tested and proven questions on your drive home:

1) What is something I learned today that will be valuable?

2) What is something I did well today?

3) What are the greatest blessings in my life?

4) What can I do to be at my best tonight?

In 2008, ensure that your family does not get your left-overs. Lead yourself by taking the above two steps - and deliver the best to those who deserve it the most.

About the Author

Stomp the Elephant in the Office employs the programs and concepts successfully implemented by Pathways to Leadership, Inc., formed by Steven Vannoy and Craig Ross. To find out how big the elephant in YOUR office is, visit Stomp the Elephant

2008-01-25T02:27:00.000-08:00

Kick Start Your Family's Quality Time by Michael Kabel

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No matter what time of year, for busy parents it's always a good time to rethink your family's "quality time." If you can't control the quantity of time everyone spends together, you can at least maximize the fun and importance of whatever time you have.

One problem many families have is simply getting too worn out to do much when it comes to downtime together. So the same unhealthy habits that are bad for the individual " too much passive television watching, eating the wrong foods, et cetera " inevitably affect them as a group.

Good quality time means getting out and enjoying life while you help your family's mental and physical health.

Take a trip somewhere each month.

There's no better way to get out of the house than by simply getting out of the house. Lead the family someplace new for one afternoon every month. Some places to try include the local museums, art galleries, historic sites, and state parks and gardens. Many such places are free to the public and offer exciting chances to broaden your children's education.

Make spring cleaning year round

Clutter - the amassing of the bric-a-brac and miscellany of everyday life - eventually builds up and makes even the most spacious family home seem crowded. Make a point to clean out closets and cabinets every couple of months. Your family can even hold a garage sale to make a little profit on what's no longer needed.

You can also get the family together to clean and spruce up the homestead. This includes the chores that need doing in the front and backyard, as well.

Give something back to your surroundings.

Getting your kids out and volunteering helps broaden their range of experiences and cultural awareness even as it gives your family the satisfaction of doing something worthwhile. Volunteering at a local food bank, for Habitat for Humanity, or any other shelter takes just hours a month.

For a list of charities in your area, you can contact the local chapter of the United Way or the Red Cross.

Take up a new sport or outdoor hobby.

Most people don't realize the huge amount of outdoor activities available in their area. If you think your family needs more exercise, see about taking up a new sport or activity such as hiking, playing tennis or golf, or just getting out for a long walk. The time spent together will become more satisfying as the family's sense of mutual accomplishment grows.

Corner Stork Baby Gifts presents this article as part of our ongoing commitment to better family quality of life. We proudly carry a complete selection of baby blankets, unique baby gifts, personalized baby gifts, and even baby shower favors for your new arrival celebration. Visit us online at http://www.cornerstorkbabygifts.com.

About the Author

Michael Kabel is a Senior Writer for Corner Stork Baby Gifts at http://www.cornerstorkbabygifts.com.

2008-01-22T02:31:00.001-08:00

Family Time: Doing Hobbies Together by Veronica Scott

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In today's fast-paced world, quality time with the family is getting harder to find. It's difficult enough to find the time to eat dinner together, let alone find the time to do hobbies together. But somehow we manage to find that time, even if it's just an hour or so each night. Since quality time is so precious, finding the right hobby for the whole family to participate in might be a bit of a trick, but it's not impossible.

Jigsaw Puzzles

Puzzles are a popular hobby many families enjoy together. Puzzles may not be high tech, but they do foster time for conversation and bonding between family members. First decide whether you want a large puzzle, or a smaller one. Set aside 30-60 minutes each night to sit down and assemble it together. Family members can even work on it when nobody else is around. When it's finished, glue it together and frame it, or simply take it apart and start all over again another time.

Board Games

Playing board games are a fun way for families to spend time together after dinner without staring at the TV. Some games can be completed in an hour or so, but extended games like Monopoly can be spread out over a week or longer, depending on how much fun you're having with it. You'll find that you can laugh together and the time will go by before you even know it.

Outdoor Fun

Families that play together tend to enjoy each other's company. Finding something that you can all enjoy in the outdoors helps a family to bond. Activities can be as simple as tossing around the Frisbee or hiking along an area trail. Turn one of these activities into a hobby by participating in them regularly. You'll have fun getting to know each other and you'll even get some exercise in the process.

Try Something Unique

Unique hobbies can add spark to your family time. Photography, while quite involved, could be an interesting hobby for a family to do together. This is one hobby you can tailor to your family's skill level. Whether it's simple digital photography or building a full-blown dark room in your basement, photography leaves a lot to be explored. Or try writing a book together. Have fun passing the story around and let each member of the family add a new chapter. When it's done, you can self-publish the book and have fun designing a cover or adding photos to the content.

Whichever hobby you choose to create a close-knit family relationship, make sure it's something that everybody will enjoy. If it's a chore for one person, they will likely hate doing it and they'll only resent it. If you need to, try out several different hobbies until one finally "clicks." You can even participate in several different hobbies rather than sticking with one. Maybe each family member will have their favorite and you can rotate the hobbies each week. The important thing is to spend time together doing something that everybody can appreciate.

About the Author

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2008-01-21T02:11:00.001-08:00

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Family Life Insurance Are Essentials by Deepti Singh

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Imagine, you are the only source of income in your family. Imagine you have responsibility of being a parent also. The question that you should ask yourselves is that do you really care for your family, if you have a life insurance, a family life insurance, we would say yes you are a responsible parent to your children, a responsible person for your family. Family life insurance is one of the basic necessities of family life today, immaterial of what you do for living or how you live in your family. As a part of your family, you must think that what would happen to your family in case you die prematurely. If you do not have a family life insurance, who would take care of your family afterwards? But with a family life insurance policy, you have a support for your family, even after you are gone. Future will not come decided, it will come when it will have to, hence taking a family insurance policy is always advisable. The commonly available family insurance policy are permanent life insurance policy and term life insurance policy. For permanent life insurance policy, the price of insurance is high, so is the coverage. Family life insurance policy of permanent type has a longer payment duration. It might not be the best choice because of the high price associated with the family insurance policy.Term life insurance policy is comparatively cheaper and hence a preferred life insurance policy. It is suggested to take term life insurance policy if you are considering for your family for a shorter duration of crisis only. In, family insurance policy of type term, you will have to pay the insurance payments for shorter period of time. It is advisable to choose the a family life insurance policy thoughtfully, because converting from tem family life insurance to permanent family life insurance would result in more monthly premiuims.Term Family insurance policy can be purchased depending on how long you need it. Usually, when people are beginning with family life they prefer to go for the 20 year long family life insurance policy, thus useful till the time children grow up. Imagine you have a baby in your family, children fall sick, get injured and if you do not have a family life insurance policy covering your childâ€™s health then you can end up making high payments. To find out more visit http://allaboutparenting.blogspot.com

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2008-01-20T02:54:00.000-08:00

Family Fun With Wood Crafting by Veronica Scott

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Are you looking for a way to increase quality time with your children? The craft of woodworking is practical and fun. Depending on how much time and effort you want to put into the creation, woodworking with your kids can teach them valuable skills while they have fun in the process. While woodworking does have some difficult aspects, children are capable of doing most of the process - with a little supervision on your part! Before deciding on your project, take a moment to consider a few of these points.

Evaluate Your Workspace and Equipment

Take stock of your resources like tools and space first. Nothing is more frustrating than getting halfway through a project and realizing you don't have the tools or the room to complete it. Look through the instructions, buy all of the tools beforehand, and get the kids to help organize everything. Decide together where you'll work on the project and clear more space if you have to.

Where'd Everybody Go?

Have you ever started a project with the kids only to look up and find you're suddenly the only one left participating? Try to tailor the complexity of the project to the attention span of your children. Some children might only have enough patience for a project that takes a few days - or even a few hours. Undertaking larger projects with younger children might mean you'll end up finishing it alone. Older children, on the other hand, might get excited about larger projects and see it through until the end. You know your children best and how long you're able to hold their attention, use it to your advantage.

Keep It Interesting

Find a specific project you and your children can get jazzed about. Working on a project that isn't satisfying will just end up being a chore nobody will want to finish. Whether you're recreating a Victorian style house in miniature or carving animals and trains out of wood, the possibilities are endless.

Do Research Before You Begin

Even the most experienced hobbyist needs to do some research before undertaking a project. Beginners who have never done woodworking before will find a great deal of information online or at their local library. Talking to woodshop teachers at one of the local high schools or contacting your local hobby store will help too. Do some practice projects first. Start your children with small projects and work your way up to something more involved. The bigger project will seem much easier and cause less frustration with everyone involved.

Woodworking is a very rewarding activity for you and your family. If you take the time and make the proper evaluations before beginning, the entire project will fall into place easily and instill a sense of accomplishment in the whole family. The bonds created will have your kids remembering the good times for rest of their lives. Take the time to find a new project and see how it can bring your family closer together.

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2008-01-18T01:08:00.001-08:00

Family Fun Time by Veronica Scott

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Nothing is more fun and exciting than getting together with family on a Friday night and having a great time. Order a pizza, pick up some pop and a movie, and settle in for a great evening of family activity! There are countless options that can make for a wonderful family fun night, too. Let the kids pick an activity for a change or schedule it so that a different family member gets to pick the activity for each different family fun night.

There are several things you can do to ensure that family fun time goes off without a hitch and becomes a planned activity for the whole family, each and every week. The first thing you need to do to accomplish this is to plan for it, of course.

Plan Ahead

Most people have extremely busy lives and are juggling soccer practice with piano lessons and homework. For today's busiest families, the prospect of family fun time might seem like a distant fantasy instead of a reality. With a little bit of planning and dedication to family, however, family fun night can become a reality and can be a functioning part of your family's schedule. The first step to making this happen is setting aside some time for it.

Set aside a weekend night, preferably. Family fun nights work best on Friday nights or Saturday nights, as most people are home from their work week and their school week. Kids and adults alike are ready to unwind and relax for the weekend, making Fridays the ideal night for ordering takeout and playing board games.

Setting aside one night a week is a good first step, but that night needs to be effectively reserved for family fun night. Yes, there will be scheduling conflicts and there will be situations that will come up and interfere with family fun night. Treat family fun night like it is the most important part of the schedule because, in many ways, it is. Schedule time with friends, piano lessons, karate practice, and other events around family fun time and make your family's time together a top priority in your weekly planning.

Get Creative

There are several activities that you can plan for family fun night. Sometimes the activity may be simple, like pizza and a great movie. Other times, you may plan something a touch more intricate, like rock climbing or miniature golf. Regardless of the planning, it is important to ensure that each family member has a say in the activity. For this reason, scheduling the "activities coordinator" is a great idea. Let your son pick the activity for the upcoming family fun night, followed by your daughter's plans for the following week and your husband's plans for the week after that. Scheduling the planning process gets everyone involved.

Family activities can be anything from watching a movie to putting together a dollhouse or building something cool. The sky is the limit in terms of ideas for family fun, so get creative and involve the whole family in putting aside great family time!

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2008-01-01T02:17:00.001-08:00

Choosing Family Practice For Replacement Therapy by David Riewe

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Some family practice doctors have advanced in being some of the very few doctors that are legally able to prescribe buprenorphine, which is also known as Suboxone. This drug is prescribed as an alternative in replacement therapy for opiate addiction. Family practice doctors must get certified in order to join the program and are, by law, only allowed to prescribe to a certain number of patients annually.

If a person with an opiate addiction chooses to select this method of treatment chances are that their family practice doctor will not be able to help him but may be able to refer him to another family practitioner. Because these offices are regular family practices, when the addict goes in for his initial visit, he will blend in as no one will know why he is there.

The family practice doctor will examine the patient and get a thorough history because he will need to know the opiate of choice and how much the addict uses in order to dispense the replacement drug. The family practice doctor will not be able to council the addict but can probably send him in the right direction. The family practice doctor's sole purpose is to dispense the correct dose of buprenorphine and monitor its effectiveness. Medical insurance will not pick up the cost of the visits to the family practice doctor but may cover the extreme expense of the prescription itself.

Some family practice doctors have chosen not to deal with the implications of offering replacement therapy but others have decided to enter this new facet of medicine in hopes of building up their practice with minimal insurance ramifications. The problem is that there are so many opiate addicts and so few doctors who have selected to become certified. That number needs to increase so that addicts can discreetly enter a family practice of their choosing and get the help that they need to address their problem.

The program is newer and is an alternative to methadone. But buprenorphine and methadone are the only two choices for replacement therapy in opiate addiction. Anti drug campaigns are gearing up in an attempt to recruit more family practice physicians to become certified and enter the programs because it has been so successful. The family practice doctor is the best setting for this type of program but the main objective so far is for the physician to evaluate the patient, disperse the medication is adequate intervals, monitor the progress, and provide maintenance throughout the program.

While family practice doctors create the perfect setting for this treatment and maintenance as an alternative to methadone treatment which requires those seeking treatment an alternative to overcrowded methadone clinics that require dosing on a daily basis. The replacement therapy is working and many addicts are seeking relief from this program. More family practice doctors should consider become certified and also offering this form of treatment especially because they are known for general health and overall well being and in some many cases of opiate abuse it may have been the family practice doctor who prescribed the prescription of opiates in the first place.

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2007-12-28T00:40:00.001-08:00

Great Family Activity Ideas by Jonathon Hardcastle

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If you've got some time off, there's no better way to unwind from the stresses and strains of the rat race than to spend a day with the family. What's more, there are loads of great ideas for spending a day with your family, that will cost you next to nothing. And you don't have to go too far from home to experience a great time, with such a wide variety of great activity ideas in your local area.

One of the best ideas for spending a day with the family is to think about something you all enjoy. Why not take the kids on a fishing trip, or how a weekend camping? Alternatively you can take the kids on a riverside picnic. Either way, just spending some bonding time with your family can be a great way to forget about your daily worries. And what's more, it can also help build bridges within your family, which can lay the foundations for a stronger future relationship

One thing that all families can appreciate is a good old-fashioned trip to the zoo. Zoo trips, although relatively costly, can sometimes allow savings by way of family tickets. It is always a good idea if you're planning a zoo trip to phone up beforehand for information about opening times, and the discounts you can be likely to expect. A trip to the zoo can be a great way to pass the time on a nice day, but it's always a good idea to make sure the weather is going to be nice on the day.

Additionally, many museums offer free entry, or at least free entry for kids, which can vastly reduce the cost of any day out. On top of that, by bringing your own picnic basket, you can have a greatly reduced lunch, and an overall fun day out. Furthermore, museums are also very educational, which can make it a very worthwhile day overall.

Spending a day with the family is a great way to unwind after a hard week at work. Not only does it help you forget about your stresses, but it also helps you bond with your family, which can be great fun and a great way to spend a day or two. What's more, with so many cheap activity ideas that the whole family can enjoy, there really is no excuse for not making the time to share some fun times with your family.

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Jonathon Hardcastle writes articles on many topics including Home, Family, and Home Improvement

2007-12-22T01:00:00.001-08:00

Welcome to a new Christmas tradition! by Adam Singleton

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Festive traditions have changed across the generations, but one thing remains constant and that is our desire to contact absent family and friends on Christmas Day. We all cherish our nearest and dearest, but if some of them have moved abroad, for example to pursue career opportunities, they are missed most at important family times such as Christmas.

In an oft repeated scene throughout the UK, many families will excitedly crowd around the telephone on Christmas Day in order to exchange a few garbled festive greetings to their loved ones in far flung places. But however anxious they are to wish each other a happy Christmas, conversations are often brief as everyone is mindful of the substantial expense of making international phone calls.

Now, as the festive season is in full swing and the big day is rapidly approaching itâ€™s time to think about how and when to contact those relatives and friends. These days there are more options available than having to make international calls at extortionate rates on the traditional home phone. Thanks to the combination of widespread broadband availability and increased internet usage, communication with those far-flung relatives has never been easier or cheaper. Select providers on the internet now offer free or extremely affordable communication options through VOIP (Voice over internet protocol) which include high-quality video conferencing, as well as voice calls.

All it takes to stay in touch is to ensure that friends and family have the same VOIP software as you, and then you can make and receive free calls to them via your PC. It is also an extremely useful way of keeping in touch with other members of your family or your friends who have not emigrated but may just be visiting foreign countries. Fill them in on all the latest news from home and find out what they been doing on their travels, as well as wishing them a Merry Christmas.

Additionally, free calls on the internet are also very useful for contacting friends and family who reside in the UK. It is as easy and convenient as using the traditional phone, but most providers also allow you to make video calls too. Just like with traditional phones, if the person you are ringing is not available, you can leave them a voice message and they can return your call later with their seasonâ€™s greetings.

For many families who have relatives all over the world, making free calls to them on the internet will undoubtedly become part of their traditional family Christmas, as well as a great way to keep in touch all year round.

About the Author

Adam Singleton is an online, freelance journalist and keen gardener. He lives in Scotland with his two dogs.

2007-12-20T01:42:00.001-08:00

Happy Days Out For The Whole Family
Author: Heywood Hall | Submitted: 2006-06-03

A day out with the family always seems like a great idea – until you discover that everyone has different ideas about where they’d like to go and what they want to do. Particularly true in families that have children across a wide age range, it makes it difficult to find something that pleases everyone.

Traditionally, theme parks have been the preserve of older children and thrill-seeking adults, but these parks, especially those in Europe, have followed the USA’s model of providing a range of rides and activities that suit all ages.

1. Adults

Just because you’re an adult it doesn’t necessarily follow that you love thrill rides. Those who do can happily spend all day queuing for roller coasters and water rides, always on the lookout for the scariest experience or the most extreme ride. Others may prefer more sedate boat rides, scenic walks or sophisticated shopping. A park that can cater for the less adventurous parents and grandparents will often manage to lure the whole family through the gates.

2. Teenagers

The majority of teenagers love rides; and the faster, scarier and more daredevil the better. Teens can usually be allowed to roam the park without adult supervision, just meeting up for lunch or for a family ride. The enclosed environment of the park, together with modern safety measures and the convenience of mobile phones mean that teenagers can have their independence and parents can relax.

3. Younger children

Extreme rides have height, and health warnings allow parents to decide what sorts of rides are suitable for younger children. Whilst some kids want to experience the bigger rides, others are happier with theatre shows, low-thrill rides and other experiences.

A theme park that can cater for the whole family offers value for money as well as a great day out. It allows parents to share experiences with their kids, it gives teenagers the independence they need, and it gives everyone something to talk about on the journey home. A good theme park indulges all the senses and usually leaves you wanting more – so why not go back again tomorrow?

Heywood Hall specialises in accommodation for visitors to Alton Towers, the UK’s largest family theme park. Visit their website at Hotel Near Alton Towers.

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2007-12-12T00:46:00.001-08:00

Family as an Integral Part of each Human Being. by Andrew Schwartz

The alliteration and accretion of ideas in "hating, hurting, hissing" demonstrates the degree of their hostility, which not even Fish can get rid of. It is not until Wax Harry is born that the divisions in "Cloud street" are resigned, and "the house breathes is first effortless breath in half a century". The epitome of the house shows that it represents the total of Australia, and by doing this Winton suggests that agreement and happiness can only come after settlement amid ALL of its peoples takes place. This thought is reinforced by Quick, when he realizes that "It's us, and us, and us." Clearly Winton's idea of the future encompasses cultural agreement among all Australians. Winton cements the procedure through Fish's arrival to the river. Happiness and harmony at "Cloud Street" is Fish's present to the Lambs and the Pickles. The two families dance jointly, and this show of agreement is further reinforced in the ending, when the barrier is taken down, and Oriel moves back into "Cloud Street". Metaphorically, all barriers have been isolated, and all aspects of "Cloud Street" have been integrated into a fully functional entire. All that was disjointed in the beginning is pieced back as one. Winton brings us back full circle to the beginning, at last revealing that the whole story is Fish's last flashback. This round structure is indicative of Winton's vision that family life involves the fluctuation among fragmentation and integration, and suggests that once the cycle completes itself, agreement and happiness will go after. Winton weaves the relevant issues of individuality, gender and reconciliation in "Cloud Street" through the thought of family. Family is shown to be an integral part of our lives. In a society which is very much fragmented, "Cloud Street" captures a sense of homesickness for a time. In short, "Cloud Street" is a moving epic which seeks to be reminiscent us of the importance of family.
About the Author

Jane Smith is a member of a support team at Custom Essay Service. Having completed a number of custom essays himself, Jane uses her knowledge to provide individualized customer support to students.

2007-12-08T01:24:00.001-08:00

A Family Vacation Getaway In One Of The Best Luxury Hotels In Krabi Thailand by Peter R Stewart

So far as luxury hotels go anywhere in the Far East, the Rayavadee in Krabi Thailand is as good if not better than most other luxury hotels.

It is a great beach vacation hotel, with 77 rooms, perfect for a family vacation getaway, and equally fantastic for a honeymoon vacation special deal.

The Rayavadee has to be seen to be believed and everything from the staff to the accommodation, to the grounds, the beaches, and the food are close to being perfect. Krabi is possibly one of the most beautiful places on earth so it is just the perfect position for the Rayavadee.

You have to get to Rayavadee by boat, and the first thing that will strike you is the boat. White leather upholstery and the crew all in matching sailors uniforms. Initial impressions are lasting ones, and this certainly makes you feel you are going to a luxury resort. Moving from the speedboat to reception, the impression continues with details all being taken whilst sitting down with hot towels and drinks, which beats standing around a crowded reception area any time.

The accommodation is top class, and if you are on a family vacation getaway there is the family villa with two bedrooms, one on the ground floor, the extra bedroom being the only difference from the De Luxe Pavilion

A two storey villa, and it is so well equipped with all mod cons. It is the small touches like the bathroom own brand products, the bottles of water everywhere, tea, coffee, and biscuits replaced every day. More food and drinks in a huge sideboard, and chocolates left every night by the bed.

A huge bath which holds two, is a feature of the bathroom, and a huge bed are all part of the ambiance.

A great luxury resort has great food, and on a family vacation getaway with hungry kids to feed, this is a very important consideration. If the reader is considering the Rayavadee for a Beach honeymoon vacation special then food is probably high on your agenda.

You will find the restaurants at the Rayavadee are all of the very best, with impeccable service in each of the four different restaurants. It is fair to say that food is not cheap but the views are just out of this world, and you may find it sensible to go down the beach and eat instead, where you will pay perhaps $15 instead of $100, and get genuine Thai food. It's perfectly safe and worth the effort.

If you want to be active, then there is lots to do from kayaking through the sea caves hiking, swimming, snorkelling, tennis.

The service from the staff could not be more helpful, you will be treated like royalty.in every way. The only downside is the service by the pool which seems to be on the slow side of slow, but always extremely polite.

They are exceptional apart from that small point in every way, and are a big part of the success of the Rayavedee.

Words cannot do justice to the incredibly beautiful beaches, especially the Phranang and Railey beaches which have powder white sand and views of islands in the distance with little caves to explore. Beware however of the monkeys, who although friendly are everywhere!!

All in all there is no doubt that the Rayavadee in Krabi is one of the best luxury hotels in the Far East. It is an ideal spot place for a family vacation getaway on some of the best beaches anywhere. It would also be a good choice for a honeymoon vacation special, so look out for some great honeymoon vacation deals.

For more informaton on Far East Hotels go to http://www.worldwidevacationspots.com/categories/Far-East-Hotels/
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Peter Stewart writes about in Kenya Safaris as well as Worldwide Vacation Spots He also recommends Travel Tennis a great Game to play on Holiday.

2007-12-05T01:39:00.000-08:00

Affordable Family Vacations by Sarah J Holt

Looking for affordable family vacations that will not break the bank or cause a protest from the young ones? This is easy to accomplish if you follow these tips.

Find Things Close To Home

Many people look into affordable family vacations without seeing what is close by. Often times you do not need to go very far to feel that you have left behind your ordinary life. Find a place in your state that you have not been to and center your vacation around that. This will save the time and money of flying or driving far. It can also be really fun to find places close by where you can return year after year for family fun and escape.

Choose Lodging Carefully

When looking at where to stay look beyond the cost. Find somewhere that is central to the areas you will be going to, has reasonable food options, and activities for the kids. One of the greatest money saver can be a place with a swimming pool for kids who like to swim. They can swim for hours, with the benefits of being free and burning off restless energy. Some also have basketball courts, free movies, or accessible walking trails. Another option to consider is choosing a hotel designed for business men, where there is a kitchen and larger common areas, such as a regular sized dining table.

Go As A Group

Have friends who are also on the search for affordable family vacations? Go as a group. A great way to do this is to rent a condo or house and agree on who will pay for what This option works best if you know the friends or family that you will be going with, since there is nothing worse than being stuck on vacation in an uncomfortable situation. The benefit to taking this approach is that you may be able to afford to go somewhere that otherwise would not have been an option because of cost.

Look For Packages

Affordable family vacations are often easier to plan with package deals. You can find packages for things like transportation and local attractions. If you will be going to a big city where there are many museums and landmarks, it is worth looking into a deal where one price is paid for admission to a group of them. Some package deals have to be purchased in advance and are limited by an expiration date, so be sure to double check if this is the case before heading out.

Go To See Family

Maybe you have parents or siblings in another state. Even if you have thought of this as an affordable family vacation, you may have vetoed the idea due to it not sounding fun. This does not have to be the case. Instead of focusing your vacation around being with extended family, you can focus on the trip there and back, and only stay for a couple of days. Just let the family members know that you will be in the area and would like to visit for a day or two. Then you can plan for a slow trip out and back, where you can stop at some fun sites along the way.

These are examples of affordable family vacations that exist. There is no reason that affordable has to mean boring, instead it can be just as fun and exciting as an expensive trip.

About the Author

Sarah Holt writes for Everything About Travel .com. For more on Affordable Vacations, as well as a free "Travel Secrets" e-book, travel stories and tips, visit http://www.everythingabouttravel.com

2007-12-03T18:09:00.000-08:00

Your Child's First Family Christmas Party by J Gardener

The Christmas season is full of wonderful events that don't occur during the rest of the year. Besides all of the religious services and school pageants and civic events, most extended families have at least one large gathering, where a feast is prepared and presents are exchanged. It can be a wonderful time to renew relationships and reacquaint with family members from near and far.

As wonderful as these family events can be, many parents face them with at least a twinge of trepidation. There are usually family present, who haven't seen each other in years, sometimes since they were all kids, themselves. For parents of small children, these parties are often the first chance they've had to introduce their kids to the rest of their relations. It can be a daunting task, for some moms and dads.

Many parents worry that their child and their child's behavior will be judged closely by relatives at these parties. Any problems with either, some moms and dads feel, will reflect negatively on their own skills at parenting. As well, parents often worry that their children may react negatively to being in the midst of such a large gathering of what might be, essentially, strangers to the kids.

Much of this anxiety, while probably natural, is overblown by parents. They forget, sometimes, that in any situation their children really do want to appear to be good and well-behaved. Most of the time, kids really do want to please their parents. Sometimes, though, a six-year-old can't help acting like a six-year-old. It's not something that a parent should fret about.

Before attending such an event, parents can discuss with their children the kind of event they expect it to be, and the kind of behavioral rules that their kids need to observe. As well, parents should ensure that their kids have had plenty of rest and food, before leaving for the party.

Moms and dads can ready themselves for a family Christmas gathering, as well, by reminding themselves that even the best kids have their less-than-perfect moments. No matter how nice it might be for every single relative to think that your kid is the best ever, most of your adult relatives have been through parenthood, too. They know, as you do, that the best thing you can do when raising your children, is to let them know how much you love them. That way, every Christmas, and every Christmas party with your children, will be as special as it can be.

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Brought to you by Imaginary Greetings, concentrating on how families can get by in this wonderful world we dwell in. Make the holiday season spectacular for your children this year with proof of Santa and his visit.

2007-11-29T03:00:00.001-08:00

How to Plan a Great Family Cruise by Megan Hazel

Romantic ocean breezes, a midnight walk on deck, dazzling dinners at the Captain's table, and days full of planned activities which the kids will love. These days, cruises are not just for singles, honeymoon couples, or senior citizens. Most major cruise lines have discovered that families are a great market for spectacular and fun cruises, and developed special tour and cruise offerings that cater to family fun. If you are considering a cruise vacation for your family, here are some tips and suggestions that can make your travel experience a wonderful family memory.

1. Include the family in the planning.
A great way to ensure that your children will love the activities that you plan for them is to include their ideas in the planning process. By the time kids are old enough to have opinions; they will enjoy any trip more if they have a hand in the choosing. Gather information about various cruises and destinations that fit into your budget and encourage the children to offer some suggestions. It's a great way to find out that your eight year old is a budding archaeologist with an affinity for the Nile, or your fourteen year old dreams of seeing the Northern Lights. Even if their only input is to suggest the cruise ship with the full theme park on Deck Three, you'll know what's important to them when booking your cruise.

2. Choose a kid-centered cruise.
Most cruise lines allow children. Some cruise lines even specialize in catering to families with children. When you're cruising with a family in tow, it's important to choose a cruise line that designs activities for children. While long, lazy days at sea with nothing to do may be your idea of heaven, your children probably need more stimulation. Besides the activities planned by the cruise line, your children will also have the benefit of the other kids onboard to share the experience with. Any experienced cruise traveler can tell you, half the fun is in the people that you meet on board the ship.

3. Consider how much togetherness you want.
The most attractive family cruise programs feature a well-rounded selection of activities geared to all members of the family. The activities offered are likely to include "family activities" for parents and kids together, as well as a variety of things for kids to do without parents in tow. In addition, there will be activities geared to all age groups, from toddlers to teens - with and without parents. That provides "couple time" for mom and dad, as well as time for each person in the family to pursue their own interests. Look for a family centered cruise that offers the degree of togetherness that's right for your family, and a wide range of activities that everyone can enjoy.

4. Put safety up front.
When choosing a family cruise, ask hard questions about how the cruise line provides for the safety of your children. Are their activity counselors trained to work with children in the age group with which they are working? Is each activity staffed with trained counselors/guides who are certified in first aid and safety? Does the company do thorough background checks on any person who is hired to work with your children? Don't make assumptions - get assurances. The following are some questions that the cruise line should be able to answer:

- How are counselors working with children trained?
- What background checks do you perform for the employees who work with children?
- Do your cruise counselors have first aid and safety training?
- If babysitting is available, what background checks are done for babysitters?
- What safety measures are in use to keep track of children while they are in the care of ship staff?
- Do you require parents to check children in and out of activity areas and activities?

5. Kids' menus, cabins and other practicalities.
Before you make your final decision on a family cruise, look into the availability of any special needs your children may have. If you're booking with a line that caters to children, you can expect them to have a children's menu - but that might not be all you need. If your child needs a special diet because of allergies, religion, health or just overall pickiness, it's important to know that those foods will be available for your child. Likewise, it's important to know the cruise line's policy on adults and children in rooms - some, for instance, require an adult in each room where children are staying, which may mean the entire family sharing a room.

Family cruises are growing in popularity year by year, and why not? They offer an all-inclusive vacation experience that the whole family can enjoy. Shop around for the cruise that offers the best deal for your family, and have a great time.

About the Author

Megan Hazel is a freelance writer who writes about topics pertaining to vacations and the travel industry such as Carnival Cruise | Caribbean Cruise

2007-11-28T02:10:00.001-08:00

Family Volunteering At Christmas by J Gardener

Though every family has its own way of celebrating the Christmas holiday, Santa Claus seems to be a part of every young child's perfect Christmas. He's such an innate part of our holiday culture, it's impossible for little ones, today, to avoid learning about Santa's flying sleigh and his midnight visit to the chimney. Still, some parents worry that placing too much emphasis on what Santa will leave under the tree encourages greediness in their children.

But many parents forget that, at its root, the Santa Claus legend is also about rewarding goodness and good behavior. If he "knows when you've been bad or good", as the song says, then it benefits a child to "be good, for goodness' sake". That goodness will bring reward, in the form of a wonderful and fulfilling Christmas morning.

Most children really don't need to be taught to be good. They want to please, and they want to comfort. A little girl with a baby doll wants to make it feel safe and cared-for, just as she feels safe with those who love her. Children naturally want to perform acts which provide the same safe feelings that they feel.

Parents who encourage action, when their children exhibit sympathy and compassion, can teach their children valuable habits which will last their whole lives. Even an activity as simple as a child helping a mother fix dinner can be the seed of compassionate behavior, and lead to helpful habits.

The holiday season is the perfect time to foster these feelings and activities in a child. By using the Christmas message of love and fellowship, of compassion and caring, parents can show their child that the comfort they bring to others can extend beyond the boundaries of the family home.

Something as simple as a family outing, picking up neighborhood litter, is a great way to start. Maybe an elderly neighbor needs leaves raked, or food delivered. Or maybe you know an invalid who would appreciate some Christmas carols sung. These are all activities that are easy, unintimidating, and are guaranteed to be appreciated. Then, as your child grows, volunteering can expand and become more organized, possibly with a church or civic group.

Christmas is about caring, compassion, and love. It's a wonderful time for a child to learn the value of volunteerism. It's a wonderful time to develop habits of compassion which will last a lifetime.

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Brought to you by Imaginary Greetings, a routine contributor of useful family oriented content. To positively light up your child's eyes this holiday season, create a letter from Santa.

2007-11-27T01:52:00.001-08:00

Make Christmas a Family Event - Hottest Countdown this Year! by C A Mc Craw

The new Christmas DVD "Family Time with Santa" provides a great opportunity for families to enjoy the Christmas season even more with a night by night countdown of the twelve days leading up to Christmas. Children are always anxious for Christmas to come and this DVD gives kids twelve great nights of Christmas excitement, as they wait for Christmas morning.

Parents have access to a variety of tools and methods to develop their own countdown to Christmas experiences for their families. Some use tools like the classic wooden calendars that outline each day's Christmas activities through Christmas Day. Others simply use a basic calendar and daily organizer to schedule countdowns. The great thing about the "Family Time with Santa" DVD is that families can make watching the DVD part of their Christmas celebration, as they use each of the twelve nightly episodes to countdown to Christmas.

A countdown to Christmas with great Christmas fun each day is an excellent way for families to bond and truly appreciate the many great activities that can be associated with the celebration of Christmas. It is a great opportunity for parents to bring families together with a well planned activity for family fun each of the twelve nights leading up to Christmas day.

The Christmas time classic song "The Twelve Days of Christmas" tells of twelve great days of fabulous gift giving. "Family Time with Santa" gives families twelve great nights of fun with Santa. Traditions, such as counting down the days until Christmas can be a great bonding experience for families, which culminates in a grand celebration of feasting, gift giving, and game playing.

A countdown to Christmas is a great way to extend the love and special feelings that families feel on Christmas Day. Christmas is a special day with great meaning for many, but the enjoyment of the season can be made to last longer with careful planning and warm spirited fun. Parents can give their kids a great experience that creates lasting childhood memories. Additionally, watching Santa lead various activities can help kids see Christmas as more than just a time for getting gifts.

Parents that need help developing their own countdown to Christmas plans can ease the pressure of the Christmas season by allowing Santa to help countdown Christmas for them. Families will enjoy great bonding time with the wonderfully developed and thoughtful activities presented in the award winning "Family Time with Santa" DVD.

About the Author

CA McCraw writes for the http://www.MySantaSuit.com Network which has been servicing internet customers for 7 years now and taking pride in insuring the Customers Satisfaction. Grab the Hottest DVD Countdown to Christmas this year from http://www.MyChristmasCountdown.com

2007-11-26T02:03:00.001-08:00

Dress Your Family For NFL Games by James Brown

How can you tell if someone is a Green Bay Packers football fan? He is the guy wearing a green and gold shirt with a slice of cheese perched on the top of his head. If he is a family man his cute little baby is drooling onto a Green Bay Packer's bib. He smiles at his four-year old daughter who has on a green and gold cheer leading outfit even though the Packers have no official cheerleaders. Everyone in the family is wearing NFL licensed clothing. The five best selling items in one of the pro shops are all shirts. Four of them have Brett Favre's name on them. Reebok owns the licensing rights to make and sell the shirts along with other products..

About a half-hour before game time the doorbell rings. His wife opens the door for friends wearing her green and gold sweatshirt with Brett Favre and the number four on it over jeans. They all stop in the kitchen for beer and snacks on their way to the family room where they turn on the game. Win or lose, most people in Wisconsin are fans of the Green Bay Packers.

Now if you peek inside the back of the neckline of those sweatshirts etc., they had better have the right tags on them. There is a hologram which assures you that it is a licensed product. From a short distance away its hard to be sure. There are dishonest people out there on street corners peddling cheap knock-offs of the real thing. It is tempting to a lot of folks to buy them since the price of "the real thing" is sky high. Imagine the amounts spent on these licensed products. Winter jacket from $100 to about $500. We won't even contemplate the price of the leather one. Unless -- Bill Gates, Warren Buffet, are you reading this? Under his jacket the man wears a sweatshirt, licensed also. If lucky enough to be attending the game in person, he has to park himself on a cushion with the proper logo. Matching hat and even gloves are available. In winter he huddles under a blanket which of course has a big team logo on the back. Only his face peeks out from under that Green Bay Packer licensed stocking cap.

Not only in Wisconsin, but those wild Texas Cowboy fans and the people screaming advice to their Denver Broncos are all clad in the proper t-shirts to show their loyalty. There hasn't been a heavy metal helmet available for sale to the Minnesota Vikings fans -- yet. That will certainly give the Wisconsin cheeseheads some competition. All these products add to the fun of cheering for a favorite NFL team. It does make holiday shopping easier. The boys who wouldn't get excited about pajamas would be pleased to get pajamas with their team's logo on them. For the man of the house who seldom vacates his recliner during the weekend an exercise warm-up suit with logo displayed front and back. Choosing gifts for children's teachers and family gifts young kids can afford to buy there are key chains for all teams, glass drinking mugs filled with peanuts and showing the logo. Posters of favorite players to decorate their rooms and for the person impossible to buy for - a tree ornament featuring their team logo. But trust me when I say, the lady of the house will not be ecstatic over a football decorated tablecloth for the dining room.

Meanwhile, back to the well-dressed family in Wisconsin. The game ends, the Monday morning quarterbacking begins. Everyone returns to the kitchen. After laying out green plastic forks, football plates and napkins they all enjoy the large football shaped cake she purchased at the neighborhood grocery store...

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2007-11-20T01:24:00.001-08:00

Natural Family Planning by India Parenting

Natural methods of family planning (NFP) do not interfere with a person's health in any way like other methods of family planning do. Other artificial family planning methods may have long-term effects on your fertility, while with natural family planning, such effects don't arise.

The pill, for example, has certain benefits but along with the benefits, it also has side effects. In addition, if you forget to take the pill, the chances of pregnancy are higher.

Condoms act as a barrier while making love, and tend to diminish pleasure. With natural family planning, this does not arise.

How effective is it?

This method of family planning is not 100% effective. In fact, the only methods of contraception that are 100% effective are:
1. Total abstinence
2. Removal of the ovaries
3. Castration

Vasectomy and tubal ligation have very low failure rates, and are almost 100% effective, but not quite. 14 out of every 10,000 vasectomies, 4 out of every 10,000 tubal ligations, result in pregnancies.

Do I need to have a regular cycle?

You need not necessarily have a regular cycle for this method to be effective, though if your cycle is completely skewed, you could consider another method of birth control. However, even if you are a little irregular, you can tell when you are ovulating because of the discharge of cervical mucus. Therefore, you can avoid having sex during this time. If you are regular with your period, natural family planning is 98% effective.

How can I tell when I am fertile?

As men are normally always fertile, this method of family planning depends on when the woman is fertile, and having intercourse when the woman is not fertile. So how can you tell when a woman is fertile? A woman is fertile when she discharges cervical mucus. The mucus has a consistency of raw egg-white. After ovulation, the mucus disappears. Other signs include a slight rise in a woman's body temperature when she wakes up in the morning. This is best measured with a Basal Body Thermometer, as the rise is often just 0.5 degrees. She may also get a feeling called ovulation pain.

What advantages does this method of family planning have over others?

The natural method of family planning helps build the foundation for a better marriage, because a certain amount of healthy abstinence is introduced in the relationship. It also helps develop self-control. In addition, it is a method done and discussed together. Both partners keep a tab on the wife's menstrual cycle, and both are involved in this method of family planning. By keeping a tab of the wife's cycle, any irregularity can immediately be noticed, and the doctor can be alerted. However, if the pill is regulating the cycle, any health issues may go unnoticed.

Before practicing natural family planning yourself, you should consult your gynecologist for further information. Certain doctors are skeptical about the effectiveness of this method, as doctors tend to be of any natural methods. There are courses held throughout the world, which coach couples to practice natural family planning effectively. It must be remembered that this method not the rhythm method of birth control, and is more scientific and effective.

The definitive guide for parents on stages of pregnancy, labour, delivery and childbirth, with monthly changes in the mother, weekly development of the baby, complications, etc.

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2007-11-14T05:34:00.001-08:00

The Family that Plays Together Stays Together by Sarah Jones

Most families have favorite games that they have shared together over the years. When I was a child, my family was very keen on family games. It wasn't just the lack of other forms of entertainment that made us play them, we loved them anyway. Even if there had been more TV channels and computer games, we still would have got the family games out of the cupboard.

I think that kids miss out today by not having that quality time with their parents and siblings. It's a great bonding exercise and it teaches kids to be graceful in victory and defeat. So many activities are solitary today, and kids have entire home entertainment systems in their bedrooms. Families are fragmented throughout the house.

My father taught my brother and I to play chess from a very young age. Chess games and checkers were part of our Sunday afternoon routine. We also liked to play card games for matches or pennies. We'd play pontoon or gin rummy. Board games were another sort of family games we played a lot. Our favorites were monopoly, snakes and ladders and clue. Family games of monopoly could go on for days.

Outdoor activities were also popular with my family. We liked to go to the local park and play a game of cricket or kick a soccer ball around. There were tennis courts too, which we made use of. When my own children were little, my husband and I carried on the family games tradition. They liked board games too, and we played the old favorites. My adult son still plays The Simpsons version of monopoly with his girlfriend. We also liked to play Risk, the war strategy game. Pictionary is still one of the games we enjoy. We have only recently got Twister in our house. It's certainly good for keeping you agile and its great fun.

Many games now have computer versions, such as Risk. I'd rather smell the board and hold the figures in my hand. Everything has to be on a screen now. I think we assume that kids won't want to play family games the old fashioned way. You can also play chess and cards on the computer.

If more families spent time together, perhaps they'd stay together. I have many happy memories of sitting round the table with loved ones, playing family games. It's great for stress levels, as long as you don't mind losing!

About the Author

Sarah Jones loves teaching. When she isn't teaching her own son, she is busy sharing her love of education with others. Find a wide assortment of Lesson Plans, crafts for kids, and education tips at her site, http://www.KnowMore.com.

2007-11-12T00:34:00.001-08:00

Get Your Family Involved In Your Home Computer Business by K. Faram

Many people think of operating a home business simply as a way of making the extra money that they need to pay the bills so that their family can live as comfortably as possible. And that isn't the only issue. Too many times when a person chooses to work from home, they take their family members for granted and the family starts to feel as if the work from home job which should be enriching their lives and bringing them closer together is alienating them further and taking as long as a full time job. Also, it is very easy for someone to take on too much work as they build their computer based home business, because they might be tempted to simply work all day and all night and will forget to take the time to be away from work. It is true that having a home business means you are never away from your job and this can be dangerous.

There are several things that you can do to ensure that your family doesn't get put on the sidelines when it comes to operating your home computer business. First of all, you can choose a home business that involves the whole family. Even the youngest family members can help you pick out products that have been purchased and need to be boxed or shipped. You can get your entire family involved because there are things to be learned for all, and there are tasks that can be accomplished at each level, including your paperwork. By involving your family in your computer based home business, you might well find that you are able to actually make work into something that everyone can be a part of, and it won't be so much work anymore.

Another thing that you can do is to make your work time correspond with the times when your family is doing something else and this is after all one of the main reasons why you are working from home initially. Try to get your work done while the children are at school, at soccer practice or after they have gone to sleep. Try not to be working all of the time, remember that even though you are working from home you shouldn't be spending all of your time on your computer or isolated in your home office. You need to designate certain times as times that are not for working, and you must ensure that you are sticking by the rules that you have set for yourself so that you don't burn yourself out. This is especially true for home computer businesses, where regular breaks from the screen are also needed to avoid eyestrain.

Remember that working from home should be something that is enjoyable to you and something that benefits your family and yourself. And it's even better if you can involve your family in some way so that they feel appreciated and included. You can also keep to your promise of working fewer hours than a full time job if you are careful with the home business that you choose. The beauty of a computer based home business is it allows you to automate many of your actions and to adequately follow up with your customers, something the larger companies struggle to do.

About the Author

Kerenza Faram is the author of several informative articles on internet marketing. For more information on successful and proven home computer business ideas, click here

2007-11-11T01:01:00.000-08:00

Tax Saving Tips for Families by Doug Samuelson

We're all looking for tax saving tips. Most of us pay large amounts each year in taxes, and we need ways to reduce these expenses. There are many tax savings tips that can especially help families to reduce their taxes by looking for expenses that they might not have realized are tax deductible.

Child Care - One of the many tax saving tips for families is to be certain to include your child care expenses. There are a couple of ways to do this. The first is through a flexible spending account. With these employer sponsored accounts, you can contribute to your child care expenses on a pre-tax basis, reducing your taxable income for the year. The second way to reduce your taxes is to claim your child care expenses as a deduction at the end of the year. Day care expenses count, of course, but many parents don't realize that those summer day camps that kids attend during summer vacation can be counted as well. As long as the primary reason your child attended a summer day camp was so that you could work or go to school, the fees you pay to these camps can be considered a deductible child care expense. The fact that the camp was fun and entertaining doesn't eliminate it from being tax deductible.

Health Care - Another of the great tax saving tips for families is deducting health care expenses. Like child care expenses, health care expenses can be paid for on a pre-tax basis using a flexible spending account, or can be deducted at the end of the year. It's important to keep track of all of your health care expenses, including purchasing over the counter medications, if you plan to deduct at the end of the year. If you're using a flexible spending account, turn these expenses in for reimbursement.

Know the Code - Tax laws change from year to year. Each year there may be new and different deductions that your family can enjoy. Some may be one time deductions, while others may be new permanent changes to the tax codes. If you don't have time to review the tax code for changes each year, consider have your taxes professionally prepared. Your tax preparer will be well informed on changes to the tax code, and can likely find tax saving tips and deductions you might miss.

Check with your financial planner or tax advisor to find more tax saving tips for your family. There are many ways that families can help save money on taxes each and every year, keeping more money in your pocket for taking care of your family.

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2007-11-05T00:23:00.001-08:00

It Will Always Start With The family by Amanda Maseko

When it comes to your family, you only want the best, so when it comes to choosing your family health care insurance plan, you want only the best, too. So when you start looking for the best types of family health insurance you clearly have one thing on your mind and that is affordable health insurance that will provide adequate coverage and protection for your family. There are many different types of family health care insurance that can be purchased to provide adequate health care coverage for you and your loved ones.

This information is important in assessing the appropriate health insurance coverage that will meet the needs of your family. There are many good low-cost temporary family health insurance plans available and with a little patience and research, you will find the policy that is just right for your family. And this is self-explanatory - these are health insurance plans that cover all the members of your family.

Health care can be expensive, so when you are looking for a health insurance plan for your family, you are going to want to look for plans that are both affordable, and offer the health coverage you need. When searching for a particular plan there are several popular choices, the indemnity plan is the most traditional health insurance plan covers visits to the doctor, physician or health care specialist of your choice. An indemnity plan, which is the more traditional type of health insurance plan that most of us are familiar with, covers you no matter which doctor you choose to see and whatever procedures you need to have done.

The family vacations

It's time to plan the family vacation - and everyone wants to go skiing, but unless skiing is done 24 hours in a row, a break now and then before going back to the slopes is not only fun, but exciting. But sure you are fully prepared and organized for this trip.

If you are looking for budget vacation, among the ways for a budget vacation, Camping is one of the best. And taking your family to Tawas bay is a great budget vacation idea. But if you're not familiar with Tawas Bay, you're certainly missing out on one of America's treasures, one that will certainly make the perfect family vacation.

If you're planning a Christmas vacation, be sure to wrap your gifts early if you are taking them for the trip. And if you want to make sure that your kids have a positive feeling about the trip from the start it's a wise idea to involve them and get their input early in the planning stages.

The family traditions

When creating your family traditions, you may chose to do some of the things you did as a child or incorporate some cultural or religious ideas:- Carols by Candlelight, Church Services, Advent Calendars, Special Christmas Stories and Christmas Candles are more great ways to celebrate the fun of Christmas.

A very easy way to start a tradition that will stay in the family is with jewelry. Families that devote any regular time at all - as little as 30 minutes a week with small children or 30 minutes a month with older children - to some regularly structured ritual, tradition or activity, have children who experience much less serious difficulty than identical families in the same neighborhoods that spend no time together. It is certain that our children are living in a world that is vastly different from the one in which we were raised and the world they will live in as an adult will be different than the one we live in now. And this holiday, may you embrace and celebrate the beauty that comes into our lives through our family and friends.

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2007-11-03T14:50:00.001-07:00

Family as an Essential Part of Civilization by Andrew Schwartz

In the course of this idea of family as an essential part of civilization Winton explores the thought of individuality. All the characters (mainly notably Rose) move violently to come to terms with who they are. Rose is scarred by the duty thrust upon her in her early days as a consequence of her dysfunctional family. It is for this cause that she tries to cut off herself and refuse her past. She focuses her aggravation on her mother, and cultivates a deep hatred for her "Hating you is the most excellent part of being alive!" Rose's physical disintegration as a consequence of her eating chaos symbolizes the emotional refuse caused by her debilitating hatred for her mother. Moreover, her relationship with Toby Raven elucidates a wish to transform her social class. Charmed by Toby's bourgeois way of life, Rose denigrates her surroundings "It's hard to accept as true that I come from this nuthouse every morning" and the employ of overstatement in 'nuthouse' illuminates the degree of her rejection of her working class family. Finally, though, she comes to be familiar with the superficiality and pretentiousness of Toby's class, and after a rather quick wedding with Quick, begins a journey of self-growth. Quick's endurance and loyalty allows Rose to finally understand her identity by teaching her to move on from her past. In doing so Winton demonstrates the authority of the family. In "Cloud Street", sexual category roles are closely linked to individuality. For instance, in "A Mug's Game" we are shown Dolly's point of view. Her own awareness of her identity is based exclusively on her physical form as an object of wish for men. Strong images such as "swollen and shredded with lines", "her teeth were yellow" and "her bottom lip had begun to hang" elucidates the disintegration of her once -- youthful look. For most of the narrative, Dolly is safe in her identity as an attractive woman; nevertheless, she is forced to re-evaluate herself as she ages, and as she considers the viewpoint of being a grandmother. Dolly has been disempowered by her traditional values to her sex role in a patriarchal civilization and it is for this cause that Winton is able to call to mind understanding and shame from his spectators.

About the Author

Jane Smith is a member of a support team at essay services. Having completed a number of evolution essay himself, Jane uses her knowledge to provide individualized customer support to students.

2007-11-01T18:39:00.001-07:00

Bowling Is Great Family Fun

By: Lou Drake

My family and I just joined a summer bowling league. We're not good bowlers, have never really done much bowling at all actually, but we were looking for something we could do with our teenage children that would be fun for all of us, would create more "family time", and would be affordable. On the suggestion of a few friends, bowling was the answer to our "affordable family fun" that we had been searching for.

In preparation for this family adventure I've discovered a few small things.

1. If you have more than one child, bowling is not the "affordable family fun time" many think it is. Last night was our second time out and after buying dinner at a local restaurant and then bowling ( 3 games each for 6 people ) we spent well over $150.00 !!

2. Rental shoes and balls are just downright GROSS ! We tried using the rentals the first night bowling and soon discovered it was not for us. Sooooo, we ventured out the following day to procure our own equipment for this new undertaking. 6 pair of bowling shoes, 6 bowling balls, and 6 bowling bags later, we were looking at macaroni and cheese for dinner for the next month, this new adventure cost us approximately $600.00 to outfit the entire family.

3. Having your own personal shoes and ball will not instantly make you a good bowler. I know this for a fact, I still have trouble scoring over 100 points per game. I'm hoping this will improve in time however.

4. Having health insurance is a good idea if you have children that are clumsy, one sprained ankle later, we're now hoping the teenager recovers in time to start the league bowling in 3 weeks.

5. Teenagers will eagerly partake in this family venture as long as you promise to supply them with a constant stream of soda, soft pretzels, pizza slices, and jukebox money while bowling. ( Add on an additional $15.00 per kid, per bowling night, in food and drink expense in addition to the weekly $13.00 league fees )

6. Keep a good supply of ibuprofen in your bowling bag or pocket book. Organizing an entire family to get to the bowling alley on time is definitely enough to give even the most resilient person a headache of astronomical proportions. Even if you survive the organizing and do manage to get everyone out the door on time, you will want the ibuprofen for joint aches, muscle aches, and other such problems caused from swinging a 10 to 15 pound ball around all evening long.

7. Your teenagers will laugh and point at you when you slip and fall, sending your bowling ball sailing 5 lanes over to the left. They will laugh even harder if you injure yourself in that fall.

8. The most important thing I've discovered during this adventure is that time with my family is priceless. No matter the expenses, no matter the headaches and muscle aches, the enjoyment of doing something as a family in this day and age of "everyone goes their own way and does their own thing" is fantastic. I would happily do it all again this winter for a winter league...maybe.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR:

Lou Drake has been writing articles as a hobby for years on the internet and also owns or manages numerous websites, including a PPC affiliate program, debate forum, blog creation service, and a Backlink Building site. You can contact her through any of the sites listed here.

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2007-10-31T22:54:00.001-07:00

Summer Family Reunion Scrapbook by Writerrighter

Creating a scrapbook will generate even more interest from your loved ones in those pictures taken at a reunion. It can be a shared project where everyone compiles their photos in one "all dressed up" photo album. But this isn't the old dime-store album of plain, clear vinyl pockets in a grid where you insert your 4X6's. If you're the "lucky" one who gets to amass this family treasure I can help you get started.

Here's How "Scrappers" Do It

During the summer family picnic, or shortly thereafter, ask grandma or grandpa to write a handwritten reflection of the day's events. If they can jot down things family members mention that are going on in their lives at the time it adds a nice, newsy touch. Keep a copy of the invitation to the reunion showing where it took place.

Keep artwork the kids created. Be sure to include a group photo since it shows the size of the family. To add more journaling you can record some fun facts to your scrapbook memories. Some ideas: What games and sports were played. Who traveled the furthest. Who makes the most popular dessert. Who grew the most since last year (taller that is!). Who's the "sore loser" at card games. Who's the biggest "ham". Who sneaked in a nap. Are we having fun yet?? The photo collection you pick from could be sent to you or emailed as files for you to print yourself. The advantage here would be your ability to print them at a size best suited for your "creative genius". Often a somewhat small size works for a number of the photos as there may be a lot of them. It depends on whether or not you receive vast numbers of pictures. The group photo should be at least 8 x10" in size. There is plenty of space for it as long as you get a 12 x 12" scrapbook.

You could get a smaller size book but the large size lets you place numerous photos on a page with enough room for photo captions. To arrange photos on a page you can place them at various angles and overlap them a little. This adds a casual feel, lets you pack more onto a page and avoids the monotony of a traditional album. Don't be afraid to crop some of the photos with only 1 or 2 people in them. At an event like this many of the photos will have similar backgrounds, and cropping captures what is important. Cut around the people with precision. Then you can place the cropped shape on a pretty or bright background. Little secret here....if that fiance keeps showing up in photos you can crop said newcomer and put in the scrapbook. Removal is easy if they don't become a husband or wife after all. Gosh...had to say it though. If your family is very large commit a page to each individual family to make it clear which kids are offspring of who! It may seem obvious now, but wait until children change and the years pass. Any members of your clan who didn't make the reunion can send a current photo to contribute. Also, write the ages of all the children so you can get that perspective of how they change over the years. The backs of photos are not a good place since they will be glued down. Make a pocket and place the "Lil' Ones Facts" in it or enter as "Emily at 4." by their pictures. A color theme for this scrapbook would be the bright, cheerful hues of summer. I would not choose pastels as they denote newborn babies instead of the natural brights of fruits and vegetables, pools and green lawns. Patterns on papers you incorporate could be red-check tablecloth or linen textured. Embellishments and stamping you add can run the gamut from grass and trees to apples and watermelon to baseball, volleyball or beach toys. Handwritten labeling may be appropriate for much of it to keep it informal. The title of the scrapbook should be in die-cut, stenciled or stick on lettering.

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2007-10-31T02:29:00.001-07:00

Writing Your Family History: 50 Questions You MUST Ask Your Parents or Grandparents Before thye Die by Mike Brozda

50 Questions You MUST Ask Your Parents Or Grandparents before they Die

No one expected it.

While climbing into his hot tub, my 87 year-old father-in-law slipped, fell, and broke a rib. He began internal bleeding that the doctors couldn't stop. In two weeks, Gene was gone.

Fortunately, we had taken time a few months earlier to record Gene's life story, and discovered some amazing facts. He was a semi-pro baseball player, a fine watercolorist, and a US Marine. As a marketing executive for Kaiser and later Del Monte, he worked on national advertising campaigns with stars of his day, including Joan Crawford, Debbie Reynolds, Stan Musial, Lloyd Bridges and others.

We recorded Gene's life story on two occasions: once at a small family dinner, then during a living-room interview a few months later.

We transcribed the audio files of the recordings, added pictures, and then uploaded the whole package to a new free web site at www.GreatLifeStories.com. Gene's family and friends can view his story and add comments or photos if they wish.

The profile that we co-created with Gene is a celebration of his life. It's also a direct, meaningful connection with his daughters and their grandchildren. Anyone can create a life story for themselves or a loved one. It's as simple as setting aside some time and doing some careful listening.

I've helped hundreds of people across the US, Canada, and Mexico capture their life stories. Based on hundreds of hours of interviews, I've boiled down my experience into three key tips, and the 50 most productive questions you can use for success.

Success Tip #1: Pre-Interview Preparation is Key

To get the most from your family history session, be as prepared as possible.

· Inform the subject of the purpose of the interview, who will see it, and how it will be used · Prepare your questions in advance · Set aside a quiet time and place free from interruptions · It's a good idea to use a voice or video recorder; test all equipment thoroughly before starting · It's often useful to use a tape or digital recorder and transcribe the dictation · Photos, mementos, or other visual aids are great memory-joggers. Ask your subject to prepare some in advance · Listen attentively and gently; ask questions of clarification · Don't try to force the subject into something they are uncomfortable discussing

Success Tip #2: Be Flexible and Creative When I first started doing life story interviews, it seemed as if people spent the majority of time talking about their early days. As I got more experience, I began to realize that most people have one, two or possibly three key defining times in their lives. For many, it's childhood. For a lot of men, it's WWII, Korea, or Vietnam. The defining moments emerge like finding a gold nugget in a streambed.

Be sensitive to these defining moments and episodes. Listen extra-carefully, and ask questions. Often a deeper portrait of an individual emerges, laden with rich experiences, values, beliefs, and layers of complexity. If you don't complete the interview in one sitting, set a date to resume your conversation later

Success Tip #3: Organize Life Stories into Chapters Most people (yes, even shy ones) love to be the center of attention and share stories from their lives. There are two challenges for a family historian. The first is to capture the stories in a structured, logical way. The second is to make sure that the stories are as complete as possible and contain facts (names, dates, places), fully-drawn characters, a story line, and perhaps even a finale.

The GreatLifeStories web site divides the life experience into 12 "chapters" that follow the progression of many lives. On the web site, each chapter contains anywhere from 10 to 25 questions. (Below, I've selected the 50 questions that usually get the best results). Don't worry; you don't have to ask them all. In fact, after one or two questions, you may not have to ask anymore--the interview takes on a life of its own.

The most important objective is to make sure you cover as many of the chapter headings as possible. The chapter headings are logical and somewhat chronological in order: Beginnings, School Days, Off to Work, Romance and Marriage, and so forth. Feel free to add your own chapters, as well. The 12-chapter system is a great way to organize both the interview, as well as the life story write up, video, or audio recording.

CHAPTER 1 In the Beginning 1. What were your parents and grandparents full names, dates of birth, places of birth. 2. What were the occupations of your parents? 3. How many children were in your family? Where were you in the lineup? 4. Generally speaking, what was your childhood like? 5. What one or two stories do you remember most clearly about your childhood? 6. Are there any particularly happy, funny, sad or instructive lessons you learned while growing up?

CHAPTER 2 In Your Neighborhood 1. What was it like where you grew up? 2. Describe your most important friendships 3. Where and how did "news of your neighborhood" usually flow?

CHAPTER 3 School Days: 1. Be sure to capture names and dates attended of grammar, high, colleges, trade or technical schools 2. What are your earliest school day memories? 3. Are there any teachers or subjects you particularly liked or disliked? 4. What did you learn in those first years of school that you would like to pass along to the next generation? 5. Were you involved in sports, music, drama, or other extra-curricular activities?

CHAPTER 4 Off to Work 1. What did you want to be when you grew up? 2. What was your first job, and how did you get it? 3. What was your first boss like? What did you learn from him or her? 4. Did you leave? Quit? Get promoted? Get fired? 5. Were you ever out of work for a long time? If so, how did you handle it?

CHAPTER 5 Romance & Marriage 1. What do you recall about your first date? 2. How did you know you were really in love? 3. Tell me how you "popped the question," or how it was popped to you. 4. Tell me about your wedding ceremony. What year? Where? How many attended? Honeymoon? 5. Tell me about starting your family. 6. Were you married more than once? How often?

CHAPTER 6 Leisure and Travel 1. What were the most memorable family vacations or trips you can recall? 2. What leisure time activities are you involved with? 3. What are your greatest accomplishments in this field?

CHAPTER 7 Places of Worship

1. Do you follow any religious tradition? 2. If so which one, and what is it like? 3. Have you ever changed faiths? 4. What role do your beliefs play in your life today? 5. What would you tell your children about your faith?

CHAPTER 8 War & Peace: 1. Were you a volunteer, drafted or a conscientious objector? 2. If you didn't serve, what do you recall about being on the home front during the war? 3. What key moments do you recall about your service? 4. What would you tell today's young soldiers, sailors and fliers?

CHAPTER 9 Triumph and Tragedy 1. What were the most joyous, fulfilling times of your life? 2. Any sad, tragic or difficult times you'd care to share such as losing a loved one, a job, or something you cared about? 3. What lifelong lessons did you learn from these tough times? Joyous times? 4. Were there any moments you recall as true breakthroughs in any area of your life? 5. If you could do one thing differently in your life, what would that be?

CHAPTER 10 Words of Wisdom 1. What have you learned over your lifetime that you'd like to share with the younger generation? 2. People will sometimes repeat aphorisms such as "honesty is the best policy." If they do, be sure to ask how they learned that life lesson.

CHAPTER 11 Funnybones 1. What were your family's favorite jokes or pranks? 2. Who is, or was, the family comedian? "Straight" man? 3. What's the funniest family story you remember?

CHAPTER 12 Thank You 1. What are you most grateful for you your life? 2. How have you taught your children to be grateful? 3. Are there items or places that mark special gratitude for the ones you love? What are they? What are their stories?

In closing, it is always a good idea to ask an open-ended question such as:" Is there anything I haven't asked about that you would care to comment on?" You'll often be surprised and delighted at the answers!

About the Author

Veteran journalist Mike Brozda has written for national and international publications for more than 30 years.

2007-10-11T04:16:00.001-07:00

Vacations Information On Various Travel Locations by Mike Mannus

When it comes time to figure out what you are going to do for your next vacation, it is important to have proper information so that you can make informed decisions and create the best vacation possible. Family cruise vacations information can be very helpful if you are thinking about taking your first cruise as a family.

Beautiful cruise vacations that include the whole family are a wonderful way to bond and be together while still having enough variety of activities and diversions for younger children, the teens in the family and for mom and dad as well. Searching for family cruise vacations information from the various cruise lines and travel agencies that specialize in cruises or in good summer vacations can yield a wealth of cruise package choices so that you can find just the right cruise that will be special and memorable for each member of your family.

Obviously, when it comes to family vacations you are not limited to cruises, and as the end of school nears then it is time to search out good summer vacations information which will probably end up giving you more options that you will have time to fully absorb.

In fact, before launching into a search of vacations information it is a good idea to first have at least some idea in mind of where the family wants to go or what type of activities they most want to engage in, and then start the search from there. Otherwise, blindly searching for family vacation information can end up being more confusing than helpful.

When summer is behind you and you are contemplating what to do with the family for winter break, many people, especially those who love snow and skiing, start to dream about using that time for ski vacations in Colorado or other wintry wonderlands. For such destinations, it is good to search for discount ski vacations information to find special deals and packages that can provide the best value for the money. While many times you can save money by booking discount ski vacations in advance, there are also some instances in which waiting until the last minute can be advantageous because of last minute pricing as resorts and destinations scramble to fill their facilities.

No matter what type of vacations information you are seeking, be sure to check on the full terms of any packages that you might be interested in so that you know what to expect in case something interferes with your plans. Ask about the possibility and charges associated with cancellations and reschedulings so that you are well prepared.

If your looking for vacations information on the a wide range of holiday destinations such as a royal caribbean cruise then www.aboutvacations.net will help you in your search to find out more.

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http://www.aboutvacations.net provides a wide selection of articles and resouces about various holiday destinations from around the world

2007-10-09T01:49:00.001-07:00

Why Anger Rises In The Family (And How To Let It Go) by Brenda Shoshanna

The family is the most common place for anger to erupt. It is also the place where the seeds of anger are sowed. When we live closely with others, when we are bonded to them, attached, dependent or vulnerable these individuals have the power to affect us deeply. In these relationships our expectations and demands greater.

Images Of The Family

We have strong images of how parents, siblings or children "should" behave. We feel we have the right to demand love and attention from those in the family. Parents have strong feelings that they have the right to loyalty and obedience, just because of their roles, (no matter how they treat their children). Children often feel the same. There is a common craving for a "happy family", where everyone loves and cares for each other, and where everyone accepts all of each other's difficulties. Unfortunately, this craving is often unfulfilled. For the most part the myth of a happy family is often a dream.

Families are often hotbeds of misunderstandings, resentment, sibling rivalry, jealousy, inappropriate expectations and demands and lack of acceptance. In fact, families are really fine places to work through a great deal of issues and learn how to individuate, grow, love and accept both others and ourselves.

Although many of us blame our parents for all that has gone wrong, the fact is that the parent is not the real culprit. It is the smoldering anger that is being held onto that causes the pain. It is the inability to get over disappointment about not having the parent of our dreams. This anger and disappointment can prevent us from growing up and establishing the life that best expresses our values and vision today.

Identity And The Family

A major factor that contributes to anger in families is the tendency each member has to identify with the other. Parents feel that children are a reflection of them. Parents also project their worst fears about themselves onto their children, or want their children to make up for errors and disappointments in their own lives. This is a huge mistake, which leads to a great deal of pain. It is interesting to notice how little room there is for differences in most families. Most think that a perfect family is one in which everyone is the same.

Individuation - (Becoming Who You Are)

The most vital process that goes on in the family is the process of individuation. This means that as a child grows they are given the opportunity to discover who they are, to be separate and different from those they love. Some experience differences between themselves and family members as separation, or even rejection. They do not realize that unless family members become who they are, they will not be able to grow and love. Instead, anger develops, deep resentment and pain. The greatest longing most family members have is being known, heard and accepted for who they are. Ultimately, this is experienced as love.

Unfulfilled Needs In The Family

After a certain point of maturity family members enter the larger world and become part of other groups. These new groups are often experienced as new families. Needless to say these individuals automatically and unconsciously begin to repeat the same patterns they experienced in the family they came from. If there were many unfulfilled needs in their original family, they try to get these filled now.

If there were many demands made upon them, they expect that to be true once again and begin resisting demands made upon them in their new groups. (Or, they may turn it around and make those demands upon others now).When they enter a romantic relationship, often it becomes a repeat of the relationship they saw between their parents, or a relationship in opposition to it. One way or the other, the original family remains the main reference point.

Conflicts, demands, unfulfilled needs must fundamentally be traced back to its origin in the family and resolved there. Sooner or later we must make peace with our family, as it was and as it wasn't. Then we become able to create something healing and new.

Families Of Choice

When we have come to peace with our family, we are then able to "choose" those individuals and relationships, which we value and want in our lives. Although we cannot choose our original family, we can choose friends in our lives and choose to create a significant relationship that reflects who we are and what we've always wanted. We can create a new family now that fulfills our dreams and desires. This does not mean rejecting our original family, but learning from it, still giving to it, but, at the same time, going forward to create our lives as we wish them to be.

About the Author

Watch stress and sickness melt away on The Anger Diet, award winning book by top psychologist http://www.theangerdiet.com. Dr Shoshanna, speaker, relationship expert, has helped thousands. Free ezine and articles,www.brendashoshanna.com, topspeaker@yahoo.com. Counseling, workshops available.

2007-10-07T20:44:00.000-07:00

Parenting 101: How Can Traditional Games Benefit Your Child? by Michael G. Rayel, MD

For the past few years, I've talked to parents complaining about their kids and their online or computer habits.

"They spend too much time playing online games. No time for homework," reports a single mom.

"When my child loses a game, he yells at me," adds a frustrated mother.

"My son forgets to eat meals. He's so immersed with it that he completely ignores me," says another.

I feel bad for them but it's true. Our children are simply bombarded with tons of new online stuffs. I'm not against online games. At least, they have some role in engaging our kids. But most of these online games are designed to entertain and so after a while, some kids get bored. And if done in excess, some even become grouchy.

Meanwhile, traditional games are overlooked if not ignored. When I say traditional games, I'm not just referring to old, classic games. I consider most board, word, or card games as traditional games because they don't use computer or "hi-tech" gadgets.

Unlike traditional games, today's online games don't involve social interaction. If permitted, kids can stay with the computer all day long. Instead of spending time with their parents, siblings, or friends, they spend time with a cold, lifeless machine. And this is where the problem comes in -- the lack of connection with a human soul.

How can traditional games help kids?

First, traditional games can help kids learn to acknowledge their emotions, although indirectly. During play, kids learn to deal with frustration after a loss, with excitement after a win, with anger after getting a "bad turn," with anxiety when pride is on the line.

By playing traditional games, kids also learn how to communicate politely with other players. They show empathy to players who loses, become assertive with those who bend the rules, and control their temper when others become rowdy.

I strongly believe in the educational value of traditional games. Hence about three years ago, I developed a board game -- now known as Oikos Game --designed not only to entertain and to create fun but also to provide an educational experience for parents and kids. Learning through play is one of the ways to teach life lessons to kids. Second, traditional games provide a venue for families to spend time together, to generate lively banter, and to communicate with one another --done in the spirit of fun. The time spent each day to play with kids is a time well-spent. At the end of the day, what kids remember are the happy times spent with their parents and siblings. It won't matter to them who wins or loses.

They will cherish those moments of togetherness and treasure those periods of laughter. The closeness and warmth among family members will forever be celebrated.

Kids love to connect with their parents. They need to feel secure, to be affirmed, to be listened to. They want frequent hugs, comforting words, and even high fives. If given a choice, most kids will prefer a warm, genuine touch and a caring, healing voice over an online game.

So a daily thirty-minute playtime with kids is an occasion to help families thrive.

Third, traditional games stimulate the brain through logical thinking and strategy. Studies have shown that to keep our brain healthy, we need to frequently stimulate it. Through reading, learning new things, playing word or board games, solving puzzles, or doing physical activities, our brain stays fit.

Like many specialists, I've recommended brain-stimulating activities to individuals who suffer from dementia. In my experience, those who often play card or word games and solve puzzles get worse slower than those who don't. Indeed, our brain also needs "mental aerobics" to keep it sharp and healthy.

In summary, traditional games allow families to have quality time together while improving relationships, creating laughter, keeping the brain healthy, and strengthening the bond that glue the family's fabric.

About the Author

Copyright © 2007. Dr. Michael G. Rayel - author (A 31-Day Series and First Aid to Mental Illness) psychiatrist, and inventor of emotional intelligence games -- The Oikos Game Series and The CEO. Since 2005, he has published Oikos' Insights! (www.oikosinsights.com) as an online resource for personal development. For more information, visit www.oikosglobal.com.

2007-10-03T16:03:00.001-07:00

Buying Real Estate for Your Family by bill

The very best and most enjoyable reason to purchase real estate by far is in buying a property in which your family will live and grow together. There is a lot of fun involved in finding the perfect place for you and your family to call home. There is also a great deal of stress involved as well and that should not be overlooked.

Some things to keep in mind when searching for the perfect property for your family are the following:

1) Make your first step the step of finding a realtor or buyer's agent that you are confident has your needs, desires, and best interests at heart. Your realtor can prove to be a lifesaver when you've reached the final hours before closing and the sky looks as though it's going to fall. Far more than that though, your realtor can help you find the home that you simply cannot see your family living without. 2) Once you've found a real estate that you trust to help you find a home for your family it is time to identify the things that are absolute necessities in your search and those things you can live without. The most important thing to decide upon is a budget that you are comfortable living with. 3) Once you've established a budget you need to decide the features that are important to meet the needs of your family. The number of bedrooms, bathrooms, square footage, and yard space. Do you need a fenced in yard or a basement? These things are important as they do affect the comfort and in some cases safety of your family. 4) Another important thing that must be considered when purchasing a home for your family is the neighborhood. This is more important than many people may realize. It is well worth having a smaller home in a neighborhood that is poised for growth rather than a larger home in a neighborhood that is in the state of decline or on the verge of the state of decline. Crime rates in the neighborhood and the school district are other things that need to be considered as well before deciding to view a potential home. ........

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2007-10-01T16:54:00.001-07:00

Awesome Dad's Top Ten Ways To Be The Foundation of Your F

Part of the responsibility of being a father is to establish a strong foundation for the family. Just like a building foundation, much of this work goes unseen and rarely gets acknowledged, yet the strength and integrity of the entire structure relies on it. The following intentions, although not always perfectly fulfilled, give us guidance in our mission.

Grounded in Reality

While my children may put me on a pedestal, I have my feet firmly on the ground and acknowledge my own strengths and weaknesses.

Demonstrative Love

I take the time to know and understand the best way to communicate my love to each and every child. My children see my love for my wife clearly expressed.

Mutual Respect.

By honoring and never ridiculing the thoughts, emotions and actions of my family, each member clearly experiences and understands my great respect for them.

Consistently Predictable.

My family is comforted and anchored by my predictability. My deepest values are consistently

demonstrated in my speech and behavior.

Predictable Spontaneity.

My family knows that I am extremely curious and love to explore and learn. My spontaneity is

consistent. We plan with flexibility, and the children look forward to unexpected adventures.

Responsible.

My children see how I prepare and follow through, owning up to my responsibilities. They learn by my example.

Safety/Security

I take safety very seriously and my children know it. They have learned by my examples, for instance: I always wear a helmet when skating, skiing or bicycle riding, and I take first-aid and CPR classes. Our car does not go into motion until all seat belts, including mine, are on. Primary

Advocate

My children know that I stand behind them and will protect, defend and honor them at all times. I do not discuss my children's failings with others.

Serious Humor

I deliberately use humor liberally to lighten stress and lubricate relationships to ensure a cohesive family.

WYSIWYG What you see is what you get.

I practice what I preach and that includes accepting human frailty and mistakes. The greatest foundation for a family is living with integrity.

Duplication, with attribution, permitted and encouraged.

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2007-09-29T05:50:00.001-07:00

Business Gifts for New Families by Gareth Parkin

One of the dangers of your employees starting their families, especially if those employees are women, is the real and present danger that they will like parenthood so much that they will simply not return to work! There is nothing that you can do to eliminate this danger, however there are ways to make your employees remember your company very fondly on those night when the baby is screaming at two in the morning - by sending them off with a business gift to celebrate the birth of their new child with them.

When one of your employees or their significant other is expecting, it is a great idea to give them a business gift to share in their joy and to let them know that he company is celebrating with them. This gift can be anything from a cookie jar stuffed with baby socks to a beautiful picture frame and beyond - getting creative when it comes to business gifts for expectant parents is a bonus!

Business gifts can run a wide range, so choose from the registry of the expectant parents if you happen to know where it is, or just give them something beautiful and meaningful from your own standby business gift provider. These gifts should be personalized as much as possible to the couple and should reflect what you know of them as well as thanking them for their contributions to your business.

Business gifts for new families can truly be just about anything, and the expectant parents are a good place to go for information on what is needed. In a smaller company, it is easy to approach the parents in question to ask what is still needful. A few well-placed questions can provide you with a handful of wonderful gift ideas for the new family. In a larger company where there are many employees and possibly many expectant parents at the same time, managers can communicate with employees to find out what is needed or the company can standardize the gift giving process.

For these larger companies in which the gifts are to be standardized, use gifts that are more decorative than practical (a woman having her fifth child is much less likely to need the basics, after all). These gifts can be picture frames (especially frames that are specific to new babies), decorative items like silver plated or bronzed baby shoes, or other special items.

Your employees will appreciate your thoughtfulness, and will be thinking fondly of working with you every time that they see the gift from your company. They will be remembering how nice it is to work for a company that cares every time the baby cries, and with a little luck, you might even get them back after parental leave is up! Business gifts are designed to foster loyalty as well as to show the employees that you care about them and about what is going on in their lives, so share this time of happiness with them, and remind them that you appreciate their service to your business.

About the Author

Gareth Parkin is the co-founder of Ideasbynet, the UK's leading online business gifts and promotional items company based in the north of England. Established in 2001, he has taken the UK gift market by storm by the application of modern business thinking and the latest search engine marketing techniques.

2007-09-23T19:29:00.001-07:00

Create Your Own Family Tree (Genealogy) Website

By: andrewj

Are you researching your family history? A great way of generating interest that may lead to further information is to create a web site of your family tree and family history information. Many of the better Genealogy Software programs provide the opportunity to do this. Alternatively, submitting your
GEDCOM file to the numerous (and free) genealogy sites gives your name and history a presence on the World Wide Web. Another alternative is to use a free hosting service, eg Yahoo GeoCities where you can create your own web site. However these free hosting sites often have restrictions on how much you can display and are often difficult for the first time user.

The best way to design, develop and publish your own personalized family tree website is to use a HTML Editor like FrontPage or one of the many (sometimes free) HTML editors available on the internet.

You will need to purchase a domain name and web hosting.

The following tips will help you create a family tree web site:

Title. The correct title to your web page is critical. It helps search engines identify your page, and searchers to find your page. Something like “The History of the Jones Family in Alabama” or “The Ancestors and Family History of Robert Jones in Alabama” is far better than “My Family Tree”!.

Header. The first paragraph, or header, should contain the surnames of the principal families researched and displayed in your family tree. Again, not just a list of names, but proper sentences which include key words such as family, family tree, ancestors, genealogy and family history.

Content. Visitors and search engines are looking for quality content, particularly on the home page of your web site. Just a list of names being researched is not enough. Compose a few paragraphs briefly describing your family history, with links to your other pages for more detailed family
information. Limit your images on the home page to perhaps to one family photograph, again with links to your other photographs.

Navigation. Good websites have good navigation which allows visitors and search engines to find there way around the web site. Navigation buttons or text links must be on all pages. Particularly important is a Home link on each page.

Meta Tags. Meta Tags are essential on all web sites. Without Meta Tags web sites will be hard for searchers to find and will rank very lowly in many search engine listings. There is no point in having a web site that cannot be found. Do it soon to improve your ‘findability’ and search engine
ranking. A later article on Meta tags will help further.

The Importance of Links. If you have a family tree web site, having other genealogy web sites linking to you is a proven way of generating traffic and improving your page rank in search engines. ‘Link Popularity’ is measured by the number if inward links you have to your sites. Inward links
should be from quality genealogy sites. A links page on your web site is essential. Links can be obtained by inviting webmasters from similar sites to exchange links with you, or by joining a link exchange site. Do not exchange links with inappropriate sites eg gaming and porn! On your links page
invite other web masters to contact you for an exchange. So that the search engines and visitors can find your links page, ensure that there is a link on your home page to the links page.

Contact Details. So that visitors can contact you it is important that you display your email address prominently. To avoid email harvesters show your email address as an image or use a free email account, eg hotmail.

Observing the above tips will help you build a web site that proudly represents your family tree. Later articles will cover other issues relating to family tree web site design.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR:

Jim Hammond is a Family Historian who has created the free Genealogy Search Australia search engine and directory to assist new and experienced genealogists and family historians.Please visit Jim's family tree website: The Hammond Genealogy - From Ireland and Scotland to Australia

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2007-09-18T00:44:00.000-07:00

Does a marriage stand a chance when one parent stand against the other with disciplining step-kids. by Claude Cote

When you have a combined family (Brady Bunch Family) when you have kids from previous relationship and when two people meet and integrate the families, is it possible to have one of the parents and turn the kids against you and the marriage survive? Well having combined families today is more common then having both mom and dad together, with that being said our society over the last 50 years has begun a trend in where combined families are common place. In the early 1900 90% of the families were together and rarely were their divorces, thus making combined family a rare thing. In the early days families stuck together regardless of the situation even if it meant being miserable and abused. Thankfully times have changed for the better in that regard as millions of women were abused their whole life without any chance of happiness.

Well with our generation (30-70 years old) with combined families faced situations that our grandparents never had to deal with. We are faced with some unusual and at times uncomfortable situations because of the word associated with a combined family, Step-Dad or Step-Mom are two words in our society that quite possibly the most trying in our new culture of combined families. The stigma attached to these words do not have quite the bite they once did 40 years ago because of the sheer amount of combined families, but make no mistake in the end they will undoubtedly come into play in your relationship with your significant other.

As families combine there is of course a Major Adjustment period that can take years in developing, with hard work and some luck the families will adjust and even perhaps come together as a family unit, but often this does not always happen, their is usual clash of personalities with the combined families and of course depending on the age, this can be corrected. As we all know the younger the kids are the better chance of having a combined family survive the sometimes troublesome meeting of the minds. And teens are often very reluctant to adjust or accepted mom or dad moving on with a new partner coming into their lives.

There will undoubtedly the clash of how to raise the kids, with each and every one of us being raised differently it is always a tough task and hard work to make sure as parents we are on the same page and agree to disagree when necessary to insure the proper raising of these kids stuck in the middle of this newly formed family unit.

But when parents disagree on how to raised the kids that is when trouble starts, even younger kids can pick up quickly on parents disagreeing and will quickly start using this as a tool for getting what they want. When the parent states that a rule is a rule with a good explanation (Example 9:30 curfew for young teens) then parents must stay together on the rules of the house or the family will not make it and will head towards divorce. Kids will smell divide and will conquer, teens have a built in sensor of when to get parents working against each other, and when one of the parents goes behind the other parent and tells the (their naturally born) kids its ok to break the rules or lie repeatedly despite what the step mom or dad says then one can rest assure of two things certain to happen.

The first thing would be a impending divorce as we all know once the family gets broken down and the step-kids are allow to disrespect the step-mom or dad and have the parent allow these kids to do so there is very little left in the marriage, when the step kids are allow to do what they want and totally ignore the step parents rules then the family unit is now broken down and perhaps some counselling for the entire family may be a answer but if the one parent does not see why parents must stick together on house issues/rules counseling will not fix that issue and the disrespecting and arguing will continue.

The second choice again is the counselling, but sometime feelings are betrayed beyond the point of fixing, when kids are taught to lie and disrespect the step-parent with the mom or dad allowing it this is the kiss of death in any relationship. United we stand Divided we fall is the common themes to a successful combined family. And again with some hard work alot of love and understanding and of course the two parents acting as one is the best remedy of any failing combined family that is going through this difficulty.

About the Author

Claude Cote is the creator of www.RelationshipOver.com a site that helps out individuals with insightful articles, and options in ending that bad relationship or making sure your spouse is indeed being true and faithfull to you. This was created with the broken heated in mind to help solidify your relationship or to clense yourself of bad relationship. Either way you will have the satisfaction of knowing where you stand.

2007-09-16T02:30:00.001-07:00

Your Family Vacation, Activities And Tours by Ken Morris

Many families decide each year to take a summer vacation. Though many do choose to vacation during the summer season, even more families choose to vacation during the off-season. What category does your family travel fall into?

There are several reasons why some families are not able to take a family vacation, one of the most common involving the cost. Unfortunately, many adhere to the disbelief that a vacation has to be an extravagant trip. This is not true, though. Whether you travel to a nearby amusement park, camp at a state park, or travel around the globe, each one can be a fabulous summer vacation.

Busy schedules are another reason many families are unable to take a family vacation. They forget that the purpose of a vacation is to getaway and take a break from those busy schedules. For this reason, summer vacations are a popular time because the kids are out of school and this may be the only time for the entire family to getaway together. Whether you set aside three days or two weeks, you are encouraged to take a summer vacation and enjoy the benefits of spending some quality time with your family.

Quite possibly the greatest benefit of a family vacation is the time you will be able to spend together. In today's busy, fast-paced society, many families spend very little time together due to long work hours, busy extracurricular activity schedules and homework. For many, a summer vacation is the only way a family can spend some quality time together uninterrupted by the routine daily demands.

Another benefit of a summer vacation is the relaxation for both the adults and the children. Today, children must function differently than in the past. They are bombarded with a lot of daily homework, busy sports schedules, after-school extracurricular activities and pressure to be at the top. This can be sometimes be a lot of pressure and difficult to handle. A summer vacation may be the rest and rejuvenation they need to meet the demands of another busy academic year.

In addition to you children, you and your partner are likely in need of some relaxation and rest as much or even more than your children. A summer vacation will give you the time you need to forget about work and personal demands. Forget about cleaning the house or turning in a work report, but rather fall into the role of tourist, relax, do some sightseeing and enjoy the time with your family.

You are encouraged to involve the entire family in choosing a destination, especially if your children are older. Be sure to choose a summer location that everyone will enjoy. Maybe schedule a guided tour that everyone agrees upon. Or, find a resort that has fun-filled activities you can do together as a family or the children can enjoy on their own.

Just remember: the purpose of the family vacation is to reconnect as a family, relax and rejuvenate. You busy schedule and work demands will be waiting for you return, don't worry. Just enjoy the family time!

About the Author

Ken Morris published normally for http://www.alicante-spain.com , a website on Costa Dorada . You might see his articles on alicante spain over at http://www.alicante-spain.com .

2007-09-15T15:56:00.001-07:00

Thanksgiving Traditions: Nine Ideas for Families

By: Susie Cortright

Celebrate families and togetherness this Thanksgiving Day with some time honored traditions, which give us a sense of family identity and meaningfulness that can last for generations.

Here are nine ideas for starting new family traditions, and for revering the old ones:

1. Sit down with your family and reminisce about your childhood celebrations. What do you remember most about Thanksgiving and the days that follow? Thanksgiving traditions can be much more than just food and recipes. In what ways did your childhood traditions symbolize particular values, such as abundance, generosity, the importance of family? What would you like to do that is the same? What would you do like to do differently?

2. Make a small booklet or a mini scrapbook album (which you can either make or purchase.) Write "Five Things I Love About My Family and Friends" and keep it out on the table during your Thanksgiving celebration. Each guest can come and record thoughts and insights. Other themes to try: "Five Things I am Thankful For" or "Five Wishes for my Family and Friends." An even simpler approach would be to put one sheet of cardstock out for each year, and combine them together over the years in a Thanksgiving Gratitude Scrapbook.

3. Keep a Family Gratitude Journal throughout the year. Each night, a family member can share something that they are grateful for. Share the highlights of this family tradition at the dinner table on Thanksgiving Day.

4. Make a Gratitude Circle. Before the Thanksgiving meal, everyone stands and holds hands in a circle. Guests each take a turn sharing what they are grateful for. Or, if your guests are on the shy side, ask everyone to write down their blessings on a piece of paper, which you can read before or after dinner.

5. Designate a particular tablecloth for your family Thanksgiving celebrations. Provide fabric markers where guests can record their "gratitudes" or special prayers for the year ahead. Ask your guests to sign and date each message, as you will be using the same tablecloth year after year.

6. Involve the entire family in Thanksgiving decorations. Family Fun magazine posts lots of creative ideas for the entire family at familyfun.go.com

7. Make a hostess gift for the person who is cooking this year. Purchase an apron or a T shirt or a gift album with sentiments of thanks from each guest. Present the gift after dinner.

8. Show your gratitude to an unsung hero. Get together with your family and decide on a person or a group in your community who could use an extra pat on the back, ie. firefighters, soldiers, police officers, volunteers. Put together a special plate of goodies and deliver it (or pack it up for shipping) as a family.

9. Preserve your traditions. After the meal, record the favorite activities of each family member. Appoint one person to be the scribe, or ask everyone to jot down a few thoughts. Remember to take lots of photos. It is fun to place disposable cameras throughout the house so everyone can capture bits of the action.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR:

Susie Cortright is the founder of Momscape.com and Susies-Coupons.com, where she hand-picks only the very best online coupons and products, including online coupons for children's clothes.

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2007-09-15T00:18:00.001-07:00

Tips for Families on Luxury Travel Vacations by Virginia Morgan

"The family that plays together stays together," and luxury vacations are the greatest ways to play! Everyone needs a vacation, especially families. Tired parents, cranky kids and spoiling grandparents may not see spending the night in a Motel 6 as the best vacation plans. Families want to go on vacations that will please everyone, and the best way to do that is to find the best travel destinations, accommodations and eateries that are family friendly.

Family Friendly Destinations

The best way to find family friendly destinations is to consider places that have attractions that will entertain travelers of all ages. For example, some of the best family destinations are exotic beach locals. Kids and adults can both enjoy the sun, surf and sand, as well as the other beach activities. Stay away from luxury travel destinations that are purely historical or educational, as kids will get board quick and cause problems. It's not the best idea to take your nine, seven and five year old to Paris for a visit to Versailles and the Louvre. They will not enjoy it, and when the kids are not happy, neither will the adults nor your fellow travelers.

Family Friendly Accommodations

You can stay in luxury on your luxury travel vacation and still find a kid friendly atmosphere. A great example of one of these hotels is the Atlantis in the Bahamas. This hotel has all the luxury desired by adults, and still offers kids programs and a great pool. Places like Atlantis and Beaches in the Caribbean are pretty up front about being kid friendly. The challenge comes when you are looking for luxury and find no hotels that are upfront to being family friendly. One way to discern if families will be welcome at specific hotels is to see how their pool is and if babysitting is offered. Usually, if both of these items are above average, the hotel is accommodating rather than simply putting up with your family.

Family Friendly Eateries

When looking for a place to eat on your luxury travel vacation, there are several elements to take into account. First of all, if there are tablecloths on the table and plates start at $25, toddlers and infants are not welcome. Children are usually accepted at fine dinning restaurants and bistros so long as they have proper manners and table etiquette. But be aware that well-behaved children are nearly always accepted, but badly behaved children are always unwelcome. If your wish to eat somewhere where your children will not be welcomed, consider taking advantage of the hotel's babysitting services. That is exactly why they are there in the first place.

Choosing wisely is important to finding the perfect family luxury travel vacation. Finding the best family friendly destinations is key, as is finding great hotels and accommodations to stay in. Fine dinning is also a highlight of a family vacation that you might want to take advantage of, and choosing the best way to handle your family needs can be the key to satisfying everyone.

About the Author

Virginia Morgan is a tourism and travel writer for AMT American Express Travel . A premier Internet resource offering American Express Travel Deals for your traveling needs.

2007-09-14T23:24:00.000-07:00

Orange County: A Family Oasis by Drew Hartanov

You have a family and want to relocate. You want warm weather, endless recreation opportunities, a low crime rate, and an excellent school system. You're in luck because you can get all that and more in Orange County!

The weather in Orange County is one of the major draws for new residents. Summers are moderately hot, and winter temperatures are extremely mild. Little precipitation visits the area, making outdoor activities a possibility all year round.

Spending time outdoors is a favorite pastime of Orange County residents, with countless recreation choices.

The majestic beaches will charm you with their beauty and tranquility. A place to rest, build sand castles, or hop on a boat cruise, Orange County beaches are the perfect place to bring the family. Visit The Dana Point Harbor Youth and Group Facility, which teaches both young and old about being safe while having fun in the water. You can learn how to sail, go on educational tide pool walks, or enroll your kids in the summer camp program.

If you have an aspiring surfer in the family, this is the ideal location for you. To learn more about the history of the sport, and have a little fun at the same time, check out The International Surfing Museum. Several of the top-ranked surfers in the world have hailed from this region, and is the home to Huntington Beach, which is nicknamed "Surf City, U.S.A." Orange County beaches provide year-round opportunities to catch a wave.

If you're looking for outdoor fun that is a little on the drier side, be sure to check out the many parks in the county. Regional parks provide families with a traditional park experience, with lakes, tennis courts, interpretive centers, equestrian trails, and rolling green landscapes.Wilderness parks are expansive areas of natural splendor. Escape into Eden with one of the many wilderness parks in the county.

If you're moving to Orange County, be sure to bring your tent and hiking boots! A number of parks have easily accessible campgrounds, and there is an extensive selection of hiking and mountain biking trails.

Looking to see wildlife up close? Take your family to the Orange County Zoo to see some of this area's native four-legged residents. Head to Dana Point to experience the thrill of whale and dolphin watching. Educational and fun, whale watching is a great activity for every member of the family.

Amusement parks are the classic family attraction in Orange County, with Disneyland and Knott's Berry Farm being the most famous. Other sites of interest include the Movieland Wax Museum and the Discovery Science Center.

When your children aren't splashing in the water or riding the roller coaster, they'll be getting a solid education. The Orange County school system is producing a greater number of graduates than the California state average. After school programs and a system-wide focus on health and wellness means that your children will be taught a variety of valuable skills they can use throughout their lifetime.

When sending your children off to school every day, you can rest assured that they will be safe. Orange County has a low crime rate, and the community is focused on stopping crime before it happens.

Your family's happiness means everything to you, and you want to live in a safe, clean area where your kids can get a quality education. You also want to live in a place where you can do things as a family. By entering the Orange County real estate market, your family can have the kind of life you've always dreamed of.

About the Author

Drew Hartanov and his team are part of the Top 2% of Prudential Agents Nationwide. Contact Drew today to learn more about Dana Point Homes. Find your family's dream home in the Orange County Real Estate market today!

2007-09-11T01:18:00.001-07:00

Natural Birth Control Risks And Benefits

By: Jeff Clare

Today there is a lot of emphasis on fertility and how to improve a couple's chances of conceiving a baby. But what about that percentage of the population that doesn't want a child? Maybe you are a woman, who has tried things like The Pill (oral contraceptives), or barrier methods, or any number of contraceptives on the market and find that they do not agree with you or your lifestyle. Maybe you are a young couple that is not quite ready for having tubes tied or snipped because later on you might change your mind and want a child. It is a difficult decision to make, yet you are smart enough to know that a child at this point in your life is not the right thing to do.

Natural birth control might be an option, but remember, nothing is failsafe and you need to do your research and talk to professionals before you embark on this decision. Many natural ways of dealing with contraception are popular, and they do work, but they take a lot of time and vigilance to make them work the way they should. Unless you practice your method of choice consistently, chances are you will end up pregnant.

Ideally, natural methods of birth control are best undertaken by couples in long-term relationships and require the participation of both partners, and none of the techniques available offer protection against sexually transmitted diseases.

Practicing natural birth control can have several benefits. To start with, women gain a better understanding of how their bodies work. You learn what your cycles are and why your body is doing certain things at certain times over the course of the month. Natural birth control has no side effects. You are not ingesting any medications that alter your body's natural chemistry and forcing your body to do something against the grain.

These natural techniques are also inexpensive and don't require a prescription month after month. Because both partners are involved in the process, the responsibility of natural birth control does not fall on one person or the other and can encourage bonding. Moreover, should you decide that you do want a child; you can use these methods to conceive.

Here are the most popular methods of natural birth control:

Standard Days Method (SDM): This method is fairly new and was developed by the Institute for Reproductive Health at Georgetown University School of Medicine. The concept is simple; keep track of how long your menstrual cycle is and then during your most fertile part of the month (which is days 8 - 19) you abstain from sex. This method when followed to the letter is 95% effective.

Ovulation Method: This concept revolves around the consistency of cervical mucus. Researchers have found that the cervix is also affected by monthly changes and will have little to no mucus at the end of a woman's period. As the cycle begins again, the cervix will be preparing for the possibility of fertilization and become thicker. When the body nears ovulation, the cervical mucus becomes thinner and stickier until the time of ovulation. At this point, the mucus will be clear and slippery, creating an ideal environment for sperm. On its own, this method is not as reliable as other methods and a back up method (such as condoms or the sponge) is recommended.

Rhythm/Calendar Method: This particular method is probably the least reliable of the methods available for natural birth control. For a couple to use this, the woman has to count back 14 days from the first day of her period to figure out when she would have ovulated. The problem is, ovulation occurs at different times for each woman, not all women fall into a nice, neat category of 14 days, especially if a woman has irregular periods.

Sympto-thermal Method: For this method you are going to have to take your temperature each morning before you get out of bed. There will be no getting up and puttering around the house first (or anything else for that matter). Before you even throw back those covers, you have to take your temperature and start charting it. Your temperature will fluctuate each day, generally staying in the 97.2F to 97.4F range. What you are looking for is a sudden spike in those numbers, often a full degree above 98F. This rise in temperature will indicate ovulation. Used correctly, and perfectly, the Sympto-thermal method can be 99% accurate.

These are only a handful of methods available. Do your research and talk to your doctor to decide which one is best for you and your partner.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR:

Jeff Clare has worked in healthcare and now writes regularly on health related topics including homeopathy and mesothelioma and much more

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2007-09-09T00:24:00.001-07:00

10 Parenting Tips To Stop Bribing Your Child by Elena Neitlich

Picture this scenario: A harried mom in a grocery store asks her two young boys to stop fighting. They continue...getting even more boisterous. After asking for the "umpteenth" time and having them ignore her, she starts to raise her voice, but stops herself, she knows she shouldn't yell at them...additionally the kids won't respond to yelling anyway. She reaches the end of her rope, is at her whit's end, wants immediate results, so, "bribes the children." Sound familiar?

Bribery gets immediate results. The behavior the parent is trying to curb stops... but to what future consequence.

In the long run "bribes" don't work. Bribing children can have the opposite of the intended effect. Behavior can become more and more outrageous in the hopes of attaining better and better prizes. It goes to follow, if a small tussle in the grocery store is rewarded with a pack of gum, what will an out and out brawl get, a cell phone? Bribing creates a situation where the tail is wagging the dog. The child's behavior begins to dictate the culture of the family. The family is happy when the child behaves well and in turmoil when the child misbehaves. The child gains power and the parents lose power.

It is more effective and healthier to tell the child that he or she will face a consequence if the unacceptable behavior continues and then follow-through with that consequence. "If you continue to do "X" behavior, we will not go to the park," (or whatever fun thing the child is looking forward to in the near future). By giving a consequence that the child can actually experience, the child feels the consequence and in turn thinks twice before repeating the offense. Giving a consequence assures that the parent never attacks the essence of the child, which can be damaging to their psyche, just the behavioral offense.

Following through is a crucial step of this learning process. The child must know that the parent means what she says and always follows through.

On the other hand, when the child behaves, praise, praise, and praise! Let him know that it is marvelous and wonderful when he listens. For example a successful trip to the grocery store should be complimented. Consistency, follow-through and praise are essential in promoting and reinforcing good behavior and creating peace in the family.

Consistency, follow-through, and praise sound easy enough. Then why do parents so easily fall into the "bribery" trap?

One reason parents bribe is because raising kids and running a household are incredibly challenging and taxing. When half-way through folding a load of laundry the child reaches over and tosses the folded clothes across the room or when traveling up and down the aisles of the supermarket and the child starts grabbing food out of the cart and pitching it onto the floor, a parent can feel pushed to the brink. The mundane work has to be completed, it is understandable that parents bribe the child to quickly nix the bad behavior and finish the one of many task on their long daily list.

It is definitely tempting to bribe children to stop the disruptive behavior with a new toy or a snack. However, rewarding the negative behavior with a bribe ultimately leads the child back to that same unacceptable behavior, the next time with a vengeance.

It is really important to be your child's advocate. Think about the tools your child needs to be equipped for teen years and adulthood. As hard as it is not to appease in the moment, consider the child's future interests. The goal of a parent is to help mold a fantastic person and give the necessary tools a child needs to have a great life.

Here are ten tips for parents who want to find an alternative to "bribery":

1. Immediately respond to the incident making sure that the child realizes that her behavior is unacceptable. Little kids need to be educated about right and wrong.

2. Use words the child will understand to explain that you are upset. Don't assume she knows why you are unhappy. "Tammy, pulling the folded clothes out of the laundry basket is not okay. Mommy worked hard to fold those clothes. We have discussed this before. I am giving you a three minute time-out."

3. Follow-through, act immediately, and do what you say you are going to do. Do not make idle threats.

4. Ask the child to apologize.

5. Reward the child with a huge hug and kiss and thank him for completing the time-out. Then let it go. It is not fair to your child to dwell on an incident after he has completed the time-out, or you have taken away a toy or privilege.

6. Do not feel guilty that you had to reprimand your child. It is your obligation to your child to teach her proper behavior. If you are calm and choose an appropriate consequence then you are being a great parent.

7. Be on the look out for good behavior. How refreshing it is for kids to have their positive behavior recognized...especially when they weren't expecting it to be noticed.

8. Keep a tally of all of the good behavior over the course of the day and reward with an extra story at bedtime, an extra fun craft project, or a "tickle extravaganza." But most importantly, let the child know how proud you are of him or her and how much you love him/her.

9. Talk your children up! Say, "I have the most wonderful kids! I love to be with them!" Kids do hear you when you talk about them, loud and clear. Make sure that the majority of what they hear makes them feel warm and nurtured, loved, respected and cherished.

10. Children want limits set. They feel out of control if you don't make the boundaries clear, and that scares them. Children want you to be the parent. One of the most wonderful gifts that you can give to your kids is to teach them how to behave properly.

Guiding children through the tough stages of childhood creates parenting opportunities for teaching lessons in manners and good behavior. By promoting peace, quiet and good behavior in the home, parents create a fertile environment that encourages growth and development.

About the Author

Elena Neitlich is the owner and CEO of Moms on Edge, LLC. http://www.momsonedge.com Her company designs, manufactures and sells children's behavioral products and parenting aids. Elena is the proud mother of Noah(5) and Seth(2) and is committed to raising great people. http://www.momsonedge.com

2007-09-09T00:23:00.001-07:00

Safeguard Your Children For Peace Of Mind by Elena Neitlich

The world is a dangerous place; it is NOT the same place where we grew up. Here are some chilling facts:

* If you live in the suburbs, a pedophile or registered sex offender probably lives within one mile of your family. If you live in an urban environment, the pedophile lives much closer. There is a high probability that a pedophile is within one mile of your child at all times.

* One in three women and one in four men will become the victim of violent crime in his or her lifetime.

* 73% of violent crime occurs within five miles of the victim's home.

* A robbery occurs every 59 seconds.

* A rape occurs every six minutes.

* One out of every 100 households will have an automobile stolen and 2% of them will be by carjacking.

* More than 35,000 children are forcibly abducted each year.

* One in 12 women is stalked at some time in her life. Last year, nearly 1,007,000 women were stalked.

* 80% of all restraining orders attained against stalkers are violated.

Given these statistics it is critical that we safeguard our children and families against harm. From an early age children of course need to be taught basic safety information such as their full name, address, phone number and parent cell phone. They also need some information that parents twenty years ago did not need.

Most parents have not earned a black belt; even fewer are martial arts instructors. Parents still have an obligation to prepare their children to face the potential dangers that lurk outside of the home, and that are creeping into the home via the internet.

Parents must know the basics of self-defense and how to teach self-defense to children. Kids should learn the "red flags" that signify an inappropriate conversation or a potentially dangerous encounter.

* For example, have you told your child that adults never ask children for help? If an adult asks your child for help, she needs to know that is a warning to run away.

* Does your child know how to make a scene? Have you taught her to yell and scream, kick, scratch, bite, and strike at the body's vulnerable spots?

* Have you assured her that you will not get mad at her if she yells, "Get away from me!", if she feels threatened by a stranger?

* Is your child aware that other children can be predators? Child on child molestation is one the most common forms of molestation. Children who have been abused by an adult will often go from victim to abuser.

* Does your child know how to listen to that inner voice that says something is amiss, and get away quickly?

* If a family member or family friend touches your child inappropriately does your child know that she should speak up and speak up loudly? Is your child comfortable speaking with you?

* Does your child know that you would rather have an embarrassing misunderstanding with an adult than have your child feel uncomfortable around that adult? Parents would rather hear, "Get away from me you creep!" than "I let him touch me because I was being polite and I didn't want to offend him."

* If your child is separated from you does she know to immediately latch on to the nearest mother with children and ask for help?

Teach your kids street smarts, and how to remain alert and tuned-in to their surroundings.

Don't be in denial. Thirty years ago it was safe to walk home from school, to the local YMCA or to a friend's house. It was safe for four-year olds to play in the yard or ride a bike down the side walk.

Not today.

Preparing children for what they will hopefully never encounter is a gift. There are simple ways to empower children and give them the tools they need to stay safe. A family's best line of defense is education.

Purchasing a family self-defense kit is a way for the whole family to learn basic self-defense together. Enrolling your kids in a martial arts school further teaches survival skills and builds self-confidence; most martial arts instructors are very careful not to give children a false sense of security. Instructors instead stress the message that children can't overpower adults, but can make a scene and get the attention of adults nearby.

Establish an on-going dialogue with your children about safety. Let your children practice yelling, "NO!" Give your children a voice. Create an atmosphere of trust that allows children to come to you if they are feeling uncomfortable. Be your child's advocate, this means keeping your eyes and ears open to possible dangerous situations. Face uncomfortable situations head-on, without shame and make sure to use clear language.

Listen to your inner voice; it alerts you when you face a potentially threatening situation. Time and time again when people are interviewed after an encounter with a predator they say that they knew something was wrong, if only they had listened to that little voice saying, "Get away!" If a coach, neighbor, teacher, family member etc. seems creepy, LISTEN!!!!!

The message here is not to live in terror, worrying that every stranger is a predator and that danger lurks around every corner. Parents certainly do not want to rob their children of their innocence or give them free floating anxiety. The point is that by equipping the family with knowledge and teaching the skills necessary to assess and react appropriately to danger, families take back their power. Giving children a voice and some skills stacks the deck in their favor. The knowledge that children are prepared in turn gives parents piece of mind.

About the Author

Elena Neitlich is the owner and CEO of Moms on Edge. http://www.momsonedge.com Her company designs, manufactures and sells creative children's behavioral products. Elena is the proud mother of Noah(5)and Seth(2)and is committed to raising great people. http://www.momsonedge.com

2007-09-09T00:22:00.001-07:00

The Ten Things I Hope to Teach My Children by Boake Moore

Being the father of five; I am constantly teaching my children both literally and through my actions. With the Labor Day weekend and a finally moment to reflect - I thought about the things I hope I can pass on to my children. This is not focused on teaching them how to add or spell but how to face life and be of character. We all have a responsibility to resource, equip, teach, and provide for those who are coming after us, and who are preparing to take our place. We are expected to do all we can to help ensure their growth and security; to teach them the things you value the most. To learn from your mistakes and not necessarily repeat them. Its probably your most important and fulfilling tasks as a parent - passing on the values that will sustain them through their lives of challenging tasks and difficult decisions.What, then, should we be careful to pass on tour children? What values do you want to instill ? Here are my ten torches I hope to pass on:

To value money less: to not let their careers dictate their time and who they are. To find joy in their family and friends; in serving others and to find your stock in life in god and not in your workplace. To learn to save more and spend less and to not have to continue upgrading your spending habits to match your earning increases. To not to have to continuously upgrade your house and car. To find your satisfaction in worship and not in your toys.

Reflection time: I hope to pass on to my children how critical free time is and how valuable your time is. I think as a generation our worst vault is our "business" and ability to overbook ourselves. We never ever have any time to reflect or to medidate; to spend time alone or for that matter to book a lazy time at home with the family. My first value will be of time - to be less busy; less scheduled; less stress - to value your free time and to learn to schedule "nothing" or time to do nothing. The time to meditate; to reflect; to dream and plan is so critical to a healthy life but is often completely missed. To teach my children to leave the office an hour early to spend more time with the family instead of working late.

A Servants Attitude: As Americans most of us are blessed to have more than we will ever need. Most of us live in excess - having more toys and spending our free time enjoying our toys and leisure. I want to teach my children to use their blessings on helping others - to use their free time serving others. It takes a long time to realize the joy of helping others far exceeds the pleasure of driving a new boat or playing the latest video game. My second torch to pass on is to teach my children it is far greater to serve others than to serve yourself.

The importance of friends - deep biding relationships. One of the best things we can bequeath to the next generation is how helpful, how rich, and how essential it is to have abiding and vulnerable personal relationships with one another. They need deep relationships that they can not only share with but who will also hold them accountable.They need connections that transcend friendships and ones that go deep within to give each other safety, grace, acceptance, comfort, and truth - relationships in which we provoke each other to love and good works. They need to have a small group that is biblically based and will help them grow spiritually.

Less perfection. It seems with the internet, emails; computers and better communications - errors seem to get magnified and publicized. Unfortunately this has led to huge pressures to be perfect. Everyone now strives to be so perfect. One thing we don't need to pass on is our generation's perfectionism! I hope to teach my children to be able to accept the truth about faults, weaknesses, and failures and not hide in shame, self-judgment, and condemnation. To be more forgiving and less judgemental. I want to teach them about trust and honesty; about confession, forgiveness, grief, restoration, healing, and moving on. This will help them deal with the baggage they will naturally carry and learn to grow as imperfect people who have a living message of hope for a world that is lost. To experience more joy and happiness in their imperfection.

Less judging. This seems to be such an issue I decided to make it a point in itself. We all judge OURSELVES and others too harshly. Culture is constantly setting standards no one can meet and then we judge ourselves too severely. Worse yet we are constantly judging others when we hate it when others judge us. It seems these days those who call themselves Christians end up being the most judgemental. Again nothing is as critical as teaching your children the importance of trust and honesty; about confession, forgiveness, grief, restoration, healing, and moving on. And once they learn to be less judgemental of others they also stop being so concerned with judging themselves and if others are judging themselves. Its so freeing.

Praise. I hope to model to my children how proud I am of them; how wonderful they are and how much God loves them. Our children need our blessing. They need to know we aren't holding on to power, territory, or authority. They need to know we trust them and love them and we believe in them and Support them, take initiative to help, mentor them, and guide them. Give them confidence in who they are so they aren't so apt to change to make someone else happy.

God's blessings don't mean being wealthy. Unfortunately we have somehow tied our wealth or lack of it to how much God is blessing us. And if we are successful its because God is blessing our actions. True we do owe everything to God but somehow we attribute our success to his approval and that's the fartherest from the truth. I want my children to learn God's love and blessings are the same whether we are rich or poor and aren't an indication of either. Too many people think because they are successful God must be approving their lifestyles.

Worship values. We need to teach and model the realities of what is truly important in life. Our time to worship and our faith in God should be the most important thing in our lives. Worship is a seven day per week pastime not a Sunday morning date. We need to teach them everyday starts by worshiping God. And Sunday also needs to have more reverence. Sunday is THE day of worship, a day of reverence and rest not a day to schedule birthday parties and little league games. We need to teach and model the reality of God and his grace, being loving in our relationships, the truth of the Word of God, the salvation that comes through Jesus, the importance of a life surrendered to God, that God is first and foremost, that God sees all we do so being an honest person, living holy lives, and living in community - is the only way to live. Once we trust in God and put our faith in him and worship Him as He deserves - the rest of our lives become much richer and become much easier to manage. Our children have to know that all of reality and all of life is spiritual at the core. This is God's universe, whether we are dealing with marriage, dating, finances, careers, or our mission in life. We have to teach our children to see that God has principles, answers, solutions, and guidance for every single area of life, so they will look to him and trust his ways. To trust in the Bible for our answers not our culture.

The Importance of Prayer - though its last its certainly not the least. We need to pass on to our children how important prayer is; how vital it is to our well being and what a blessing it is to talk to God. You can't have a better friend or supporter. How often is HE and our prayer time the first thing we cut out of our busy schedule. To have a set prayer time; to start the day in prayer; to pray in the same quiet room; to become a habitual prayer. Pray, Pray and Pray. May God bless you and your children.

About the Author

Boake Moore is an IT Sales engineer by trade and founded a non profit coffee company called Mission Grounds Gourmet Coffee -http://www.missiongrounds.com/ourphilosophy.php . It donates all its profits and proceeds to helping orphans and impoverished children. We currently are building schools in rural China, orphanages in South America; and supporting orphans in Russia and Africa. We are also helping homeless children in the United States.

2007-09-06T19:19:00.001-07:00

12 characteristics of gifted children by L Hardy

How to identify a gifted child can be a difficult process, Many parents are scared to dare think their child has a talent above the norm and may find other parents and teachers may not believe them thinking they are just overly proud of their child. The truth is that most schools are not equipped to deal with gifted children as they are fewer and further between than the average child and since they learn what they need to easily the teacher ignores them to concentrate on the less gifted ones.

Using these 12 points you can gain some insight into your child's potential genius. Generally a young child who shows many of the following traits is likely to be gifted, however other less gifted children may show some of these traits and a gifted child will very rarely show all traits. While this guide is written for young children many of the points can also apply to older children.

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1. Advanced Development

A young gifted child frequently achieves certain milestones such as first speech and walking much earlier than other children. They may also have a greater vocabulary than other children of the same age and love to define words, read books and can often be self taught readers at pre-school and kindergarten.

2. Early Intellectual Talent

Gifted young children can have a very good memory and can learn simple math, science and social studies concepts eagerly. They may also grasp onto a particular topic (Space and planets for example) and have an amazing understanding of the subject! They can also simply have a wide interest in everything and a thirst to learn all they can moving from one area to another very quickly.

3. A Thirst for Knowledge

Gifted children often have a drive to learn and a 'thirst for knowledge'. Without having any particular agenda children often want to discover and learn for the sake of discovering like a true scientist or philosopher. They may study everything or pull toys and devices apart to see what makes them work. Or may be overly interested in simple things then discard them quickly looking for a new learning challenge.

4. High Level of Activity

Unlike hyperactivity which can often have no focus just amazing amounts of energy a gifted child can often be very active and have a reduced need for sleep as they divert this energy to a purpose. Also, unlike hyperactivity a gifted child may have a long attention span when they find something of particular interest.

5. Cautionary

A gifted child may have a great ability to read more into situations and the future than their peers. Because of this they may seem to hold back in new situations as they work out the implications and possibly worry about the possibility of failure. While this may make them appear shy or slow a gifted child can show their true ability by answering questions brilliantly or excelling at the task given.

6. Sensitivity

Some young gifted children can be very sensitive, general anger or criticism is taken personally; they suffer along with the starving children on TV, the injured animal, etc. and when overloaded with impressions, may become introverted and withdrawn.

7. Uneven Development

Some children are gifted in a narrow field while others have a more 'all round' aptitude; however there is often a large gap between their mental, social, physical and emotional development. This can lead to frustration and confusion on the child's behalf as their advanced mind may be trying to grapple with concepts they are not emotionally advanced to deal with. Examples may be over concerned with death, the future or sex. Also their manual dexterity may lag behind what they are trying to achieve in a task.

8. Can Distinguish Between Reality and Fantasy Early

This may lead to discussions on, and the acceptance of, the inevitability of death; the frequent need to analyze stories to see which parts "really could happen" and awkward questions about Santa and the tooth-fairy!

9. Early Insight Into Social and Moral Issues

Some gifted children have a highly developed social conscience and can become worried about war, pollution, injustice and violence. They can often see through adult hypocrisy and can become angry and scared when they see that adults are inconsistent and unreasonable.

10. Greater Reasoning Power and Manipulation

A young gifted child tends to use their verbal ability rather than actions when communicating, this means you can often reason with a gifted child from a young age. This ability with their greater logical prowess and understanding of relationships can sometimes lead them to understand the benefits of dishonest behavior such as lying, stealing and cheating. Being able to manipulate adults can be a very disturbing feeling for a child however who needs a parent's security.

11. Individuality

A great number of gifted children can be seen as "odd" or unconventional and learn in different ways. Strictly organizing a child like this can hamper their development as they need some time to do their own thing to bring forth their creativity.

12. The Importance of Adults

Gifted children may not be interested in very structured activities or meeting other's standards, often preferring to develop their own projects. Despite this, adult guidance is very important - to help them determine in which situation it is necessary to conform and when it is O.K. to be "different", to put realistic limits on an often overambitious project, to lend a hand when manual dexterity doesn't meet mental visions and to avoid self-criticism becoming destructive. Help may be needed to set realistic standards.

About the Author

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2007-09-06T01:53:00.000-07:00

Where would your RV Trip take you? by Carol White

You've seen them on the roads and probably wondered, "What would an RV vacation be like?" With one out of every eleven households headed by 35-54 year-olds, owning an RV today, families, couples and singles just like you are enjoying this casual, comfortable lifestyle. So what would your RV outing be like?

RVers do pretty much what other vacationers do in terms of sight-seeing, visiting the relatives, and seeking out places in nature. What is different is how it is done. At the end of the day, you don't check into hotels, cabins or condos; you cozy up in your rolling home - surrounded by other like-minded folks. You might fire up the barbeque with other families or friends you meet around the campground; you could take a walk or play games; or you could reminisce about times earlier in your life enjoyed in the outdoors; while the kids explore and make friends. You enjoy an atmosphere that is peaceful, yet fun; upbeat, yet surprisingly laid back. A far cry from the madness of jetting off in an airplane! There are no searches, no liquids to worry about, and no luggage weight restrictions on an RV vacation.

Of course today's technologies and forms of entertainment aren't completely removed from the RVing set; many campgrounds and most RV Resorts have amenities found in other lodging options: swimming pools, video game rooms, movies, snack bars, wi-fi internet connectivity, evening entertainment and tours to nearby attractions are all available for your vacation enjoyment.

It is the ability for you to have quality family time together, enjoy an economical get-away (even in the face of soaring gas prices), and reduce the stress of the every-day work environment that has led over eight million RV families to the road today - a nearly 60% increase in the last twenty-five years. Of course, a fun weekend outing for your family can be a visit to a nearby RV dealer. Make picking out your rolling home a family affair; get everyone excited about the change of pace and scenery that going on RV vacations can bring. If you want to give it a trial run before you invest, there are many companies that will rent you an appropriate vehicle for your needs. With all the outdoor places, great events and favorable seasons most of the year, two states in our heartland, Minnesota and Iowa, are prefect places to go RVing - centrally located in our country with lots to do.

Minnesota - Land of 10,000 Lakes

In Minnesota, there are many options for you to explore with the expansive waterways, plentiful state parks, historical events and festivals. You might decide just a few days or a few weeks ahead of time to escape for a long weekend ambling down beautiful Highway 61, the national scenic by-way, along the shore of Lake Superior. As a part of the RV family, you will find that spontaneous get-aways are part of the fun. You could decide to visit the Grand Portage National Monument and stay overnight at the municipal campground in nearby Grand Marais, nestled at the edge of the lake. They have complete facilities with 300 campsites for the RVer or camper.

This wonderful little town has plenty to keep even the most diverse-interest family occupied for a few days, especially if you choose one of the varied festival weekends. How about the Wooden Boat Festival (June16-18, 2006) or take a more extended trip and enjoy both the Fourth of July parade and fireworks, and the Arts Fair & Festival (July 8 and 9, 2006).

When you return to your RV home after an exciting day, you enjoy the comfort of your own home, with your own things around you. It is surprising how much fun a family can have without the ever-present electronic toys of home; but, you can bring as much technology as you need or want, because you'll have full electric service at your campsite at most camping resorts.

Another activity that you can enjoy is an RV rally. With the first of the baby boomers turning 60 this year, many RVers are taking off on trips longer than just a few days and often enjoy attending RV get-togethers held throughout the country. These events are usually sponsored by RV clubs like The Good Sam Club or Escapees, and are well-publicized to their members. You could plan to attend this year's Good Sam Club Minnesota Fall Samboree. When you attend a rally (or Samboree) held at a fairground location, you will be probably be "boondocking". That means that you'll be depending on your generator for electricity and on your own water supply in the rig. These events are a combination of education and fun. You'll get to see exhibits and seminars of all the latest equipment, techniques and RV gear; there are old-fashioned games and contests for all ages and abilities and plenty of entertainment in the evenings to keep you as busy as you want to be. You don't have to be a Good Sam member to attend.

Iowa - The Hawkeye State

Iowa offers some good examples of the variety of summer activities offered for RVers who enjoy "rallying" with other like-minded folks, whether for a few days or longer. Start off your trip at the Good Sam Club Iowa State Samboree. Then maybe you'll go visit the grandkids or friends for a few days. You could also amble by the Winnebago factory in Forest City, Iowa, where you can actually see this popular line of RVs being made.

If you still have the urge to wander around Iowa; tap your feet and sidle on over to the Mississippi Valley Blues Festival in Davenport. Sponsored by the Mississippi Blues Society, this annual event features well-known blues artists from around the country. There are several RV parks in the Quad Cities area for your enjoyment during the festival.

At each of these events, you are sure to have plenty of neighborly time, outings to nearby attractions (like old Ft. Dodge itself); plenty to eat, and more conversation and laughs than you've probably had all year. RVers enjoy being busy, but you will also enjoy the relaxed pace of the camping environment and the shared experiences of places you've been and events you have enjoyed. RVers are the friendliest folks around.

Whether you are an experienced RVer, or just starting out, there is always something new to explore either right near home, or rambling across the country for as much time as you can escape from your everyday life. The RV life offers many of the things that Americans are longing for - a simpler time, a slower pace, more time to really enjoy each other and the opportunity to participate in fun activities together. There is no better way to have these experiences than through the headlights of an RV.

Resources ... If you are planning to go...

Grand Portage National Monument http://www.nps.gov/grpo/

Grand Marais www.grandmarais.com

Visiting the North Shore www.northshorevisitor.com

Mississippi Valley Blues Festival www.mvbs.org

Types of RVs...

Towables - Designed to be towed by a suitable car, van or pickup truck. Can be unhitched and left at the campsite while you explore in your auto. Choices include pop-up or folding trailers, truck campers, travel trailers, fifth-wheel trailers and "toy-hauler" trailers.

Motorized RVs - These are all inclusive in one unit - the living quarters are accessible from the driving area. People often tow a car behind the unit for exploring the area when parked. Three classes of these units are available:

Class C units feature a "cab-over" design on a van or truck-type chassis.

Class B units are also called camping vans and are built on a van or truck chassis.

Class A motor homes can be gas or diesel powered, are mostly custom built, and can be quite basic or extremely elaborate.

Learn more about RVing ...

Escapees www.escapees.com

Go Camping America www.gocampingamerica.com

Good Sam Club www.goodsamclub.com

Minnesota Good Sam Chapter: www.mngoodsamclub.com/

Go RVing www.gorving.org

KOA (Kampgrounds of America) www.koa.com

RV Education Videos www.rved101.com

Woodalls Camping Guides www.woodalls.com

About the Author

Carol White is the co-author of the award-winning book, "Live Your Road Trip Dream" (www.roadtripdream.com) - the ultimate road trip planning guide for extended road trips. Carol and her husband Phil have traveled over 50,000 road miles in the past several years, visiting all forty-eight of the contiguous states and having visited all of the National Parks in those states. They now spend their days helping others to live their dreams.

2007-09-02T18:42:00.001-07:00

Professional Parenting by James Gunaseelan

Parenting can be a tough job and nobody is ever truly prepared for it so when some parents get completely overwhelmed it is no wonder that they turn to the professionals for parenting help. It can often be easier for an outsider to truly assess the situation and give some professional parenting advice that is suitable. When parents love their children, they can often find it hard to follow through with discipline, which is a major problem for a lot of people. Others find it hard to manage to spend quality time with their children although they love them, they may not know what exactly to do with them.

Many parents enlist the help of professionals to gain new parenting skills and enable them to succeed in developing a suitable parenting plan for their children. Most of the professional parenting help needed is to aid discipline methods in particular as this seems to be the area that many people have difficulty with. Professionals can give parenting assistance in this area as well as many others such as potty training and helping a child to sleep. Some of these professionals are very expensive so a lot of people have no choice but to turn to more generic parenting classes or else seek out free parenting resources instead.

Another alternative is a professional parenting class. These classes are becoming popular and can be taken in all areas of parenting. Trained and skilled professionals provide parenting classes in schools, colleges and health centers and aim to improve a person's understanding of parenting. These classes can begin from antenatal to post delivery to music appreciation for toddlers. The lists of parenting classes available are virtually endless as there is training in every avenue available. Most parents seem to prefer classes that help them encourage children to sleep in their own beds, stop using bottles and diapers, ease separation anxiety and teach useable discipline tactics. Some classes teach methods that can help smooth the transition of moving to a new home, changing schools or introducing new members to the family such as an adoptive sibling, step sibling or step parent.

Other classes are designed to help those who have adopted or fostered children as well as have troubled children with behavioral problems or those with learning difficulties. Intensive parenting classes are also available to teach parents how to deal with circumstances such as abuse and molestation. Sensitive treatment of the after affects of such terrible circumstances need to be applied and classes can help the parent come to terms with it as well as teach them to help their child.

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2007-09-01T01:17:00.001-07:00

Parenting Tips For New Families by James Gunaseelan

Welcoming a new baby into the family is a wonderful time in a parent's life. It is amazing how something as beautiful as a new baby can actually cause you so much fear and trepidation concerning its arrival. With parenting comes worry and it often starts the moment you learn you are expecting. You can be assured that many well meaning people will offer you tons of parenting tips, but if you keep these three parenting tips in mind, and you will be able to keep some of that worry in its proper perspective.

Face it, there are no perfect parents. You will make mistakes and amazingly your child will survive your mistakes. There will be days when you say the wrong things and even make the wrong decisions. Understanding that you will make a few mistakes, gives you permission to relax and not worry so much about your parenting style or strategy. Understanding that mistakes are inevitable doesn't give you the freedom to throw safety to the wind. Holding your child in your lap instead of placing them in a car seat isn't a mistake. It is a dangerous and illegal action that could take your child's life. A mistake is letting your ten month old play with the remote control to your TV and then spending the next three months trying to reprogram it so you can hear your shows in English once more.

Sure, you want your child to like you, but the harsh reality is that you are your child's parent, not their friend. You have the responsibility of keeping them safe and raising them to be responsible members of society. Sometimes you have to be the bad guy. It isn't fun to be the one to say no or to let a child reap the consequences of their actions, but good parents knows that being a parent means loving your child enough to say no when you have to. This doesn't mean you can't play with your children or have a relationship that is open, honest, and fun. Good parents know how to balance playing with their children without ever giving up their parental authority. Never let your child talk to you, even in play in a way that is disrespectful or rude. It makes it too confusing for a child when their parent constantly switches from friend to parent mode and back again.

There may be days when your child doesn't like you very much, but there will come a day when they love your for raising them with the ability to know right from wrong. There may even come a day when they have kids of their own, that they actually appreciate you! Don't let a day go by without telling your children that you love them. Childhood passes in an instant and the opportunity to tuck them into bed and shower them with hugs and kisses is fleeting at best. Tell your children that you love them each and every day and they will take that knowledge into their adult years.

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2007-09-01T01:16:00.001-07:00

Parenting Strategies For Step Parents by James Gunaseelan

Step parenting is rarely easy and a new stepparent has to show a lot of patience, tolerance and warmth. The first time you meet the children of your new partner may be awkward all around, so just be yourself. Be secure in the fact that your partner loves you and will stand by you. The death of a parent or parent's divorce is always hard on children, irrespective of their ages. No parenting strategies for stepparents can prepare you entirely for the children's reaction to a new person in their parent's life, but losing your cool never helps. Let your warmth and interest in their activities be apparent and just be your natural, pleasant self. Parenting strategies for stepparents may differ, depending on whether the children live with you, whether their other parent is around, and how old the kids are. It also depends on whether you have your own biological children, and where they live. Most of all, it depends on what you and your partner decide is best. There are no rules as to how involved you need to get with the children, but if they live with you naturally you may have the responsibility of supervising their daily routine. Accept that there is likely to be resentment and that children may see you as an intruder. Whatever parenting strategies for stepparents you use, try and make the transition as easy as possible for the children. They are parts of lives shared with your partner before you came on the scene. You cannot be a part of that past, but you need not be someone they see as changing the way their life used to be. Be patient with them and pay attention to their needs. Your thoughtfulness will win them over in time.

Your stepchildren may welcome you or be hostile towards you, but ultimately living in the same house calls for some ground rules. You and your partner need to discuss the role you will play in the children's lives, and then the entire family has to talk about his together. Parenting strategies for stepparents have to be based on openness and fair play. As adults, you and your partner have to guide the kids and be tolerant with them. This does not mean that they should not be disciplined, but they should not lose trust in their parents.

It is best if the disciplining is initially left to the biological parent. Your role in the family should also be clearly spelt out from the start. Once you have grown more familiar with the household you can ask the kids to help you with some chores. Do not tolerate rudeness, but do not lose your dignity in the process of admonishing them. One of the best parenting strategies for stepparents is to befriend the children on their terms. Try and spend time with them alone; slowly a relationship will grow between you. Let them also have time alone with your partner. Take time to make things easy for them to stay in touch with their other parent. They will realize that you respect all these relationships.

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2007-08-31T15:54:00.001-07:00

A family man's guide to looking good on the beach by Adam Singleton

So you've booked a family holiday in Majorca this summer - your wife's got a new bikini and your children can't wait to put their new bucket and spade into action. But what about you? All too often, men leave their holiday preparations to the last minute, and are forced to buy the first swimming trunks, sunglasses and shorts they find just to make sure they're well-equipped. However, it doesn't have to be like this - shop for your essential holiday items ahead of time and choose carefully, and you're certain to create a distinct summer look that's all your own.

If you're heading off on a family holiday by the beach this summer, make sure you choose the perfect pair of swimming trunks. After all, you'll probably spend more time in your trunks than anything else on your trip, so you better make sure they're both comfortable and stylish. For most men, swim shorts in a block bright colour or floral pattern are the best way to go: they'll not only look good, but your children will also be able to spot you from a distance if they stray a little too far away. Also make sure you try swimwear on before you buy: shorts that are too tight will attract unwanted attention while ones that are too loose are sure to fall off when the right (or wrong!) wave comes along.

Next, you'll need to pick out the perfect pair of sunglasses. Although oversize lenses and white frames are currently the latest sunglasses trend, this won't suit every face shape, so make sure you consider substance as well as style when choosing your holiday shades. Big sunglasses will make sure that you're shielded from the sun, while tortoise shell frames and brown lenses will give off a retro 80s vibe that's sure to go down well. If you can't decide which style is right for you, stay with the classic and sophisticated wayfarer look - it'll go with all your outfits and you'll even be able to get away with wearing them at night.

Of course, browsing men's holiday clothes in order to compile your ultimate summer wardrobe can be a tall order: but if you aim to keep it simple, you're certain to find a few choice items that will last you a long time. The best plan of action might be to pick out three tops: a casual polo shirt, a sleeveless vest and a short-sleeved shirt that's smart enough to wear out to dinner. Additionally, find some functional yet well-fitting shorts in beige or khaki, as well as a pair of casual trousers or three-quarter length pants.

Pack these in your suitcase and you'll be able to mix and match items of clothing to come up with several different outfits. But remember not to spend too much money on your holiday clothes - if you're spending most of your time on the beach, they're likely to get covered in sand, which could ruin more expensive items of clothing. Stick to less expensive clothes and you'll also free up more money for other vital holiday products - like tourist souvenirs and a strong sun protection cream that will give you and your family comprehensive protection from those UV rays throughout your entire trip.

About the Author

Adam Singleton is an online, freelance journalist and keen amateur photographer. His portfolio, called Capquest Photography is available to view online.

2007-08-28T01:10:00.000-07:00

How To Save Money by Leonie

A GUIDE TO BUDGETING

It is essential to have a money plan. Financial goals is outlining your budget plan. When you do this, you can regulate your funds, set up and achieve financial objectives and you can make advance decisions how you want your finance to function well for you.

Essentially the main idea in budgeting is for you to place aside fixed amount of money for expected and as well as for emergency costs.

Basing it on previous home expenses and monthly bills - putting it mildly this is what estimation means. Taking in mortgage or home rental, home contents and building insurance, gas and electricity, water bill, car taxes and insurance, medical insurance, life insurances and credit cards etc., these are all your monthly bills, which is called fixed expenditures. Follow up on these to find out how much is paid out every month. Then add up all these sums. If you have a steady income say about $10,000 monthly, you should subtract your monthly income from the $10,000 which you get monthly

The balance that is remaining after the subtraction of the month cost, this is what you have remaining for the household. The proportion of this can now be divided for groceries, clothing, gasoline, expected and emergency cost and the remaining for entertainment. Budgeting will only be successful to work when you keep to the strict regime. The idea is to formulate a goal and keep to the plan.

BUDGET TIPS:

1. Be sensible in managing your money. Your attitude is essential. Know the significance of trying to reach an agreement and compromise that involves expenditures.

Sacrifice is the key to budgeting. Make a list of what you take as luxuries --- cross out half the list. Look at it again and cross the other half out. 2. Planning your situation is very essential. I can not stress this enough.

3. List all your overheads and now make a list with your earnings and keep this aside.

4. Practice frugality with dignity. Instead of going shopping take the children to the beach or maybe the park. You can still have fun with out spending money. 5. Budgeting is an effective tool and a fundamental one this is available to anyone and it is free, when you consider this, you can benefit from it.

MAINTAINING GASOLINE:

Gasoline price is definitely on the rise and slowly is rising every year. This is a great concern to every family who are following a tight budget. So how can you save some money on gas? I have outlined the following tips that you can follow.

The System of Carpool:

Here is a great idea for any family, employees and students alike. Since all of you will be going to the same destination at one time or other, there is no need to bring extra vehicles if you can all fit in one car or van. If you are with your colleagues at work, it is an excellent idea to use your cars alternately or in rotation. Especially if you have children, that you take to school or a social events, exchange driving responsibilities with your friends.

You can always use the public transportation when going to the office. This is a wonderful and good way to relax, since you are not driving. You can even take in the scenery or take a short nap while on your way.

Check The Prices Of Different Gas Stations ---

When driving around take time to check the prices of different gas stations near your neighbourhood. Keep in mind that a few cents/pennies difference can add up to a lot if you continually have your car re-filled in the same gas station all the time. If you look after your cents/pennies the dollar/pounds will look after themselves.

Good Way To Stay Healthy

An excellent way to save money on gas and keep healthy at the same time is by walking or riding on a bike to your destination. It will save you a lot of time since you do not have to look for parking space and also makes you fit and healthier from the exercise. Using these practical alternatives will also keep you from getting caught in traffic which will surely waste a lot of your time and gas.

Maintain Your Car:

It is important to keep your car's engine in good running order to avoid consuming a lot of fuel. When driving around on errands, make it a necessity to plan out your route before you even get out of the house. This will minimize your trips off going back and forth. It is also a good idea to use the air condition as minimal as possible since it drastically lessens the car's fuel consumption.

Regularly Check Your Car's Tire Pressure :

Make it a practice to check your car's tires making sure each one has equal amount of pressure in them. Having unequal pressure can greatly affect the car's fuel economy. It is also necessary for you to refrain from accelerating too fast as this avoids burning a lot more fuel. If you do these habitually it will become second nature to you to save on gas. Gasoline is becoming more expensive and it is wise therefore to conserve this very valuable commodity.

Saving on Electricity: Some This Commodity For Granted.

It is important to know that all damaged wiring should be seen to and rewired by an authorised electrician.

Don't Leave Electrical Appliances on Standby:

85% of the population will use the remote control to switch off the television or the stereo, leaving the appliance running on standby. This actually means that the appliance is still using up electricity and wastes a considerable amount of energy. By switching off at the main power switch, you will be saving both energy and money. An extra million tonnes of carbon will be released into the atmosphere through this power wastage.

Electric tumble dryers are commonly the second biggest energy user in the home, after the fridge. Though are obviously used a lot less, but they still use a huge amount of electricity when switched on. Try to avoid using the tumble dryer often instead trying line drying your clothes whenever possible or using an indoor clothes dryer when the weather is bad.

If you do need to use the dryer, then ensure the clothes are as dry as possible after washing, example, they have gone through a fast spin so that there is minimum excess water. This will reduce drying time considerably.

Lighting :

It is always best to use a low energy bulb to save on electricity, they cost more though in the long run, you save 15% on your electricity bill in a year. Traditional bulbs waste a lot of energy by turning it into heat but energy saving bulbs work in the same way as fluorescent lights, the tubes coating glows brightly as an electric current passed through gas in the tube. These are more expensive to buy than traditional bulbs, but they are worth the investment as they last over 10 times longer and use up to 4 times less energy. Where you would use a 100w ordinary bulb, you would only need a 20-25w energy saving bulb. With savings like this, changing bulbs throughout your house could definitely cut your electricity costs. No matter what type of lighting you are using, always turn the lights off when you leave a room.

Maintenance To Your Gas Boiler :

* It is very important to have your boiler serviced every year. Your gas boiler could you money, energy and it could even save your life.

* When gas boilers are not maintained regularly, they are more likely to break down which can mean expensive repair costs not to mention a great inconvenience to you. It is not fun to be left without heat on a very cold day or night in winter and then have to find someone to fix it quickly.

* It is dangerous when faulty gas appliances leak carbon monoxide, which you can not see or smell but when inhaled can be fatal.

* You should turn your heating on at least once a month in summer to allow it to run efficiently and also to clear the boiler pump of any grit that gather when it is not in use.

* If you are a Homeowner --- You should make sure your boiler is checked once a year by a Corgi registered engineer to keep a smooth and efficient running of your boiler.

* To avoid expensive cost of a breakdown of the gas boiler make sure that your boiler is covered by your Home Contents Insurance.

* If you are a Tenant --- Then it is your landlord's responsibility to have the gas boiler and all radiators inspected every year. Request to see the gas safety certificate to be sure your boiler has been checked.

* Landlords --- Are legally obliged to get all gas boilers and radiators inspected once a year by a Corgi registered engineer to get a CP 12 safety certificate by them.

IMPORTANT GAS SAFETY DON'ts :

1. Don't ever attempt to fix or tamper with a gas appliance yourself, only a CORGI engineer can repair your boiler.

2. Don't take chances, To be on the save side, it is best to fit a carbon monoxide detector to warn you if there is a leak, you must turn off the gas and call the National Gas Emergency Service immediately on 0800 111 999 or call your home country telephone numer, if it shows that carbon monoxide is present.

3. Don't use any appliances that are stained or have soot around them, they may be faulty.

4. Don't ever use a boiler in which the pilot light is frequently blowing out, it is probably faulty. Its best have an expert to check it. 5. Don't ever use gas appliances that may be faulty.

6. Don't block ventilation grilles or air bricks. This is not safe.

7. Don't ever cover your gas appliances up or block the air vents.

8. Don't ever block ventilation grilles or air bricks.

9. Don't use gas appliances with yellow or orange flames (unless you have a fuel effect fire which is supposed to be this colour) because these are signs they are faulty.

10. Don't ever block outside flues and always ensure they're kept clear of obstruction.

11. Don't think twice, if you think you smell gas, or think you have a gas leak in your home, turn off your gas supply, do not switch any electrical appliances on or off or bring naked flames into your home, and call the National Gas Emergency Service immediately on 0800 111 999or call your country's telephone number. Even if you turn out to be wrong, it is always better to be safe rather than sorry.

Telephone:

Look around for a cheaper deal. There are always telephone companies that are out bidding each other. Try to get a deal for free calls in the evenings and during the weekends. You wouldn't mind during the week day, you are not going to use the telephone then, as you would be at work. At home during the week day, use phone cards which are cheaper. Use prepaid for mobile phones, get friends to call you so you can spread the cost.

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2007-08-27T00:22:00.001-07:00

The East Coast's #1 Family Resort

Ocean City Maryland is one of the favorite vacation seashore destinations in the Mid-Atlantic Coast. Ocean City has 10 miles of clean sandy beaches on the Atlantic Ocean which includes a boardwalk, approximately 20 blocks long. Ocean City Maryland offers many recreational activities for everyone. Some of the numerous activities include fishing, watersports, golfing, historical attractions, amusement park rides, or just plain old fun in the sun on the clean sandy beaches.

Ocean City, Maryland has been referred to as the "East Coast's Number One Family Resort". The title comes well deserved because it hosts numerous activities and events that will appeal to every member of the family. In addition the area has accomodations to meet your tastes, no matter what your budget may be.

Come here in the summer time, and experience the Atlantic Ocean. There are tons of activities to participate in, including boogie boarding swimming, kite flying, surf fishing, jogging, bodysurfing.

Also in spring, summer or fall, charter boats take anglers out of Ocean City to fish for blue fish, tuna, wahoo, shark, and marlin. One of the things that Maryland is famous for is it's blue crabs. Crabbing for Maryland's infamous blue crabs can be done from the bayside fishing piers. These bays, which are west of Ocean City offer a wide variety of watersports. Come here to go windsurfing, powerboating, fishing, jet skiing, water skiing, parasailing and sailboating, just to name a few.

Golfers can choose from nine award-winning courses. surrounded by wetlands and marsh near Ocean City. Many of the local hotels and motels offer golf packages all year long.

The Convention center is a big attraction for many venues. Concerts, festivals, and everything from car to boat shows are open to the public. These events are held throughout the year at the Roland E. Powell Convention Center. So there is always soemthing to see or do at the Convention Center.The Center is located in the middle of Ocean City, with lots of parking available. There are additional exhibit halls, meeting rooms, and a full-service kitchen that can serve 2,500 people. So it makes a great place to hold a group meeting. The Convention Center also houses Ocean City's new, beautiful Visitor Information Center, a great place to start your visit.

Ocean City is home to some of the finest dining and nightlife on the East Coast. Whatever you are hungry for, it's right here. There's everything from the "local seafood" specialties to Pizza and world-famous Thrasher's french fries. Do you like ethnic foods? How about Italian or Chinese or Greek, and everything in between. If you like the night life, there's plenty of that as well. Restaurants and clubs in Ocean City have the whole enchilada when it comes to entertainment. There are sports bars, jazz and blues bars, rock 'n roll, and country. It's all here.

Are you bringing kids, or adults who act like kids? There are (2) amusement parks, numerous arcades, miniature golf, go-kart tracks, and many movie theaters available. Ocean City also has (2) malls, a and discounted Shopping Outlets.

There are lots of events happening in the winter months, too. Ocean City's annual Winterfest of Lights Celebration features hundreds of lighted displays with over one million lights. Where else could you see a nautical theme with Santa fishing for tuna or how about Santa riding the waves, on his surfboard?

Ocean City, which is Maryland's only oceanside and bayside resort, has become a year-round fun destination.

Elizabeth Ann Wares is the webmaster of Airfare X: http://www.airfarex.com A leading resource for airfare and other travel related information on the internet.

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2007-08-24T00:23:00.001-07:00

Family First by Angie Taylor

Isn't that what we all want? To put our family first?

Does it ever seem like every time you try to put your family first something happens that takes you away from them? We seem to be pulled in every direction and it continues to get harder and harder to place our family first. We all know the importance of our family. We all understand the responsibility we have as parents to raise our children "right". We all know that no one else can love our children like we can. No one understands our children like we do.

Placing your life in the proper order can be difficult to say the least. It seems as though each time you make your priority list within minutes it's obsolete. Things change so quickly throughout the day and even within the hour which makes life more difficult than any of us would like for it to be.

You may be wondering what qualifies me to be writing this article about putting your family first. I do know a little about fitting everything in during a 24-hour period of time. I know because I am the mother of 8 children. I have been blessed to have given birth to 7 of those -- one came with my husband. Let me explain...

When my husband and I met we had both recently left "bad" marriages. I had three children from my first marriage and he had a daughter who lives with her mother about 2000 miles away. A lot of our friends believed that those four children were enough but Dan and I felt there were to be more and we agreed to welcome each one. We also agreed that no matter what came up our family would always come first. Here's what we do to ensure our family comes first.

* We have a weekly family night where we can reconnect with our children. This is especially important when there are teenagers in the house.

* We join together for dinner every night. This is not a buffet style meal. We actually sit down and eat dinner together and take the time to enjoy the meal and the company.

* Dan and I have weekly date night. This gives us the opportunity as a couple to reconnect. There are some weeks when we get to our date night only to realize that we've barely spoken all week long because of busy schedules with kids, church and work. We know that we are the foundation of our home and that foundation must be strong.

Here's what we know. We know that as long as we put our family first we have all our needs covered. We have happy kids and a solid financial foundation. Blessings given to us for keeping our priorities straight.

Is it easy to put our family first? Not always. Sometimes the other "things" on our list need to get done and on the scale of importance they rate pretty high but when placed on the life long impact scale those other "things" rate pretty low. Our children's lives can't hang in the balance just because we need to get other things done. We must find a way to work around the family schedule. Our family must know their importance in our lives so they will in turn understand the importance of their family.

We see each one of our children as precious. Each child will impact our world and it is our responsibility to teach them and love them so they will have a positive impact on our world. Our oldest, Robert, is currently in San Antonio, TX getting his specialized training in the Navy. He has already begun to have a positvie impact on our world as he helped his basic training division reach Hall of Fame status. Our three teenage daughters, Chaylin, Elizabeth and Isabelle, are each starting to impact the world in their own ways as they spend time away from the family at school, work and youth activities. Our littlest four, Jacob, David, Hannah and Philip, have also begun their journey impacting this world for the better. I feel tremendous joy whenever I hear my little Philip say, "thank you" loud and clear whenever anyone helps him with something.

The importance of my family is proven everyday as I choose them over the world and the things that might hinder our progress as a family. Our example as parents will greatly impact the parenting of our grandchildren by our children. We must teach them well -- the family must come first.

Businesswoman, Friend, and Team player Angie Taylor assists Women to be success stories and inspiration to others. The fact that you are investigating the home-based business industry is a sign that you have dreams and trust in those dreams. Let me assist you: go to my website and register for the FR.EE newsletter and receive a copy of the FR.EE "Building Business Report".Visit: Be a BraveHeart Woman

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Businesswoman, and Team player Angie Taylor assists Women to be success stories and inspiration to others. The fact that you are investigating the home-based business industry is a sign that you have dreams and trust in those dreams. Let me assist you: go to my website and register for the FR.EE newsletter and receive a copy of the FR.EE

2007-08-23T00:49:00.001-07:00

Worm Composting Fun for the Family by Duong Vicki

If you're thinking about starting up a family-friendly composting project, why not consider doing one that involves worms? That's right, worm composting, also known as vermicomposting, is a fun-filled way to get the compost you desire for your garden. All you and your kids have to do is keep the worms happy by feeding them and they'll do all the work for you. Here's how you get started:

All you need is a plastic 10 gallon worm bin with drainage holes on the bottom (home made or store bought is just fine), a tight fitting lid to keep the worms in the dark, moist bedding made out of one inch newspaper strips or sawdust, a pound of red wiggler worms that you can get from your local fish bait shop or from internet retailer sites like Composters.com, and some food waste like banana peels, fruit rinds and vegetable stalks. Be sure to keep in mind that this will get a bit messy, so it might be best to do this outside especially if you're children are going to be involved. If it gets messy, it's okay!

Start by halfway filling the worm bin with the newspaper strips; moisten the strips once you've reached the halfway mark. Once the newspaper is damp, push it to one side of the bin and repeat the process until the bin is full but not entirely packed and make sure there are no standing puddles collecting at the bottom. Add half a cup of sawdust or soil so that the worms have some grit to work with. Go ahead and add your pound of worms and watch as they wiggle their way down into the soil and newspaper. Next, bury your food waste into the bedding a few inches deep and cover the bedding with a five page blanket of damp newspapers.

After a few days you should notice some positive results - the worms are digging in and out of the bedding, eating the food waste, soil and newspaper, digesting it and leaving behind worm castings (explain to your kids that it's poop!). It's the worm castings that you really want for your garden. To keep your worms happy keep adding food wastes every few days or so and they'll keep producing that rich black gold for you. Have fun and don't be afraid to get down and dirty!

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2007-08-21T02:20:00.001-07:00

Professional Broker versus Family Agent when Buying or Selling Temecula CA Real Estate by Stefan West

As the Temecula real estate market continues to transform into a buyer's market, one disturbing trend comes up time and time again - the family real estate agent. Why could using an out of area, or new family agent be a major problem and bad buyer decision? Simply put, they don't know what they don't know and due to this issue, often advise their clients poorly.

Now there are many families that have full time professional real estate brokers that work and live in the area they want to move to. That is a great situation in which you can help a family member and they can help you. Frankly, I do it all the time. However, the amount of mistakes being made by people who choose to use an inexperienced family member over a professional and local real estate broker is going to have a lasting impact.

For instance, some of the issues in the high growth areas of Temecula, Murrieta, Menifee, Wildomar and North San Diego real estate are tax rates, future area planning, opportunity costs, negotiation, and the overall smoothness of the transaction. Many people are paying today for their own poor choice in representation. How about trying to sell a home in a place that has now become a major traffic thoroughfare? Or is it harder to sell a home when your tax rate is so much more than surrounding communities or the builder you bought from is now selling the final phase homes at $30,000 less than you paid with another $25,000 in buyer incentives.

Is that a good deal? Not if the tax rate is obscene and certainly not if you are trying to sell your home and the builder is undercutting you now. A lot of new, related agents put their family members into new homes because of builder incentives while fantastic opportunities were available elsewhere. You may have helped that family agent but you really hurt your financial well being and with the real estate crunch now happening, your family agent is most likely out of the business unless the moved on to become a strong and viable professional in their market.

Right now, clients need agents that see, understand, and communicate the real estate landscape to their clients. Buying a home is a major decision and shouldn't be treated as a routine transaction. Although buying a home through a real estate agent or broker is a free service to the client, the agent gets paid to protect and use their professional skills to represent you to the best of their ability. The recent market conditions over the last few years have seemed to make buying a home a more trivial transaction then it really is.

So how do you handle a situation where you have a family agent but would prefer to use a professional? Well, there is the straight communication that you want a full-time professional broker working for you. That is the best way but can lead to some potential hard feelings. Or there is another method that most agents will hate even being mentioned, a referral fee.

The practice of referrals is very common in our business and usually means the referring agent gets 15-25% of the gross commission from your transaction. In this situation you or they can pick out an agent based on their professional and local ability and still give a piece of your business to your family agent, thereby easing any tension. Almost every agent does referrals when we have a client moving to another state or city. The best part is the referring agent doesn't have to know the details of the future transaction, they just get a paid a portion of the commission. Again, as a buyer you pay nothing and yet this way you get the best service available and keep things good on the family front. This can be tough on an agent that works hard for you but if you are a good buyer, it is absolutely worth their time and now you also have a professional you can use in the future when you sell, or friends move to the same place. Life is often about making good connections with experts who help you maximize your investments. A home is one of the biggest investments you will make, so don't make a poor decision that will impact your purchase decision, negotiating, financial wellbeing, and future long term investment value just to give a part-time or inexperienced family agent a deal.

* Local tax rate information can be found here - Temecula-Murrieta tax rates.

About the Author

As a Professional Temecula-Murrieta-Wildomar-Menifee Real Estate Broker, Stefan West is an expert in real estate in the communities of Riveriside and San Diego Counties. Please visit http://www.stefanwest.com for more information.

2007-08-18T00:41:00.001-07:00

Family Summer Vacation Destinations by Amber Jonas

Where to go seems to be on the minds of everyone planning a summer vacation. The following ideas are tips and hints for summer vacation destination ideas. Whether you like the beach or love the fanciest of resorts, below we have the options for you and your family for a fabulous summer vacation.

Beach-oriented vacation goers will likely love the beaches in Florida. Daytona Beach, Cocoa Beach, St. Augustine and many others will be wonderful choices for the family in search for the best beach vacation. Miami Beach is a wonderful beach vacation for couples but not recommended for teenagers who love to find trouble.

On the west coast, Malibu and Venice beaches seem to appeal to tourists. However, keep in mind that Venice beach is a bit different at night and many people find that Venice beach isn't where you want to be when the sun goes down.

If you are looking for another type of family vacation this summer, then consider the dude ranches of Colorado. These vacations offer families the best in family vacation fun. Horseback riding and many other opportunities await the family who wants to explore the great outdoors.

The Greenbrier Resort in White Sulpher Springs, Virginia offers families the opportunity to see a luxurious resort while taking a piece of history into consideration too. The resort is one of the oldest resorts in America and has been the resort many Presidents and famous leaders have chosen to frequent in the past.

In Asheville, North Carolina, the Grove Park Inn is the most luxurious of resorts. Located near the Biltmore House, the Grove Park Inn defines luxury and offers families the opportunity to breathe in the fresh mountain air while staying in the most luxurious accommodations in Western North Carolina.

Gatlinburg and Pigeon Forge, Tennessee offers fabulous vacation opportunities for families who love theme parks, water parks and lots of shopping venues. The mountains are a great getaway and with Dollywood and other area attractions, vacationing this summer is easy and affordable for everyone in the family.

Another summer vacation destination tip is to consider going to the Big Apple. Especially around the fourth of July, New York City offers tourists something year round. Washington DC is also an awesome vacation for teens who will be curious about many of the museums and monuments.

Whether your family wants to have a summer vacation by the sea or not, these tips will give you some ideas of where to start. So, make a decision and get busy packing!

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2007-08-18T00:31:00.002-07:00

How to Teach your Baby to Fall Asleep by Shannon Jaklic

How do you teach your baby to fall asleep since you and your husband are sleep deprived wondering how long it will take before your little darling is sleeping through the night? Will it be 3 months, 5 months, 8 months, longer .... Well, I'm here to tell you that the sooner you teach your baby how to fall asleep on their own, the better off the whole family will be.

You can start as soon as week six or seven. Of course we can start off with the obvious reason. Mom and Dad get more sleep and the family is less cranky but teaching your baby to fall asleep on their own gives them so many benefits. First of all, they actually sleep better and longer because babies actually go through sleep cycles quicker than adults which they wake up many times through the night and in most cases when a baby knows where they are they are less likely to come to a complete waken state. Babies can sooth themselves back to sleep with a pacifier or the thumb. Mine were both thumb suckers. Second, I found by teaching them to fall asleep at their nap times through the day, they actually slept longer through the night. This gives them a more restful sleep and your baby is happier and more likely to eat better too. Third, and more importantly, it is so much healthier for your baby. We all know that babies grow while they sleep, plus it teaches them independence.

I know what your thinking, how do I teach my baby how to fall asleep on their own? I always started teaching my babies during their naps through the day. I used the three hour rule; when they wake up feed them, play with them and keep them up from the time they got up to their next scheduled nap for three hours. It might be challenging for babies six or seven weeks old, so try keeping them up for 2 1/2 hours. When the time is up and it's nap time, place them in their crib or cradle (on their backs) and gently talk in a soothing voice, stay with them for a couple seconds and walk away. Don't walk too far because you will need to walk in every couple minutes to let them know that your there but it is nap time so do not pick them up. Eventually they will cry themselves to sleep because we all know crying can be exhausting. Stick to this routine day by day and you will see your baby falling a sleep by themselves within a week. If you stick to this eventually your baby won't cry at nap time. They will know it's nap time and go to sleep. Another thing that I mentioned is your baby will be sleeping through the night sooner than later too. I know that this will tug on your heart strings and you absolutely need a good dose of patience but you will find that your baby will be on a great schedule which will allow you to work your business during naps and give you more free time to do the things you enjoy. It will truly be a win win for the entire family!

About the Author

Learn how to make a six figure income working 20 hours a week from home.Also recieve a free home business report at http://www.home-business-parent.com

2007-08-18T00:31:00.001-07:00

Many Parents Teach Their Kids to NOT Listen to Them - Do You? by Kelly Nault

"Dinner's ready!" I yell. Nothing. No pitter patter of feet. Not even a polite "Coming" or "OK." "DINNER'S READY!" I yell louder. I strain and listen. All is calm. Not a creature stirs, not a sound can I hear. Walking down the hall toward their bedrooms I manage to croak out one last "DINNER'S READY!"

Alas, this is how our evening dinners ALWAYS used to begin. Me with a hoarse voice, left feeling underappreciated and unheard! My dog-eared copy of "How to Talk, so Kids Will Listen" just wasn't helping me when it came to parenting or to really communicate with children.

What Our Children Actually Learn from Our "Helpful Reminders"

Although you know your child's physical hearing is fine, do you ever tire of saying the same thing over and over again? Are you ever frustrated to find your child responds better and quicker to others--like your spouse! Ever find yourself shouting, "DID YOU HEAR ME?"

I did too, at least until I found another way to ask without having to nag, threaten or take away privileges. When taking my Masters in counseling psychology, I got to study my favorite parenting subject for three years which was 'what makes kid's tick'-- then I got to practice with thousands of families. Like me, you may be relieved to find out there is a much simpler way to get what you want, and give your children what they most need. Here's what I've learned:

Parenting Reminder Myth #1 - In order to get my kids to do anything, they need to be reminded.

Parenting Reminder Reality #1 - Reminders (gulp!) actually teach our kids to NOT listen to us, and robs children of the opportunity to develop their all important 'responsibility muscle'.

You see, saying ANYTHING more than once, (unless of course they truly have not heard you and ask you to repeat) sends three messages to your child:

Reminding Message 1 - "I don't think you heard me even though my gut tells me you heard me perfectly well."

Reminding Message 2 - "I don't believe you will REALLY do what you say or promise you'll do."

Reminding Message 3. "I don't trust you are totally responsible, and capable of remembering without my reminding you."

As I state in my parenting book, When You're About To Go Off The Deep End, Don't Take Your Kids With You: "Nagging and reminders can actually be an invitation to our children to do the opposite of what we ask! Save yourself the grief and don't go there." Thus, How to Talk so Kids Will Listen, should be renamed How to NOT Talk, so Kids Will Listen.

Communicating with Child: How to Talk So Kid Will Listens Often Means Talking Less

So if we can't remind, then what will we do? How will we get our kids to do anything?! Good question. If you have a child who won't get anything done without a constant diet of your reminders then you have trained your child well indeed. If this is the case, your child knows (consciously or subconsciously) that they have numerous reminders before they HAVE to act. They know this because your reminders tell them so!

So what is your child's cue to finally respond to your request? Usually the volume or intensity of your words, that sound something like this: "IF I HAVE TO TELL YOU ONE MORE TIME...!"

The key to nipping reminders in the bud is to frankly, bite your tongue. This is tough work for those of us who like to talk, but it is worth the struggle! Commit to asking only once. Over time, you will retrain your child to listen to you the first time.

Before Trying This At Home, Please Heed This 'Parenting Warning'!

Expect and be prepared for your child to test you. Your child will still forget. This is part of the retraining process, and indicates that you are on the right track. Your child will expect your reminders. Yet, with 100% consistency, it is common to see transformative changes within just one week.

Be consistent, and decide to provide your child with an opportunity to learn from being forgetful without the usual "I told you so." Instead of reminding, use commonsense consequences that help your child to learn from her actions instead.

When it came to dinners, I called them once and then promptly began dinner with or without them. When they finally arrived, the complaints began: "My peas are cold". I grinned and said, "Why, they were warm when I called you ten minutes ago."

"Will you warm my up my peas?" "I'm busy eating my dinner. Feel free to warm them up yourself." Then I sit back, change the subject and enjoy a well-deserved dinner.

Bon appetit! With consistency, you'll be amazed at how eliminating reminders can heal your child's selective deafness and have your kid finally listen.

About the Author

Kelly Nault-Matzen, MA, family counselor, corporate parenting spokesperson and award winning parenting author of When You're About To Go Off The Deep End, Don't Take Your Kids With You shares time-tested tools that motivate children to want to be well behaved, responsible and happy! To gain access to more parenting tools and to access your free online parenting course visit http://www.ultimateparenting.com

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2007-08-17T02:18:00.001-07:00

Are you putting your family at risk?

I know that for the most part people generally care about their families. Most people can take all sorts of insults that are directed to them personally, but you had better not talk about our loved ones. In knowing this I cannot figure out why we do not realize the potential harm we put in our homes. Maybe this is due to a lack of understanding or maybe it is due to good advertising or maybe it is due to the fact that we have never taken the time to consider what I am about to share with you.
I think that everyone has the right to know about what chemicals and toxins are used to make up our "consumable products". The sad thing is that these companies spend millions of dollars in advertising their products, but they do not have to tell us anything regarding any health risks associated with those products. Only 1% of toxins are required to be listed on labels. Regulation only requires labels to indicate if the products are combustible, corrosive, poison, etc. Do you really know the potential health risks associated with these products? Whether a toxin actually causes harm is based on several factors such as: potency; rate of exposure; dose; and individual sensitiviy. The risks associated with toxins are as follows: cancer, irritation to your skin, eyes, stomach, and lungs, liver and kidney problems, learning and developmental disorders, and in worst case scenarios-death. (just to mention a few)
Are we really willing to flirt with disaster on a daily basis? I know and understand that we cannot safeguard our loved ones forever, but we can safeguard our own homes for the betterment of our loved ones. Please research this for yourselves and draw your own conclusions. We can educate ourselves and we can take action. Are there other products out there that are safer on the environment and safer for our families? Yes, there are. Can these products do the same job as what you are currently using? Yes, they can. In the end, you have the final choice to make. You can choose to do nothing, or you can choose to do something. Feel free to email me at StnypntNc@aol.com for more information.

About the Author

A loving husband and father of two beautiful girls would like to share some information with you regarding a "silent killer" that has been turned loose in our homes.

2007-08-16T00:00:00.001-07:00

Family Health Insurance - To Buy Or Not To Buy by Peter Wellington

There are many pressures on the purse of the modern family yet family health insurance it is of paramount importance. In the current health care environment family protection, in the form of family health insurance cannot be mitigated.

Just consider the cost of emergency treatment, medical intervention and the cost of health care professionals and you will fairly soon understand its necessity. Nobody envisages life's storms, they can arrive unannounced as well as unwanted, but when they do come you can be sure that day in hefty bill will soon following close in its wake.

The unexpected can easily run a family to the verge of the financial ruin. It is plainly a simple matter to run up a bill of thousands of dollars in a few short days. How many of us would be able to budget for such an unexpected rain cloud.

When it you consider family health care insurance remember that there are as many policies to choose from, as there are family health insurance companies. The skill in choosing the best policy is to weigh up all of these alternatives and see which one of matches your requirements best.

One of the first things to look out for, before the final choice is decided upon, is the cost of the monthly premiums. Obviously this is to form a major consideration and must be weighed up very carefully against the benefits of the family health care insurance policy. Quite simply you must be able to afford the policy that you plan to initiate.

Another vital consideration is the amount of the deductible. A deductible is the fraction of a claim to be paid by the insured previous to the insurer making any payment. There are plans available that have both individual and family greatest deductibles. Characteristically, this deductible amount is $100, $250 or $500; it really depends on the plan and each one is seen as individual. Some plans, have of late, brought our $1000 deductibles.

As an example of, consider a plan with a $100 deductible; you would be accountable for the first $100 in health care charges for the year. After that, the coverage would be split according to your plan formula that may cover a percentage of the fee charged, or limit your expenditure to a precise out of pocket cost.

With some policies, family health insurance can include a deductible for each person, but may waive the deductible on the remaining members of the family once the deductible has been met on at least two family members. The same may be true for out of pocket expenses, when one or two people have satisfied the cap on these expenses, the rest of the enrolled members of the family no longer have to worry about any out of pocket costs.

Be Wise and Plan For Future Requirements

It is a fact of life that you should never take matters as set in stone as all too often the unexpected can be expected. The only thing that never changes is the fact that things do change!

Alvin Toffler, a well-known futurist, predicts that the only thing that we can be certain about is that things will not stay the same. The unexpected does not have to mean unwelcome. Few families plan the arrival of a new bundle of joy. Yet if a baby turns up, even unannounced, you should be able to automatically add the new baby to the family health insurance policy.

Not all policies are so generous however and the cover may be just for the term of the pregnancy. After the birth new cover may not be available until after a certain set period. I would not recommend this sort of policy if you were considering a family.

Moreover, with some providers their policy would have to be operating for a certain period, say from one up to two years or even more, before specific coverage, such as pregnancy, is available. Naturally, this is to prevent individuals from purchasing family health insurance immediately after they discover they are expectant.

About the Author

You can never tell when you may need this vital yet expensive protection; Peter Wellington who writes for www.best-health-insurance-quotation.com, a website providing a comprehensive archive of free information and guides on family health care protection.

2007-08-14T17:36:00.000-07:00

Keeping It In The Family by Kirsty Dunphey

Over five and a half years from February 2001, I was proud to work with an amazing team and a fabulous business partner to create a real estate agency that achieved beyond our wildest dreams for the business. First of all our managing director when we started the company (me!) was just 21, we were named the 24th fastest growing company in Australia (BRW 2004 Fast 100) and I was named Telstra's youngest ever National Young Business Woman of the Year in 2002.

Obviously along the way we also had our challenges and our difficult times growing our team from 3 people to over 50 - but far and away one of the most interesting experiences for me was that our first full time staff member was my own Mum!

To follow are some tips and pieces of advice I would happily pass on from my experiences to anyone who is working in a business or considering employing family.

Loyalty guarantee. You can rest easily in most cases knowing that a family member will always look out for your best interests. Having my Mum on staff meant I always had someone in my corner and always had a friendly ear when I needed to vent.

Don't just assume it's going to be great. I would recommend sitting down prior to the work arrangement starting and discussing the following key issues. Establishing a process if there is a disagreement Confirming that one person in the relationship will be able to take direction and sometimes critisism from the other (even if for the rest of your lives it has been the other way around!) Establishing a defined exit strategy if one or both parties don't feel the arrangement is working out

Inside / Outside Rules. Define how your relationship will work inside and outside of work. For example, inside work in my relationship obviously it wasn't going to be that appropriate for me to say Mum - so we went with Laurel (even though she often used Darling instead of my name!)

Be Flexible. Working with family can be very rewarding, but it can also lend itself towards conflict at times. Make a commitment early on that you're going to be flexible and that what happens at work isn't going to impact on the valuable family relationship you have outside of work.

Copyright/Reprint Info - The contents of this article written by Kirsty may be copied, reproduced, or freely distributed for all nonprofit purposes without the consent of the author as long as the author's name and contact information are included. Example: Reproduced with permission from the Kirsty Dunphey weekly email. To subscribe to Kirsty Dunphey's weekly email, go to www.kirstydunphey.com

About the Author

Kirsty Dunphey has first and foremost always been entrepreneurial. From opening her first business at 15 - she's had the bug her whole life. Combining her passion for entrepreneurialism, customer service, property investment, building wealth, developing your sales skills, youth potential, business practices, real estate and enhancing public perception and skills of real estate agents Kirsty now delivers around 30 keynote speeches a year.

2007-08-13T18:42:00.001-07:00

Pool Safety 101: Keeping You & Your Family Safe & Sound by Gregg Weiss

We've all heard them: there is certainly no shortage of pool-related horror stories. Unfortunately, drowning is the #1 cause of death for children under the age of five in Florida, Arizona, and California and the #2 cause in over a dozen other states.

In addition to giving you information on pool building and pool design, we are committed to sharing information on staying safe in and around the pool, for you, your family and your guests.

Pool Safety for Kids & Families The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends that all families with children under the age of five install a 4-foot-tall (or more) pool fence or guard (many states, such as Florida, already have pool fence / pool barrier laws in place) around all sides of the pool (or that they hold off on pool building until the children are over age five). Watch a video on pool safety tips.

Other key pool safety tips include these: · Never, even for a split second, leave young children unattended in or around a pool. Keep a phone by the pool for emergency calls and also for answering (many drownings have occurred while the person supervising ran into the house to pick up a ringing phone.) · The pool fence should completely separate the pool from the house and play area. It should also self-close and self-latch, with latches higher than the children's reach. · Do not let your child use or rely on air-filled toys and "swimming aids" such as "floaties." · Anyone watching young children around a pool should learn CPR and be able to rescue a child if needed. · Toys should always be removed from the pool after use so that young children are not tempted to reach for them. · Children should be trained in water survival from the time they are able to walk or crawl to the pool. That said, do not consider a child "drown-proof" just because he or she can swim or has had swimming lessons. · If a child is missing, the pool should always be checked first, as each second counts when it comes to preventing drowning. · Don't leave the pool fence open or proper open at any time, even for a second or two.

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